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And, in the end, because I'm feeling better (and much sexier) about myself I am finding that I purchase a LOT less "keep up with the Jones'" products and more "I like this because it fits ME" products. In the end, I am actually saving money because I'm using the things I buy instead of just having them around.
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This is so true! I could care less about the latest MP3 player, the fancy laptop and so on. My husband is the one who wants the latest gadgets, and I'm the one who gets a thrill out of buying a nicer laundry detergent or a $3 bunch of flowers for the table.
It kind of reminds me of maybe why Starbucks became so successful - the idea of "little luxuries" that anyone can convince themselves to splurge on. Yeah, it's really expensive coffee, but it's a lot less expensive than dinner out at a five-star restaurant. People flocked to the new coffee places (back in the early '90's) because it was do-able and everyone could feel a bit more pampered, a bit more luxurious once in awhile.
Since I started this low-carb WOL, I've found myself much more into making the things around me more beautiful. I wonder if it's because I'm not able to indulge in the sugary-treats, that I've found a different way of "treating" myself. Slowly, over time, I started to treat myself and my body better too, with things like fancy shower gels, little lip glosses and so on. But it started with silly things like putting the water into wine glasses at dinner and lighting candles. Flowers on the table, folded napkins, using the "good" dishes and so on. Then it was lined seagrass baskets in the linen closet to hold the rolls of toilet paper, the bottles of medicine and whatnot. I started putting a few flowers (taken from the dining room table) into a little bud vase on the bathroom vanity.
I even started trying to make my food look better, by adding a sprinkling of chopped Italian flat-leaf parsley, a few quartered cherry tomatoes or a teaspoon of grated asiago cheese on top of what we were eating.
Then I graduated to "beautifying" myself a little bit, and these "little treats" make me feel soooooo much better about myself, despite my long stall and all the stress in my life lately. I could treat myself at least as well as I treat the furniture or the laundry. I could buy a few sparkly barrettes for my hair, a lip gloss, a new shower gel. These things are so inexpensive, yet they've made a world of difference. If I can spend 30 minutes sweeping and polishing the wood floors in the dining room, the least I can do is spend 3 extra minutes in the shower with an exfoliator or some really nice smelling in-shower moisturizer.
Anyway, I just saw your post (I'm out of town, and have been for the better part of the last two weeks) and your comment on not needing to keep up with the Jones' resonated.
Hope everyone's having a nice weekend. We're on a business trip that was extended, and now my husband is working all weekend here...but hey...we're in Puerto Rico, and I'm enjoying the ocean.