welcome aboard tama! i've not been around much lately because of some difficulties at home. i have been lurking, but not posting, just haven't had the time! you are doing so well, with so little support! good thing we have computers!! i think you have the right strategy for the wedding dinner. as for quickie meal, have you checked out the recipes here? one of the keys to this way of eating is preparation. when ever you cook, cook double, so you'll have something quick in the fridge. cold roasted chicken is great to nibble on! you probably have the freshest seafood! seafood cooks up so fast! you're so lucky! keep some left over in the fridge.
keep posting away! i love your sense of humour!