If you can google the information you require, then that's the best alternative to stressing about when the hammer will land on your head. I had enough of that living with an alcoholic father that would pounce on you if you so much as accidently dropped your fork on the floor or other infractions that you would be completely unaware of.

Besides, I'm doing amazingly well without their help and/or so-called support. I'm almost at my 5 month mark with very few problems. I don't need "tough love" I need encouragement and intelligent and polite comments.