Mon, Nov-28-11, 08:02
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Senior Member
Posts: 161
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 260/194/185
BF:too much :-(
Progress: 88%
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Originally Posted by SeaLady
WeimieMom.
I'm so sorry to hear that your DS and his wife have not been spending Christmas at your house for 9 years. I know how this must hurt, and my heart goes out to you. I'm sure they know that the door is open- just continue to let your son know that he and wife are welcome and that you miss him very much. Maybe something will click with him at some point. He should realize that this is very hurtful and can easily be remedied.
SeaLady
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You would think it's easy, but it's not. DIL is inflexible and selfish. It's sad, because there are now two grandchildren who barely know us. And every year there are huge discussions (and sleepless nights) about it. The bottom line is I feel sorry for my DS having to be put in that position by her year after year.
....and so goes the days of our lives...... but thanks for the thoughts... it's nice to know someone else out there thinks something is offline.... |