Welcome KOrman to these forums. This is an awesome place for support & advice to aid you in your journey to a healthier & happier you. As thud said there are no stalls when this takes a lifetime commitment. You are not racing anyone. Patience & consistency with this woe is the key to success. As you said we know exactly how you feel as many of us have walked in your shoes in our own lives.

Pick out some journals to read through as not only are they inspiring but can teach some very valuable lessons. Start a journal!! Great tool for accountability & support. Wishing the best of luck my friend.