Look,friendship is about love, acceptance and support....my bestest friend. Diana..loved me fat. thin...l/c or s.a.d...skinny or fat..our relationship has ALWAYS been abt things way deeper than our appearance..over 20 yrs later we are exactly the same sz...embrace l/c.....but neither of us..badgered the other to get there.. we have always embraced the positive....the joy in our lives....and we have kicked each others butts when we were negative...disrespectful or arrogant..thats true friendship..IMHO