Hi, Redirish. Congrats on the April honeymoon. Swimsuits and other resort wear are pretty good motivation. But please don't beat yourself up trying to reach a "goal weight." Clearly somebody loves you exactly as you are, and you should love you, too. Just aim for relaxation and enjoyment, okay?

Meanwhile, you can of course work on building a healthy nutrition plan to carry you forever into the future. I can verify that a happy relationship with a partner can be quickly fattening. I'd suggest aiming to eat REAL FOOD, and foods you like, in reasonable quantities. Janet''s resources will help you decide.

Best wishes.