I feel your pain, leelanu. But I agree with everything everyone posted before. I don't think it had anything to do about you, it was the event, etc.

Seriously, does it really matter what they say or don't say? This is all about you and your good decision to make yourself healthier, happier, thinner and have more self-esteem... am I right? Just keep doing what you're doing and you'll see the results cause you're doing this for YOU not them... it won't stick if you're not doing this for YOU. This is one of the few selfish things we can do for ourselves... no one else can.

Wishing you continued success on your LC WOE journey!