Thank you, Tracey. I'm glad that there are people who understand. I guess that going out there (working with teenage boys), I expected to have them mocking me, etc (who cares...lol) but my biggest mistake was to assume that the staff and the youth would behave differently. After last night, I have decided to just view certain staff as one of the youth who I am not allowed to reprimand and try to keep as much distance between us as possible. I've no idea why she hates me but I'm not going to kiss her back side... it's her problem if she wants to hate me... I have no requirement that everyone like me. All of this drama that people like to live in sure takes away from the joy that we could all be sharing. ANYWAY (I tend to get off-topic and ramble)... thanks again for letting me know that others have experienced the same thing.