Alaine, I have to agree with Rebecca in her support of Cali.
I am sure she did not mean you or Mr Kaufmann any ill will.
This forum is full of supportive, helpful people, and I have seen Cali to be one of the most helpful.
That doesn't mean I in any way bear you any ill will! In fact, I hope you continue to lose weight and enjoy this great forum.
All the best to you, Alaine.

Rosebud