Maybe ya'll can sit on the same row, but just put grandma, grandpa and an aunt or two in between. I think you should sit closest to the aisle and he on the other end. Just figure out a way to do it and make sure he's clued in at the rehearsal!! I'm sure you're not the first to deal with this situation....maybe go to Barnes & Noble and pull a few wedding etiquette books off the shelf and see how it's normally handled. Or ask you friends how they think you should handle the seating! Just come up with a PLAN so that you know what to expect.

I sympathize with you, hon. You'll be fine.