Sat, Jun-13-15, 16:41
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Senior Member
Posts: 1,448
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Plan: HFLC
Stats: 197/168/157
BF:
Progress: 73%
Location: Iowa
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Omablue! I have been watching your posts for several months now and know that you have been stalled in the 160's. However, when you finally accepted that 160 something was the weight you were comfortable with, you started downward again. It seemed like once the pressure was off, things started happening. Almost like when someone gets pregnant after finally choosing to adopt!
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Yup! I noticed the same thing. That is why I have carefully tried not to get too excited about the little drops. I can only conclude that I needed to shake up my eating a little bit. I have added some things and have let myself go on some of my more rigid rules. I am still too uptight about the project however.
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I totally agree that weight loss/gain is 99.99% physiological. We don't get fat because there is something wrong with the way we think about foo. And naturally skinny people do not have a healthier mental attitude towards food and eating than we fatties. That's the whole "blame the victim" way of thinking. We get fat, and stay fat, because of the way our bodies react to the food we eat.
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This is what my counselor says. He has done all this study and has created a measurement called the metabolic factor. If you have a low one you tend to stay thin. If you have a high one, you have to have realistic goals because it could be near impossible to lose all you want to. That said, I think there are learned behaviors that cause us to eat more than we need. Food is everywhere in advertising, social events, the workplace etc. And truthfully, knowing what to eat is not all that easy. I thought for years that i was a healthy eater, so why was I 40 pounds overweight? Because my healthy diet was based on low fat and high carb. I have counted calories all my life, including this go round. I feel like I should have known that low carb was the answer. But.... I just opened my mind to the information 10 months ago.
I must say, my husband is not unsupportive. He doesn't bring forbidden food into the house for the most part. But he does bring in stuff that neither of us should eat now and then. He eats it. But, he loves to go out to eat, and he is very accepting of the fact that I don't. I used to go with him but not as often as he wants to. Now I don't go except on special occasions, or trips. He is willing to let me pick the places. But he went out alone last night and has just left to go tonight. This may be explained by the fact that i often do not cook for him. I have done a lot better about that since the new woe, but I still have days where I just make a bone broth, or a salad for myself. So he is happy to go out alone.
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