I loved your story and advice. I unfortunately had the experience of being the fat mother of the bride. A day I had looked forward to ever since she was born turned out to be an uncomfortable day for me. Just shopping for the tent to wear at her wedding was harrowing. But those days are gone.
meanwhile, Va Va va Voom!! That swimsuit picture rocks!! I haven't bought a swimsuit in 9 years. You are truely inspiring!