Babies are spoon‑fed a dollop of obesity
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As a babysitter I was often instructed about how much the baby "should" eat... but I also saw how insistent the baby would be about what they wanted!
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My older sister, born in 1950, was not given food until 6 months, which was the norm promoted by pediatricians then, and about the time infants naturally started to be interested in food. 5 years later, due to advertising and the processed food industry getting a few seats on the USDA nutrition panels, my mother and her friends were urged to stuff us babies with pablum. The mother who got her baby to eat at 2 or 3 months was held up as the ideal. Guess which bunch of kids ended up with weight problems?
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Haha. I was born in 1952, and was exclusively breast-fed by my mother for the first six months. When my sisters came along in 1956 and 1957 my mom had some health issues that prevented her from breastfeeding, so they both got formula and pablum also. Yet here I am the one with all sorts of weight and health problems and my two sisters are slender (both of them put together weigh less than I do!) and are in good health. |
What horrifies me now is the constant feeding with juice, cereal, fruit, sugared yogurt, and the like. They don't give them meat unless it is heavily breaded to disguise the meatness. And so much "health food" soy based snacks and things.
These poor kids. |
The Paleo Parents of three boys found their asthma and behavior issues vanished when they fed them real food. Breastfeeding when Mom ate right was easier. The baby slept through the night, the oldest "problem child" won a citizenship award, the father ditched his ADHD meds and the mother started actually digesting her food instead of battling an array of allergic and digestive reactions.
It's an amazing story. |
My biological kids were premies and they didn't eat until they were almost a year. I think I tried to give my oldest food so she'd sleep better, but she had the tongue thrusting reflex until she was about 11 months so it didn't go very well. :lol: But I'm a pretty relaxed parent and food was not something I ever wanted to fight over so I gave up pretty quickly and let my kids learn to feed themselves (unfortunately, that mostly meant Cheerios and those gross little hot dogs meant for babies).
My adopted kids on the other hand came from foster care and they were feeding themselves very early on. I remember one of my boys was drinking coffee (and that was probably the least worrisome of his habits) and eating any food or drink left on tables when he came to us at about a year of age. I think this is the key: Quote:
I firmly believe emotional health trumps all things physical and so I very deliberately let our kids eat as much or as little as they wanted and there were times our adopted kids would gorge themselves until they got sick. Although that sounds awful, they desperately needed to understand that food will always be there for them. I used to give gentle reminders, "careful, you don't want to get sick" but never, ever did I (or do I) battle my kids over food. |
I was born in '53 & my mother's doctor told her it was fine to breastfeed, but she should also give me homemade formula - basically sugar water. Because of that, she was unable to breastfeed for very long - and blamed herself for years.
While I fed my kids many wrong foods - I didn't know any better - at least they weren't forced to eat too much. It may be why they have fewer health problems related to food than I do. A favorite memory of daughter feeding herself: We were getting ready to go somewhere & I was "encouraging" her to eat a little faster. She dropped some food on the floor, and when I knelt down to clean it up, she dumped the rest of the food on my head. Good communication for a pre-verbal child! :D |
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I think that was very wise of you. I did the same thing when I rescued starving cats. Let them eat as much as they wanted, even if they got fat. Within months of calming down, they would stop the gorging and become a good weight again. From my own eating disorder, I know that if anyone tried to restrict my eating at that time I would have gone even more off the deep end than I did. Adding one survival trauma to another is just going to multiply the effects of both. |
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