I haven't gotten any either. I've taken pics. Even self-hating ME can see the difference! Your family, like mine, is just too busy being absorbed in themselves. If your spouse has complimented you and YOU see the difference, forget thoughtless people. You are doing great. Keep going! You said you aren't doing it for them. So forget about it. They'll notice eventually. Or maybe they'll still be busy being critical about nonsense. You know how your journey is going and that is all that matters.