Why bother? To make him crazy--not out of desperation, but for the ego boost of getting attention. Then, blow him off. Be cute, have a great time, flirt a little, and act like he doesn't matter. I haven't read the entire thread, so I may be speaking out of turn, but its possible that he finds your WL intimidating. Like you're now out of his league. I have a friend, who, as she was losing weight, her BF became abusive. It's entirely possible that he's the loser, and realizes that you're too good for him!