I went to a family reunion this summer and apparently only one person - my sister - noticed my weight loss. At least she was the only one who complimented me. I had been steeling myself for negative comments from certain other family members, but thankfully, that didn't happen. Tho there was some family sorrow that put a pall over the visit - my oldest aunt had gone into the hospital the day before the family picnic and we all knew she was dying. Then a few weeks later everyone was looking at my daughter & her new husband, so I didn't expect anyone to notice me.