Well I don't know how u can live your whole life not ever "cheating" but really that is what I need to do. I never truly enjoy the cheat anyway. It is immediate regret. I never regret when I don't eat the sweet or carb. I have to remind myself of that. Constantly. It is easier to say no when I am near goal feeling looking good...until I freak out and fear success. Oh well. Got to keep trying. Not give up. At least when I keep trying I don't pass a certain weight and size. I am down from an 18 to a 12. My goal is a solid size 8. Oh so beautiful! I feel so light and right at that size. Got down to a 10 not long ago but quickly lost it. Trying to hang on to size 12 for now while I figure out how to get rolling again. I want this.