What is the first thing u do after you get your dream weight?

[Sherise]

For me it would be:

1) wearing tank top and showing off my new thin arms. used to hate speghetti straps because i can't carry them off but nearly every shop sells them and nothing else.

2) wear skimpily to school and have both guys and girls drool at me.

3) flash a winning smile at that thin girl who stole my crush

4)flirt like hell! get a boyfriend for the first time in my life! i don't think i look ugly, it's just that I'm not thin enough.

5) tell my mom to shut up about my weight. true, she's skinny, but i'm not.

It's payback time!!!!!!!!

[Sherise]

Hi!

I am
1) 21 years old

2) an asian chinese living in Singapore, it's not off China by the way, it's near indonesia, malaysia, philippines if you know where these countries are.

You know how small sized asians are. Especially tropical asians.

A to-die-for size in US, Europe is size 6. Down here it is size 4 or 2. I'm actually a size8 or 10, and already I'm wearing Large sizes. It is extremely difficult to find nice clothes here that fit.

And guys here are small as well. And of course they don't like to date someone bigger than them, this is an ego problem, be it that the girl has a nice personality.

That is why I don't have a boyfriend until now. And quite sore about it, cos I really think I'm going to be left on the shelf soon. Can you imagine at 21 I haven't even had a first bf yet? I'm not ugly , that's what I think, had people complimenting me before. And maybe cos I'm not petite. Considering here guys can be 1.7metres (5'8'??) or shorter, me being at 1.65metres(5'6'???) is tall. And being fatter than typical sizes, adds to me looking very much bigger.

I do make attempts to socialise, have quite a wide circle of friends and after school activities. Very active, some friends call me.

I really wish I could taste first love soon. And hopefully locate a husband next time.

[Kristine]

Hi Sherise! You might want to post in the "introduction" forum, where more people can greet you! :)

I had a room mate from Singapore, and she was always trying to *gain* weight! She was quite thin and didn't think it was attractive! I guess we are never happy. :(

Don't worry, I was in my twenties before I had a boyfriend. :blush: Have faith - you will meet a nice boy when the 'time' is right. :) A nice boy will not care if you are a size 2 or a size 22.

[Kaela]

When I reach my goal weight I'll probably cry :) then...
I'm going SHOPPING and buying the hotteset clothes. Lots of shorts. Even when I was skinny I was too self conscious to wear shorts. WHen spring hits I'll be in booty shorts!! ;)

[LBDropper]

For one day I will dress like a *hooch* then go back to normal style of clothes, and not to mention lots of clothes shopping! And eating something I shouldn't I know it's bad but I know I will do it!

[Rainbowgc]

Put on some vampy heels and strut my stuff LOL. Actually I am picturing myself in my faded jeans from my last skinny time
with those vampy high heels!
Erika

[Lux]

I'd play soccer, because I love that game and it's too hard on my knees carrying all this extra weight around. I'd join a soccer team, and go jogging every day. Other than that, I don't think too much would change in my life, except that I would wear shorts and skirts more often.

[nitrovixen]

1. I'm going to buy clothes that fit!! I've been wearing my same old size X, and I'm down a few sizes but still wearing them. I figure since I'm going down more, I'll just wait to buy even smaller clothes! he he.
And make sure to buy at least one outfit that really shows off my new body, like a miniskirt and cute top.

2. Wear a bikini to the beach or water park. in public! (eep) (Get a tan first though or else my neon white skin will have everybody running away screaming)

3. Do a whole new set of pin-up pictures (post-weight-loss) and post them on my website!!

[abarlament]

I guess I'd go swimming (if it's summer), or just show my friends :) No big plans for me though hha!

[nater25]

You know I am a 27 yearold guy, who has been big all my life, played football all through college, and always was dating!
I always seem to go for the skinny stuck up girl who only liked me cause I was on the football team!

THAT SUCKED!


They are so many women out there that there hearts are the most beautiful thing you can ever see!

I could only wish you find a person like all of you!

GUYS suck I know!

but there are ones that care, and will love you for yoru soul!

Also I think you all sound very vert attractive!

ok thats my soap box!!

:daze: :spin: :roll: :wave: :thup:

[nater25]

They only size that should matter is the size or your heart, and ability to love!

<giggle>

had a funny thought about size mattering! lol!

take care all!! :wave:

[Dollygrrl]

Oh, do I have plans! :Party:

1) Go SHOPPING for some cute clothes! I especially want to check out Limited Too, Wet Seal, and other stores with stylish teen clothing (that I look horrible in now :blush: )

2) Swimming at the public pool, and actually lie on my towel instead of wrapping myself up the second I get out of the pool. And I won't wear a "fat lady" swimsuit!

3) wear short shorts and a non-baggy tee for p.e. class!

[Karrahs]

I will do ALL of those things!!!!!!! I think it is going to be really fun, since, IF I stay on track, that I will be down to my ideal weight around my sixteenth birthday!!!!

[nater25]

You all can do it!

go for it

I look forward to the Gap!!!
:wave:
and looking posh when i hit the bars!

Take care all!

[LizzyKitty]

First, I'll jump all over the bathroom (where the scale is) yelling and screaming and singing for joy.

Then I'll buy all new clothes.

Then I'll learn how to mountain climb, water ski, snow ski, etc.

I'll go to the movies and not wonder if I'll fit into the seat (although, hopefully that will happen sooner)

And then I'll try to convince my parents to go on Atkins.

:cheer:

[nater25]

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: you go for it lizzy that is awsome!

I also know what you mean about them damn movie theater seats...god for bid you have a cell phone r key in your pockets!!

they are fitting much better now though!
just wish there wasmore knee rooms LOL!


anyhoo keep it up!! :roll:

[Puggy]

I'm going to go to Victoria Secret, Nordstrom, K-Mart whatever and buy some underwear that has some intact elastic in it. These saggy old parachutes of mine are getting on my nerves and after dropping more than 50 pounds thus far, they are starting to effect the way I walk. I feel a bit of a dope sashaying into a room with my new trimmer figure and having to stop periodicaly to pull my drawers up.
Honestly though, I have been buying new clothes (trousers, shirts etc.) up a storm the last few weeks, but I haven't had the nerve to get new underwear - the final frontier, I guess.

[turrabuhl]

This is what keeps me going!

1.] My grandparents are buying me a new wardrobe when I reach my goal! :D :daze:

2.] Being able to wear whatever I want, and not have to worry about fretting in the mirror over the large fat bulges. :p

3.] Be the first to jump into a bikini, and go "let's get the party started".

4.] Be healthy. (the most important one, of course) :D

5.] Seeing people's faces that haven't seen me in ages. :eek: Yes, that is why I'm enjoying this so much. :p

6.] Anyone who ever thought I didn't have the willpower to stick with this, was VERY wrong.. and I'm ready to flaunt the proof. :roll:

That's my list. I am tons happy right now. I love my body. I love my life. I love me.. so, when I reach my goal weight, you won't be able to dampen my mood for anything. :wave:

[StarDancer]

Hello all,

Its amazing how our goals are so smiliar - to take pride in our new bodies and flaunt our hard earned reward :thup: !
Here is my list when I reach my goal size;

(1) Book my long dreamed of trip to Australia :sunny:
(2) On the way from the travel agency, stop at the Bikin Village and pick out a cute string bikin to wear on Australian beaches
(3) Make my way to the tanning salon to get a bit of a tan so I dont burn there.
(4) Head on down to the hairdressers to streak my hair. For some reason, I wouldnt really let myself streak my hair or do anything drastically different to improve my look because I always thought that it would be useless if im not thin... stupid huh. :confused:
(5) Consider buying some other new clothes, but that can wait, since all I will really need in Australia's gold coast is a bikin ! Just joking .. :p Id get some nice clothes that ARENT from old lady or plus stores.
(6) Stand in front of the mirror and ooh and ahhh at my new form, on average of about ten times a day . :lol:
(7) Send a picture to my aunt overseas who always comments on how "healthy" :blush: i look (or used to look , when i get there )

Thats all I can think of for now *daydreaming* . This kind of topic really motivates me !!!

Carrie

[cjcbabydol]

Im 23 years old about to graduate college in may and what I would do is...

1. run around the house naked (as I have never been able to do that w/o grossing myself out) :hyper:

2. Buy something from Victoria's Secret w/o having the sales person say umm I dont think we carry that size

3. Enjoy life and the fact that I accomplished one of the hardest things I ever set out to do!!!!!!!!! :clap:

I know that we all can meet our goals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :cheer:


Here is to remodeling the outsides of our temples!

[JolieFleur]

I am going to visit my fiance - whom I got together with when I was at my largest, and he loved me anyway God bless him (that's how I knew he was right for me and loved me as a person, not a body!!!) - down in Jackson, TN at his college.

Not only do I want to surprise him, but I want to give him the chance to show off his hottie fiancee to his friends!!!

Keep it up folks - they're only visions now, but how wonderful it will be when we get there!

[twostars]

My goal is kind of corny, but it's something that means a lot to me.
I'd like to be at my goal weight (actually.. just fit enough) to get a tattoo for my eighteenth birthday (October 15). My reasoning is that it will signify me being secure enough with myself to do it. Everytime I look at the tattoo I want to be reminded of all the hard work I will have done and all of the weight I will (hopefully) have lost. I also want to maintain my weight from that point on. Nothing is worse than a streched out tattoo, right?
I want to go to the prom next year, too. That was actually my reasoning behind dieting in the first place.. I'm not that concerned with going to the prom, but I missed out on so much fun because I couldn't get a date. All my friends went, and I know it's not a big deal, but I still felt cheated. I figure that by next year I'll have no problem snagging a date. This diet is not only helping me get fit, it's also boosting my confidence and allowing me to believe in myself. I have very low self-esteem, too. Everyone has noticed how happy I am recently, and that makes me feel good.

[EciGirl19z]

Wow!! We are all so alike that its crazy!!!! Ok heres what I want to do.

1) Go buy the most expensive/sexiest/skimpiest bathing suit that I can find!!!!!!!!!!! AND WEAR IT!!!!!!

2) Book a short 3 day 2 night cruise with my boyfriend and BRING THAT BATHING SUIT!!!!!!!! :D

3) Since I figured I would be at goal by the time Labor Day, me and my friend have arranged to go shopping for all new clothes since there should be some good sales going on. Im saving up $$$ now! Im going to load up on SHORTS (i have not been in any in about 2 years casue I cant stand how they ride up in the middle), skirts, jeans, and alot of cute tank tops and such.

4) PARRRRRTTTAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!

WE CAN DO THIS GIRLS!!!! :cheer:

[HeidiN]

OMG... I'm gonna buy 50 million cute, sexy string bikinis and flaunt it at the pool and beach and flirt like crazy (actually... I already do this :o but it'll be more fun when I'm skinnier :D ). Then I'm putting on short booty shorts and a cute tan colored tank top (I look really good in tan but I always feel like I look too big in it) and go to the mall and shop for cute outfits.

People have told me I could be a model if I lost weight... in a way it's a compliment but it's also kinda mean and it always made me feel bad. :( Anyway, I DID buy a bathing suit today to wear until I get to my goal weight... it's an adorable tankini from old navy and it looks great. not much longer before bikini time :D

I bought a membership to the tanning bed and have been tanning for a week now so I look nice and tan :). My hair is really blonde already but I used the sun-in hair spray lightener to give me some more highlights. I'm so happy with myself right now. and let me tell you... a big tan stomach is a hell of alot prettier than a big white stomach. ;)

I'm gonna take a bunch of pics and post on the site. (before and after). :D

I'm also gonna go buy some really cute shirts like my best friend (who is super skinny and just gorgeous) wears. I'm finally gonna look as good, if not better, than her :D.

I CAN'T WAIT :D :D

[Supastar82]

Hmm, I'd go out and buy new clothes like everybody else. Then I'm getting my belly button pierced and a couple of tattoos. Also I'll be e-mailing a picture of the new me to several guys that have done/said some nasty things to me in the past:). Finally, I'm flying up to NYC trying to audition for a job at MTV :spin:

[nater25]

Kepp up the great work, and you will be successfull

good luck with the MTV thing
i have always wanted to be there as well, but i think skinny i still would not have the look!

well I just want a movie carear so I hope hollywood calls!!

[Supastar82]

Thanks Nathan:)

[lynne_dez]

:p My goals are just like everybody else's.

Goal numero uno: Get a god damn boy friend! I swear I'm going to abduct the first guy I see.

#2: Dance ballet again. I quit about 4 years ago, and I miss it soo much. :(

#3: The obligatory get-a-new-wardrobe goal. It'll be nice to wear what I want, and not what I think hides my body the best... (total side note: I have this black, 3/4's length coat that I wear all the freakin time. Covers all trouble spots. I've been asked if I'm a model while wearing it. I'm going to set it on fire the day I weigh 120!)

#4: Go to the beach in an actual swim suit.

#5: Get a nose job. How's that for originality? Seriously, I've wanted one pretty much all my life. Now that I can finally afford it, I want to wait until I'm thin again. I just can't see myself walking into that doctor's office with the extra pounds. Go figure.

#6: Maybe get a tattoo. I go back and forth on this one. I really want one to commemorate reaching my goals...
What kind of tat are you getting twostars? I always envisioned some kind of black work thing, probably on my back somewhere for myself.

[nater25]

I think one of my goals is to get a boy friend...wait I mean a Girl friend LOL!


any takers LOL!

I need a new wardrobe now, but I am waiting till i hit my goal!

[KristiTalm]

Who doesn't day dream about what they would do at goal???

I was at goal once, during my first time in college and haven't seen it since. I'm 28 by the way, but still a student graduating with my BS in four weeks!

My husband is already drooling over me because I haven't hit this low since before my second daughter who is now two. That is three years since he saw me at my steady 158 weight which I weighed for about two years. The lowest he has seen me is 128, so all I have to do is make it there to send him over the edge :D

When I get to goal I'm buying a bikini and some sexy stylish clothes to show off what I have achieved. I LOVE to look good and I haven't for a long time. I can't wait to see my friends (we only hang out once every couple of months because of the kids and the distance) because they all used to think I was very pretty and then I had to kids and blimped out. They wouldn't say anything, but I can tell. My six year old is not as pc because she was always telling me I had to get some exercise to do something about my chubby role! My MIL also makes some comments, so I'll be glad to get rid of that as well. She is very nice, but I don't think she has ever been overweight.

So, basically, I just want to show myself off. :roll:

[sessa555]

1. Habiscis flower tatoo in the small of my back

2. Pierce my belly button

3. Get some cute low-rider hip-hugger jeans to show off that tatoo and the piercing

4. Put blonde highlights in my hair and cut it short

**These plans are what keep me on this diet!!!**

[sessa555]

1. Habiscis flower tatoo in the small of my back

2. Pierce my belly button

3. Get some cute low-rider hip-hugger jeans to show off that tatoo and the piercing

4. Put blonde highlights in my hair and cut it short

**These plans are what keep me on this diet!!!**

[Tex04]

Well I think I am about with everyone else here. I keep these things in mind for motivation:

1. Mom offered a shopping spree when I hit my goal

2. BIKINI!!!!

3. I have plans to go to Mardi Gras in New Orleans 2004 and wear shorts and a spagettii strap tank!

4. I am going to fit into the little red dress that I bought in highschool and go out on a fancy date with my boyfriend.

5. I want to LOVE MY BODY!!!

[Hbmich]

Alright there are several things I am goning to do.......

1. Wear a cut off shirt to show off my future muscle ;)

2. Wear no shirt to show off even more muscle

3. Get a convertable BMW (hopefully next year when my current lease is over)

4. Most importantly maintain my physique and all that I have worked for

[twostars]

I'd want a little star or something on my hip. Really little (nothing drastic). I want it where it isn't obvious I have a tattoo. I was thinking about something on by back also, but I like the hip idea better. :cool:

[stephy]

i plan on buying very low, low pants and a crop top when i reach my goal weight! and a short skirt because almost all my fat in on my lower body - thighs, calves, ankles, everywhere! :p

[NovaGirl]

When I reach my goal weight...
Seems like a far off dream right now.. I mean,, a good 45lbs.
Ill smile in the faces of all the girls who looked down on me because of my weight.
Ill laugh in my mom's face (who's always been on my back about my weight)
Show my friend who didnt believe in the LC WOL. And try to convince her.
Wear a 2 piece BIKINI! woohoo
Tease all the guys (im really cute in my face :baby: )
Show all of the people who doubted me.. I CAN DO IT!!!

Keep On Keepin' on!

-luv Whit

[Battousai]

Good luck ladies I'll be one of those guys you will probably tease in your two peice bikini's! ; :angel:

[GoHokies05]

Geez, where do I start! My goals are much like everyone else's...

1) New Years Eve in NYC I am going to see a guy who kinda broke my heart 2 months ago- He's going to see me and completely flip at my new bod (and he can't have it!)

2) Belly button peircing (with a cute butterfly ring)

3) A calla lily tattoo on my back or shoulder

4) Go shopping with my friend who is also on a diet

5) Head to Cancun next summer with confidence, a really hot bikini, and a chance to drive a lot of guys wild :angel:

[Alexxa]

sherise, take my advice on this one, don't go out with boys who only want to go out with you because your thin or pretty, they'll never stay, i;ve been out with so many guys like this and on our dates they check out other girls and the probly slept around. just be careful with your selections and don't just lose weight for other people, you HAVE to do it for your self. i;m 17 and i learnt this the hard way.

[IwillLose]

I am going to go places with confidence and not worry about wearing clothes that make my butt look smaller. I am going to stop covering up with sweaters that I tug at all the time.
I CANT WAIT.
Oh, BTW, reading everyone's posts is really inspiring, it just makes me SO EXCITED about reaching my goal. Thanks!

[oceangirl2]

first I will buy some new clothes :wiggle:
then I will enter my first triathalon and finish it!! :thup:
and finally I will start running hardcore to beat my sister in a race :roll:

[keh001]

I will unpack the boxes and boxes of clothes that I haven't been able to wear in a year, and put on all my beautiful clothes that I miss so much!

I will buy a new bathing suit and love myself in it!

I will burn all my diet books!

[Vpeach]

I'm going to do a cartwheel!! lol.. then strut around Houston w/ my new body...maybe I'll wear clothes too :)

[BellaMafia]

when I reach my goal weight I will go buy clothes in a WAY smaller size and celebrate. I will show off my body but not too much. IT will be great.

[Nerbie]

Be happy with the fact that one more obstacle in my road to becoming an FBI Agent is out of the way.

Take some form of self defense class. (Maybe before hand.)

Hopefully a certain friend of mine will want me and I can turn him down.

Have the confidence to hit on Mehri next summer at Camp.

[Nerbie]

Heh also I want to take naked pictures of myself. :spin:

[korry1977]

I will probrably be able to where some old clothes again... go buy some new stuff at banana republic, etc. and maybe even go partying down the richmond strip, downtown houston, etc.

Just plain have fun...

but not enough to distract me from my studies....

[elicash]

My goal is kind of corny, but it's something that means a lot to me.
I'd like to be at my goal weight (actually.. just fit enough) to get a tattoo for my eighteenth birthday (October 15). My reasoning is that it will signify me being secure enough with myself to do it. Everytime I look at the tattoo I want to be reminded of all the hard work I will have done and all of the weight I will (hopefully) have lost. I also want to maintain my weight from that point on. Nothing is worse than a streched out tattoo, right?


hey ya, thats what my plan is. one of the reasons i want to lose weight in the first place is so i have a toned canvas for tattoos. wahoo...... after i reach my goal weight, i want to get "HUMBLED" tattooed across my stomach. hooray for ink.

[meagan]

:roll: When I reach my goal, my husband and I plan to have our second child!!!

[Sinbad]

I don't have anything special planned for when I reach "goal" - I think doing that in itself will be its own reward! (Aside from clothes shopping of course)...
But I do have some milestones planned ;)
At 93 kg I will buy a boat and start sailing again - it used to be such a huge part of my life.
I am trying for 90kg before I go back to SA for a couple of weeks over christmas - to blow my family away - and ESPECIALLY to blow my ex-wife away... She told me she was repelled by my overweight - well, I plan to make her drool *evil grin*

[sknymonkey]

Getting into my old jeans will make me so happy, I won't even need to buy new ones!
I'm also thinking of getting my naval re-pierced. I loved it before and never had any problems, but when I started to gain weight, it started to look silly so I took it out.

[Angie43604]

I haven't gotten to my goal weight but am getting really close. I am actually thinking about lowering it 10 lbs. People say that will be too small for me, but I don't think so. I want to be the weight I actually have on my license. I don't ever remembering being that small. I actually remember being 175 and thinking I want to get down to 150 but I went up to over 200 :cry: Now I am down to 164 and still going.

1.) My original goal was to get my belly button pierced. I did that when I was about 15 lbs above my goal since I did want it to heal so I could show it off next Spring/Summer.

2.) I have managed to go from a size 16/18 to a 9/11 depending on the material. Hence I have bought new clothes. The size 9 I bought actually is a little looser, but they are stretch material.

3.) I want to go out clubbing. I am 22 and have never been clubbing because I got with my boyfriend who is 29 going on 30 and he isn't into that. Kinda old for that kind of scene. I have put off marrying him because I really haven't lived life to the fullest yet. His friend Tom opened my eyes up to that about a week ago when we went to the bar.

4.) I want to get into a bikini and go to Cedar Point to watch the guys look at me. Not that they don't look now, but it will be a little better when my skin does start to shrink back. It is just taking time.

5.) LOVE THE WAY I LOOK!! This is getting better and better every day. My boyfriend's friend has helped boost my self image a little. Needless to say we are just meerly good friends.

Hey everyone....I started to ramble. KNOW IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU CAN DO IT!! I was the one who said I could never do Atkins and I have been doing it since the day after Easter. I do cheat once in a while, but I usually find that I loose more a couple of days after a cheating. STAY STRONG YOU CAN DO IT. CONFIDENCE IS THE #1 THING YOU NEED. DON"T LET PEOPLE SAY ATKINS ISN"T HEALTHY. I AM IN BETTER SHAPE THAN I WAS BEFORE I STARTED IT PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY!!

[mofo]

excellent thread :)!

actually, I don't plan on doing anything different once I've attained my ideal physical physique. Just being healthy and in excellent physical shape is enough of a reward for me. :)

[Bella22]

When i reach goal....
I will take a nice long walk on campus...naked!
ha ha!
No, maybe not completely naked, but at least partially.
I will definitely get me some cute clothes! WHoo Hoo!

[rice_boi]

go shopping for some cut/lean guy clothes, go strutting around proudly on the beach enjoying my sugarfree laura-secord icecream :p

[rice_boi]

and the next time i go to the pool, i hope i won't do any belly-flops coz there ain't going to be a belly :p

[PuNk_BuNnY]

All of your after goal weight dreams are awsome!It's making me try harder to reach my goal weight.
Mine are:

1. Being able to wear a bikini and not scare people! LOL

2. Shopping in regular sizes not plus

3.Getting a tattoo would be cool.I'd get cute one on my lower back.

4.I'm liking the Booty shorts thing everybody!

5. I got my belly button pierced a while ago and I want to be able to show it off.

6. My cousin are really mean to me and they tease me constantly for being "chubby". I see them about once a year and it would blow them away if they saw me skinny :lol:

7. I'm getting a boyfriend!! I'm 17 and never had one.. :(

8. And last...I want to feel good about myself. To know i did somthing to make my life better! :yay:

[sknymonkey]

Hey punk bunny, welcome to the forum.
I know what you mean about shopping in the plus sizes. I always struggled with my weight, and as it got higher, I would tell myself "As long as I don't have to shop at Lane Bryant." Well, after I gained 50 more lbs, I was only to happy to shop there. The clothes fit so well. Even a 16 there was a better cut that a 16 elsewhere. They got a lot of my money.

Oh, and don't worry about not having a boyfriend yet. It is darned near impossible to sustain a meaningful relationship as a teenager, give the guys a couple of years to learn HOW to date, and you'll have much more fun. All that said, if you find someone sooner, go for it!

[bassgirl]

Go to the beach in a skimpy string bikini!

[nater25]

Bella Ill walk naked on campus with you LOL
Jeeeze I did that before LOL!

Way to much to drink that night!!

Im just looking forward to wearing awsome clothes!
I like to think I am a good dresser, but WOW how much better it could be!

[Star85]

Ohh there are so many things I want to do once I'm thin!!

1. Go skinny dipping and jump on this huge water trampoline (yes WHILE NAKED)

2. Go rock climbing

3. Strut my stuff in front of anyone who ever judged me because of my weight

4. Buy a beautiful, fancy, sparkly dress and wear it to dinner (let 'em stare)

5. Go someplace tropical for spring break and not dread the bathing suit unveiling



wow, there are tons more that I could add, but I don't want to take up 5 pages! Nice thread!

[nater25]

WTG go star

I'll take you out to the dinner!
water Trampolines are awsome!!!

[Star85]

Haha, thanks Nathan! Would you be up for skydiving and bungee jumping too? I definitely wanna try both of those once I'm sure the bungee won't snap and I won't plumment to the earth before opening my parachute ;). Oooooh the possibilities...

[nater25]

hee hee hee
I have always wanted to do both....and hell yeah naked would be that much funner!!
im in LOL!!!

[epiphany]

wear some nice clothes that I like for once... and not always feel I have to hide myself in a jacket :)

And I take self portraits... and I would love to do more with my body, rather then just my face. Definitly can help me express :)

[Unit0]

I choose to live every day the way I want to live it.

So... I guess I am already doing what I will be doing once I attain my goal weight.

Unit Zero.

[flynnlee]

GO TO DISNEY WORLD!!!!!! seriously.

go to arkansas where i started college and wear the tightest clothes i can get away in in front of my ex (we are still very, very good friends)

get a skimpy shirt so everyone can see my six pack

get really cute jogging clothes and wear them all over town

[flynnlee]

you know, why do we wait till we get to our GOAL WEIGHT to to things we want, like go on a trip, or rock climb or such? why not now?

[w82bthin]

I think the first thing I would do is shop shop shop... I haven't like to shop since I was a teenager and 130pounds. I only do it out of neccesity now. It's funny, when I first started low carbing I wore huge shirts and jackets (i call them my clown clothes) because of what they hid. Now I find I hate wearing those same shirts and jackets because of what they hide. Weird huh?:rolleyes:

[helena_c]

I wanna shop, too! Seriously, I can't wait to go to my family reunion...I met a ton of my family last summer for the first time, and I want them to see the new me who has made a few lifestyle changes. But I do want to buy clothes, with a single digit size. I want to be able to go back to the people I went to high school with and show them how I look too, because I wasn't popular ( I was the antithesis to popular) and show them a new body...

[wishlist]

ive got two events coming up that keep me going here...

1. Bienvenidos a miami! im going to south beach for spring break...the girls down there walk around half naked and own it. i want that confidence again also...its more internal then external...
2. my bestfriend/boyfriend is traveling in central america for the next 3 months and when he returns i can't wait to make love to him and just feel like a porn star in my body...and i know he digs my 'curves' now but im pretty sure he'll be stoked with what he's coming home to... ;)


oh yeah, and im saving my money for a pair of killer Citizens for Humanity jeans. they are too much money to spend on jeans but my god i have never seen a jean that makes EVERYONE's ass look good...especially when yr ass is on fire anyways. super stoked.

ive had eating disorders before so i try not to set goals by way of events...these things just happen to be coming up at a good time for me to have jumpstarted this new lifestyle...i have to watch my obsessive compulsive behavior about dieting and remember to love the inside me and in turn find the outside me hot hot hot...

[BassClef]

I`ll jump in the car. Drive 4 hours back to my hometown and stand at the Front Door of Wal-Mart. I know my Ex-wife will show up in no time....just to see the look on her face...ohh yeah..and a tropical vacation somewhere!!

[Zacharya_A]

I'd walk around buck ass naked in four inch stilettos and watch my man salivate. I wanna make him forget Beyonce's existence on this planet (even if only temporarily)

[RebelNymph]

I'm going to break out all my itsy-bitsy micorscopic shirts and pimp them with my super low-cut jeans, thong all hanging out. Just like before I got prego. To give you an idea how long it's been my son turned 1 year old on the 11th of this month. How I long to dress skantily again! Yeah MILF-dom here I come!
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/23/23_10_5.gif..(*sigh*)

[WantsMore]

I'm going to get some tight low rise jeans with a shirt that is short. Oh and get a very small tattoo on the lower part of my back.

[erinleigh]

Welll....Yeah a fun topic!!!

1. I would buy a bikini cause I'll look hot in one!!

2. Go to the beach and lay out on mu towel and have the towel be bigger then me.

3. Buy really really cute clothes

4. Be able to borrow my friends clothes

5. Smile because I love this WOL!!!!!



I love going tanning! It makes me feel better, they tell you in the book to take a bath and relax, I go tanning at least twoce a week to calm down!!

I just can't wait to be thin and my favorite thing will be when I go to the Monster Truck Ralleys I can wear my new chevy racing jacket that my aunt bought to motivate me!!! It has!!!

[Justin_UGR]

umm....I'm a guy so...
1. Buy a bikini ( although I won't as hot as Erinleigh)
2. Drink some non-low carb beer
3. Buy a new suit (The one Ihave is from like 8th grade)
4. Walk around with my shirt off, and not care about it!!
5. Maybe go on vacation!

[kerryanne]

When I reach my goal I will...
1) go in to a shop and buy some cloths without being self concious and thinking I am the fattest one in the shop

2) rejoice at being able to go in to any shop I want and know that I will fit into the clothes

3) Go dancing and know that people are looking at me for my cool moves and not my weight

4) Stop being paranoid about how I look and realise that I am a good person

And finally celebrate that I will feel normal and happy and healthy....

[BAM0782]

I think first, I would (will) buy some COOL clothes for the first time in my life.
Then I WILL play softballl on a team for the first time since I've been like 9.
There are soooooo many things I can't even imagine. :cool:

[AndreyV]

Shop, shop, shop!!! Get the clothes that will look good not just on the hanger, but on me too... And go to some warm place (Spain, Greece, Marocco or Turkey) and actually spend my time at the beach, not in the hotel room!!! :)

[iamfat854]

Dollygrrl Do you have AIM??? If anyone who is a teen and isn't obese but is still struggling with or has struggled with loosing around 25 pounds please give me your AIM screen name. I am not being rude about not wanting obese people to IM me, your welcome to, I just also want to talk to someone who comes closely to having almost the same problem as I do.

[iamfat854]

I have a boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months we go to different high schools but see each other enough. Our familys know each other then we got to know each other we clicked right away. We met at the beginning of last summer before I put on this weight, but he claims to love me so much and doesn't consider me fat. I've argued about this, cried to him about being fat and so many other things. Finally he agreed to try to help me as much as he could. I feel so lucky to have that support but he just doesn't understand how it is nobody he knows is fat. He is on the hockey team and does motocross and works for his Dad's construction company (in the summer he works) and so he is constantly burning carbs or w/e you burn haha and he doesn't eat like me, I am hungry A LOT of the time. It's so hard

[Bread Who?]

i'm going to wear shorts.

for the first time since like 8th grade.

WOOHOO!!

[rumdum]

I know this is a really old post - but WHO CARES?! :lol:

When I reach my goal weight *and apparently the healthy BMI for my height* of 120 -125 I am going to:

1. Look great in a bikini with sneakers. I live in Florida. It's practically a MUST down here. It's been 2 years since I've worn one but I promise I'll get a better one - not the one that's on sale at Old Navys.

2. White pants are unforgiving. But at a 120lbs....COME ON!

3. Where a summer dress. I'm such a casual dresser that when I even wear just a skirt - I look like I'm trying too hard, or that I'm overdressed, or it just doesn't look right. You know how some girls *whether they been on tv or not* just look normal wearing a dress. They look casual wearing a skirt. It fits them and they don't look overdressed AT ALL. I'll look like that one day.

4. Finish the damn mini triathalon I've been saying I'll do*

Good luck to everyone!

RD

[heavenly2g]

When I reach my dream weight, I'm going to do the physical things such as change the way I look (ok, not completely), but I'll also finally be able to shut my doctors up and show people that the overweight teen who you didn't care for is now this girl who can't stand you because you think that size 2 is the ultimate size. I think that losing this weight is an ultimate guy sorter. The guys who look at you while you are eating an apple, is imagining your waist expanding , and leaps up to take it from you hand, those are the losers who don't appreciate anything good and the guys whos don't then they are the winners.
As for lifestlye, I'm going to party like I have never done before (ok, not completely) The truth is that I have great friends who never care how big I was, because they was going to get me to have fun and like it. So now that I am losing this weight, it doesn't seem like there are a lot of things that I want to do once I am done losing weight. Its funny because, years ago, I thought about all these things that I couldn't do until I lost weight, but now I am doing this list topsy-turvy.

[DarthRaidr]

Breast reduction!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Akasha]

I am going to do several things:

1) Go to a bar and dance my heart out- not feeling all blubbery, but feeling sexy!

2) Definately going to buy some revealing clothing. Something that will show off my to-be-flat belly. ;) A bikini, definately!

3) At parties, I will be less shy and more open to dancing, being flirty and outgoing, etc.

4) Get a make over, do my hair, make-up, etc.

5) Throw all my old hoodies away. No need for them anymore!

[clm130]

I cannot wait to reach my goal for several reasons-
- Wear tank tops in public
- Not having to wear a jacket even when its hot to cover up
- Not having to hold my purse against me to hide the rolls
- Actually believing someone when they compliment me!!!
- Walkin in somewhere and not thinking that everyone is judging me for my weight.
- Not standing behind my friends as they are getting hit on and drinks bought for them!!
- Wearing what I want to wear- not what I have to wear to look okay.
- Feeling a huge sense of accomplishment!!! :thup:
- Feeling beautiful, sexy and confident!!!
- Seeing my ex-boyfriends facial expression when he sees me!! ( i know its childish)
- Lookin in the mirror and actually like what I see!!!
- Borrow clothes from my roommates!!
- SO MUCH MORE!!
This is a great thread- way to get motivated-

[sbd4me]

I can't wait till I reach my goal weight! My reward will be getting the new red mini monogram Louis Vuitton bag or one of the Dior Girly collection bags! lol What can I say I am a total girl!

[ex_vegan]

I will happily be able to wear all of my old clothing that was so hottt! Seriously, I will also buy some new stuff to wear as a reward and not be so hard on myself in the future! hot pants......

[kindergrrl]

The first thing I'll do is go out shopping for some new clothes in all the stores I've not been able to shop in because clothes were too small. I'll have a great time and buy anything that I like!

[Lessara]

My dream weight?

Buy out Victoria Secrets!!

[sexibod]

I am definitely gonna go shopping for clothes which show off my body,like close fitting tops and stretch jeans and shorts and summer dresses...i cant wait. now i'm even considering a tattoo on my lower back!!

[astrocreep]

I'd jump for joy, stare at myself in the mirror all day long, buy 2-3 new articles of clothing, dunno really what i'd do.

I focus everyting on what i'll do when im rich not when i loose weight! LoL Cause I dont need to really loose weight to be happy I need to have some money to be happy. LoL. I dont mean that in a shallow way at all, it's just my family has been really really poor for a few years now. We used to have a nice big house, expensive things, and etc. But now NADA!! LoL. So money, that'll make me happy.

[Equinox]

When I reach goal, I'm gonna get a room as high up as possible in the Radisson Plaza, which is a highrise hotel downtown Oslo. We only have two (count 'em) skyscrapers and Plaza is one. I love a great view! Then I'll shop for a while, get one or two great outfits. Then I'll go to my pre-arranged spa appointment wearing "fat clothes", with my favourite of the "skinny" outfits in a bag. After some luxurious treatments, having metamorphized into the skinny new me in the great outfit, I'll go have a drink at the top of the hotel and watch the sunset... Then dinner!

[sbd4me]

Just an update... I have reached my goal weight! :) It has happened and I am so excited. So there are a couple things that I have done since I reached goal. First, I bought a new bikini and some new skirts and tops that show off my new bod. Second, I bought myself a new purse that I have wanted for a really long time which is what my original goal reward was. So don't give up it can happen!

[Aussie_Gal]

Congratulations sbd4me! Way to go! :cheer:

[megz]

Yeah big congrats sbd4me!

Me... I'd buy "real" clothes (something more like clothes, less like sacks) and get myself all done... a different hair cut, colour, manicure, pedicure, and everything else.

[xXTubbyxX]

you guys are doing so great...i cant wait to lose 10 more lbs.. i just need a lilmore improvement on myself to makeme beleive this diet will really work

[Lady_Bug]

1) go on a major shopping spree in bebe bcbg nordstrom refrence etc
2) go to my aunts house in Marina del rey(shes always put me down) to show off my new bod then go swimming !!!

[Miss Model]

1. Get a mystic tan (spray on tan)
2. Go shopping for a mini skirt and bikini
3. Call up my X boyfriend (or anyone from my past who was horrible to me) and invite him to do something (on a "friendship" basis ofcourse) then BLOW him away with the way I look... and leave him wanting more...

[ChaChaGirl]

1) Scream my lungs out and jump up and down on the scale until it breaks
2) Drive over to the states and buy out Abercrombie and Fitch
3) Wear my favorite jeans again...and scream and jump
4) Go swimming
5) Talk to the cute guy at the bus stop :lol:

[athene]

I am going to buy THIS DRESS (http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Clothing-Short+Dresses&product%5Fid=21084) I'll find some packed place to wear it to.

I'm going shopping

And then I'm going to the fair. I've avoided that place for so long because it's like all of the skinny girls bring out their shortest outfits to go, and I don't want to be "the fat chick"

[roguegirl]

what am i going to do? what am i NOT going to do!
depending on wheather or not i make goal by the time i graduate xray school, i'm either going to spend my HUGE *compared to what i make now* paycheck on brand new clothes from old navy and goody's *i can't fit into anything they sell right now* OR if i'm still in school and poor, then hit the second hand/thrift store shops and go crazy! i love those places because you can find really cute stuff if you look *even cuter stuff if you're skinny*
i've always been a casual dresser, so shopping at old navy is my dream.
i'm going to go to my next high school reunion * they have them biannually* and see if anyone recognizes me.
i'm going to RUN!!
email scantily clad pictures to my ex and wish i could be there to watch his jaw drop.
go dancing
never ever ever get fat again!

[Stephbob]

Well, so far I've bought some clothes which ARE going to fit me by the time I go back to FL in February, and blow my boyfriend away as he hasnt seen me since I started Atkins in October! He's seen a couple of pictures but nothing huge.

As for big rewards, I haven't thought of anything yet! I'll scream when I see the numbers on the scale, and I'll run around the house, call my mom, call my boyfriend, then go shopping hehe

[bride911]

When i get to my dream weight, i'm getting my belly button pierced...and getting a new tatoo somewhere that i can show it off with skimpy clothes.

[kap904]

It is so inspiring and exciting to read about everyones plans!!

#1 be naked when ever i can!! haha, nothing more beautiful than the ol birthday suit!!!

I am definatley going to get my bellybutton peirced, wear a bikini at the beach WITHOUT clothes on top for the first time in my life, lots of pictures, maybe a day at the spa, and of course, shop... maybe for some Prada or Dior which is something i've never done... haha, the possibilities are endless!!I just can't wait!!!!

What fun this is!!!

[rexlax]

New wardrobe.
Go to Europe.

Yup, that's about it. :)

[highsteaks]

I wonder where all the people who started this thread a couple years back are now? Anyone still out there? Anyone hit goal??

As for me, I'll be able to fit into my skinny clothes again. I HAVE to buy a whole new winter wardrobe, since mine got thrown out while moving. Ahhh woe is me.

But mainly I'm looking forward to being happy in my own skin.

Putting on lotion and loving every part of me.

Shaving my legs without being annoyed at all the acreage I have to mow.

Pedicures at home being easy!

Shopping being fun, not a chore finding things that don't make me look fatter.

And, best of all, bouncing around during sex knowing I look and feel great whatever the position.

[Antigone]

1) I'd wear tank tops with jeans and heels - my dream. :)
2) I'd go to the beach and wear a bikini
3) I'd wear a mini skirt to the mall

[sxb]

I will buy new clothes and bikini...

But, here's something i am really looking forward too..

Hopefully by June i'll reach my goal... and guess what!
My friends bachelorette party is right on the corner....yowsa!

And guess whose arranging the party...moa

I bought this tini-mini dress way back that i will wear.
It's gonna be a crowd of hot looking men and women, who like to party. Yes! men(clothes optional) will be there too. I think i deserve to have some fun... ;)

[mermaiden]

When I lose 15 pounds...

I'm thinking of getting into modelling. Probably catalogue/commercials.

What else...buy pants that aren't a size 9, buy lots of skirts.

Bikini! Totally, I want to wear one without the fat bulges :lol:

Just be more active in general. Now it's a little hard for me to get around. I was 120 most of high school and shot up to 140 due to health complications, so I'm not used to the extra weight.


highsteaks, I totally agree about the shaving...I think gaining has given me ingrowns! I never used to get them before...

[tasche]

Get hair extensions and get photos taken. I have nice long curly hair right now but would want extensions to make it super long for a while.