Bikini Countdown

[Tama]

I hear you Shannon! I have a 10 year reunion coming up in August and I want to be looking soooo good! So, lets help each other up, dust the cookie crumbs off of each other and get there! There isn't anything better than looking good around old buddies! And nothing worse than looking "plump".

Hang in there girls, we can do it!

Tama

[Jo-Ann 2]

Well maybe for 45 minutes, yes you heard it correctly. I dropped my son off at school today came home finished my coffee, put on my shorts and t-shirt and exercised. Yes me the procrastinator of all times.
45 minutes. It's all muscle work and I can feel it, going up the stairs to get change afterwards was fine, trying to walk down after was shakey. But every piece of my body is happy.
This may be just what I need to get back on track.
Glad your back Shannon, we missed you.
And to all the girls that have been dusting off the crumbs "don't eat them".
Like the BlockBuster commercial says "shake what your momma gave you.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann

[rhubarb]

Hi, Everyone

I’ve been a member of this site for about 2 weeks, and just stumbled across this thread. Any room here for someone doesn’t want to wear a bikini? What if I just want to wear that really kitsch leopard print dress that’s taunting me from the closet? I confess that I haven’t read all 501 posts before this one, but many … this thread has attitude!

Best to you all …
rhubarb
[aka Barbara]

[Jkrohn]

Jo Ann I'm hearing the Rocky theme playing in my head..... I get the vision of you jogging up your stairs. You go girl! Doesn't it feel good!!! I love that feeling. I was sick most of last week so I didn't exercise at all. But this morning up at 5:15 and worked out. Felt sooo good! :thup:

Another one bites the dust! Another one bites the dust, and another one gone and another one gone.... Sorry I'll quit before I hurt someones ears. I'm down another pound ladies! That's 36 now. I passed that damn 32 mark where I have lost it so many times before. I saw her and she saw me, we locked eyes, there was a long silence........... and zoom I ran right on by her! I am the champion!! :Party: OK off my soapbox. Just had to share with you all.

Shannon, glad to hear you are regaining your strength. You're starting to sound like the old shannon. Hang in there sweetie I know you can do it!! Gremlins oh I know them well. I had a disaster with a piece of "better than sex" cake last Friday! And not just one piece either..... But oh well what's done is done and there is nothing I can do to change that. So after my afternoon of indulgence I got right back up and the wagon and have been good ever since.

Bikini babes hang in there together we will concer the world. Ok so maybe not the world but the beach no doubt!! Bikini bods here we come........

Take Care and Stay Strong!
Messy

[slimchance]

You guys are so motivational!! :cheer:

I'm new to the forum, and I too long for the day that I can slip into a bikini and feel like $1,000,000. However I am the typical woman with my insecurities. You gals have motivated me to haul out my old bikini and hang it on my wall for inspiration. Once I get down close to goal, I'm gonna put it on. I may even go out and buy a new one...I should be feeling AbFab by then!! :D

Thanks for all the great posts!! And keep up the good work.

KC :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Barbara- An official welcome to the Bikini Babes, you can aim for the dress kid, but somewhere along the line I want to hear about the bathingsuit in a size smaller than you have now. No, it certainly doesn't have to be a Bikini, just smaller, sexier and if you like leopard print, that will do nicely.
KC-Hello fellow Nova Scotianer, I'm in Bedford. So you hung it on the wall, that is just too Funny, your going to fit right in here.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
Need I say more. OOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHH YYYYEEEEESSSSSSSS
Congradulations for staring her down and winning. I'm just too proud for you and your lasted achievement.
:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

She's on our team.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Tama]

Welcome to all new bikini babes! We are growing in number but shrinking in size!

Well ladies, today starts a new week and a new resolve! I put on the orange hot-to-trot bikini this morning to remind myself how far I have come and how I do not want to go back! So let's go! Let's all pick up our motivation and get moving! I don't care if you just go for a walk around the block, let's shake our money makers, babes!

Messy - YES!!!! You did it! You go girl!

Hugs all, Tama

[slimchance]

Ok ladies...I have gone one step further. Instead of just hanging my bikini on the wall, I got a big piece of cardboard and I am tracing my outline on it :( (while wearing the bikini, so I get the true form of how I look wearing it) and I am going to cut it out and pin my bikini to it. I will be hanging this on the back of my bedroom door so no one sees it when they come over :eek: , but I think I will try to re-draw myself every month to see the changes. I think it will be most satisfying to see the edges shrink. I'm not sure if this little experiment will work, but it will definitely help me to stay motivated.

I was very inspired by a thread by trainerdan this morning too, so I am looking into joining a gym. I think my results may come faster if I actually am faithful at working out. The summer is coming...and fast!! :)

Jo-ann2--so great to know that there is another fellow NSer here! Maybe you have some tips on where to shop around here and/or good deals on gyms/fitness programs. I'm in South End Halifax, but I have a car. Your progress is awesome!! Keep up the great work! :thup:

KC :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

I have visions of when my 5 year old draws the outline of my hand with a crayon. It ain't purdy. :rolleyes:


Be careful doing that one. I would be afraid that it isn't very accurate. BUT..... It's a fun idea!!

Let us know how it works!
Libby

[slimchance]

Don't worry...I'm getting help with it :eek: . I'm doing it standing and I know that it will not be all that accurate, but it will definitely reflect my width and the size of the bulges that are poking out around my straps. It's more of a motivation to see it just hanging there.

I have joined a new gym today and I am going to get my official body fat reading.... :( . Better for me to know and have something to compare to. The scale isn't a very accurate reading sometimes either, so this may be more motivational. If I check them both like once a week or once a month, the results may be more astounding. I just don't know if I can get away from that darned scale!!

Thanks all!! :wave:

KC

ps. my bikini must be LCing too...it has definitely shrunk!! lol

[KarenB]

It's gotta be that, because *I* worked out today too! I couldn't stand the idea of waiting another two weeks, so I got my butt up at 5am and did my UBWO for BFL. Granted, I use light weights (nothing more than 10lbs, I'm a wimp with NO upper body strength to speak of), but OMG were my muscles burning! It felt amazing doing that on an empty stomach. I mixed up my Mock Danish in a little Ziploc container and nuked it, added the butter and cinnamon, and took it along to work. I'm not supposed to eat for an hour after working out... so that means I need to cook it here and eat it there just before I clock in. Worked okay today, I hope it remains that convenient.

Now to figure out what to do for my 20MAS HIIT tomorrow.... I think walking is a fine start for a wuss like me. There are quite a few hills here in the park, I'm sure I can manage to push myself at intervals as is required. I'll be sure to keep ya posted, gals.

We are gonna BLOW SOME MINDS when we're through, babes!!!

SEE YA IN VEGAS!!!

[goingfor60]

Well I sat firmly on the wagon today as my entire dept went out for another birthday lunch. I sat at the table and watched them eat those cheese filled biscuits and thought how disgusting nothing but lard and flour - beasts.

So I ate my crab and shrimp cobb salad, thinking to myself I am so back on the wagon. Look at these people, I'll be sporting my bikini with the babes in Vegas while they buy larger clothes. I wanted to do a Matrix move and slap all of the biscuits out of their hands as they taunted me, but I thought to myself "my day will come". Now if TOM would just go away!!!!

So its time for the happy dance for EVERYONE it seems and why not you guys really kicked it up. The song in my head for you guys is

"Do a little dance, make a little love and get down tonight" :wiggle: :wiggle: :wiggle:

You guys are so awesome - Arent you feeling a little more like las vegas right about now?

Welcome to our new babes - we can be a roudy bunch but we get the job done. We're going to Las Vegas in August come along and bring the bikini.

See ya
Shannon

[KarenB]

:eek:

I don't know where it was hiding, or how it came to light, but this morning I found a photo of me taken when Kelley was about 2 years old (nearly three years ago now, this would've been summer of '99). I'm in my usual fat chick black swimsuit, this one with bright turquoise and purple and pink straps, and I'm sitting on the edge of the pool steps with my forearms on my knees.

I look like the proverbial beached whale. OMG, it's horrific. When I was that big, I know I didn't think I *looked* that big. Like a few others here, I always thought I looked smaller than I really did. It's not as if I thought I *was* smaller, I just thought I *looked* smaller.

I didn't look smaller. I was freaking HUGE. (Well, for me, anyway. I probably weighed about 235-240 in this snapshot.)

And now I can look in the mirror and see that I have a waist and hips, and they're defined, and mostly where they should be. I've even lost almost all of the folds of fat that used to hang around my middle (literally)--I had three layers at my worst. The first was just beneath my breasts, the second midway between there and my natural waist, and the third overhung my waist by an inch or two. Now, there's barely anything hanging at all on my left side, and only a little on my right. (I'm lop-sided; my right leg is nearly 1/2 inch shorter than my left.) It's amazing to me.

And now that I'm doing BFL, I can only imagine what I'll look like in 12 weeks. I don't have a clear picture in my mind yet, but it's getting there. And I really like what I'm seeing. :D

WE ARE BREATHTAKING BIKINI BABES!!!! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

[slimchance]

If we were all in Vegas sporting our beautiful bods in skimpy bikinis we might put the dancers out of work!! LOL

Keep up the great work all...and Shannon, great to see that i'm not the only one who worries about falling off the wagon. You're my hero right now!!

Cheers!

KC :cheer:

[Tama]

Shannon - way to go with the will power! Can you bottle that up and send some my way? :p

Karen, you must have hated looking at that picture, but in a way it is good because you can really see some serious progress!! Way to go, it gives the rest of us motivation!

Keep it up ladies!!
Tama

[rhubarb]

Good Morning all –

Thanks for all the welcomes to the “bikini thread” for the Non-bikini gal; To answer the bathing suit question, I suppose I could aim for a svelte little one-piece number in a size (or two, to three) smaller than what I’ve got now. I have to confess that I’ve never, ever felt comfortable in a bathing suit. Even in my youth, with the pre-pregnancy tummy and the pre-gravity-enhanced bod. I’ve always carried weight (and water – circulation problems) below the waist, and there ain't no suit that’s gonna disguise a pair of pudgy legs!

Anyway, I have some long and short term goals: I was very sick this past winter (pneumonia and pleuritis) and all the lying around and steroid prescriptions created the need for some size 18 additions to the wardrobe. (Had been mostly 16s.) Now that my health is better, my short term goal is to get my energy back – I’ll need it as I have a busy next few months as I plan my primary short term goal: my Son’s Bar Mitzvah! Apart from just maintaining my health through the stress of planning, my hope is to be wearing a size 14 by the first week in June, and of course, to be really elated and proud come the big day! (For those who may not know, a Bar Mitzvah is an important Jewish lifecycle event for young adults.)

Karen – Good for you on starting BFL. I’m only about two weeks ahead of you in my first challenge. Do I understand right that you’re doing it at home? I am, too and it’s working out better than I thought. The trick is to get up a lot earlier than the kids (ages 6 & 12, in my case.) With no other adult in the house, going to a gym is not an option for me. By the way, are you sure about that “no eating for an hour" thing? I swear I saw over in some of the exercise threads to eat within 45 minutes. I’ll look for the reference, but in the meantime, make sure you keep that picture you found so you can post “before” and “after” for us.

Shannon, kudos on getting right back on the wagon. I think we should join together in some sort of “bikini babe power circle” to rid you of TOM already. Think we could scare it away?

Slim, let us know how the “paper doll” thing is going.

By for now, everyone
-- Rhu

[Jo-Ann 2]

Yes you heard it here first girls. I got my Mothers treadmill to my house last night and this morning I did "a walk about". Twenty minutes and I moved up and then down the intensity level. There is hope for me yet. It seems to be easier to control my eating when I'm doing not one (the eating) but two (the exercise), I never thought of it this way before :idea: I always thought that I had to exercise to lose wieght but maybe I have to lose weight and exercise to feel good. I know not rocket science, but it seems to finally fit together, it is the fitness that will finally make me proud of me not just the number on the scale. Oh My _od did I write that . Exercise to feel better, not just to see results.
Slim gave me an idea, maybe instead of a whole body tracing. We could take a tape measure and measure our problem areas, then put lines on the back of our doors for each one, then ever month we could see how much smaller the line is. I'ld want to measure in cm. though, I like positive reinforcement even if it is only in small increments.
Karen - talk about a motivation booster, and your exercising too. I think you've come an incrediable way on your journey.
Dear Rhu- ok I admit defeat, I can certainly understand that you don't like bathingsuits. I was just trying to make you smile anyway. Now congradulations for setting a goal that you want, the first step in the journey is always the hardest. I am sure that you will look like a Bikini Babe at your son's celebration, you are already one in my eyes, keep up that BFL girl.
Shannon- I thought I heard someone getting back on the wagon when I did. You sound like yourself again. Isn't it great how you feel when you get back to the plan?
Well I real must go.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[goingfor60]

Lets extend a HUGE birthday wish to Liddle also known as Heather. One of our original bikini babes and a person I am glad I met on this site.

Heather is insightful, motivational and an all around great babe.

Happy Birthday Heather and I hope you enjoy your day.


:bday: :Party: :cheer: :yay: :dazzle:


See ya...

Shannon

[slimchance]

Happy birthday Liddle!! :roll:

I hope it sees you not having to pass up too much cake!!

As you all can see, i have posted a picture of myself...unfortunately, that is the picture of me almost exactly 1 year ago before i put on 40 lbs...if only I knew then what I know now....

I wish i had some current photos of me to track (and post) my progress, but i'm not feeling really camera happy these days, but that will soon change!! I may take a picture of my cardboard double and then post my real bikini body when it starts to shape up!! :thup: If nothing else, it will be a good laugh for all!

Happy LCing all! Go team bikini!! :cheer:

and Jo-Ann...let's show metro that we can show off our bikinis like nobody's business!! All the best with the new treadmill.

KC :wave:

[KarenB]

Happy B'day, Heather!!!

Rhu, I checked about the "eating timing" and here's the scoop: On cardio days, eat an hour after the workout to maximize the metabolism-boosting properties. On lifting days, eat within 45 minutes (a hit of protein *and* carbs) to feed the muscles, so (as Nat put it) they don't start to get what they need from the other muscles around them. So we're both right! Yay us! :)

Time to plan the LBWO for tomorrow, get my meals in order, and hit the sack. How'd it get so late, so fast? TTYL, ladies...

[agonycat]

Just touching base. Work has gotten really busy and I wanted to let you all know I am still around, just don't have much time to keep up with all the posts ;)

You gals keep up the great work!

Happy belated birthday Heather ;)

[Libbyfcr]

....... it came yesterday.......

IT is a swimsuit catalog. Hmm..... I don't know if that is good or bad!! LOL ..... okay, I got a Venus 2002 swimsuit catalog. I don't know why, I have never ordered anything from them. LOL

BUT... I was surprised because there are some nice swimsuits in it. I know that even at my ideal weight I will look best with a swimsuit bottom that covers up my "poochy" tummy. Hey... three pregnancies... what can I say.

Anyway, they have some swimsuit tops that are like tank tops and cropped tank tops. I really like them. (they would work for someone like me who looses ALL of her weight in her boobs first) AND they have bottoms that are moderate in coverage and look like they have a little extra band around the top to cover my "pooch".

No.. I don't work for Venus... but if you want a catalog for fun and inspiration here is their number. 800-366-7946.

Who knows.... reach my goal weight and I MIGHT just order one!!
Libby :wave:

[Tama]

Hey, slimchance! Great to finally put a face with the name! And you are a looker, too! You will definitely be a killer babe when bikini season rolls around!

Hugs all, Tama

[slimchance]

Thanks Tama! :D

I just hope that when I get my excess "poundage" off I look like that again!!

I'm gonna save the bathing suit shopping until I really EARN it! More incentive for me to stay on the wagon. :)

Cheers!! Happy LCing all!!

KC :wave:

[meri]

How is it I can go through the whole day in the spirit of the woe...do it well, and come nite time I end up eating cereal....somehow unable to face the kitchen...or eat plain protein. Is it excitement I need....great sauces?..or am I not getting enough calories???.... or am I jest an addict?....snff snff!

I HAVE to do this. But my mind seems to freeze over about supper, snacks, more cooking..... Doesn't seem to be a lazy way to do this. And in no time I get into a 'oh no!...not more protein!' mindset. What a pickle!

HELP! ANYBODY?....

your beautifully, bountiful-bodied bikini babe in the making!...me, Meri

[slimchance]

Hi Meri! :wave:

I know I've seen posts from others that talk about people who are nighttime eaters. This may be a specific condition (especially for those who get up in the night and eat). Do you think that this may be the case with you? Or is it more like you're just in the habit of a bedtime snack?

Try to drink water to fill yourself up (I know, easier said than done, and you may be "watered" out by then). Maybe you are not eating enough at suppertime leaving you hungry later?

Does anyone else know anything about the condition I'm referring to??

Hang in there Meri!!

KC :)

[agonycat]

Sounds like it is time to clean out the pantry and fridge and freezer of the tempting items ;)

That way when you get home there is nothing but protein to eat :)

[Jo-Ann 2]

Things that work for me. Well this has been a learning process and may not be why you do it, but it is something that I had to evalute.
First I had to really look at my breakfast, did I eat one, my body likes atleast 3 meals a day, sometimes that night snack was my 3rd meal (aka making up for breakfast I didn't eat)
Second, I was missing crunch, this I solved by making my own cheese crackers and having a little salsa and sour cream or celery with cheese.
Third, did I have artificial sweeteners in my supper, I can only do this if I eat enough protien with it and only occasionally.
Fourth, was it when I was ovulating or a few days before my period starts, these are times I have to stay away for anything sweet, just protien and salads or lc vege. asparagus, broccolli, cauliflower, mushrooms and green onion, seem to stop the night cravings. Also coffee can trigger me to eat at night.
Lastly water drink during this time has usually slowed down and there is sometimes a very emotional reason for my eating at night.
I hope you get something from this info. The wagon ride is full of bumps and smooth parts but that is what makes the ride fun, the part of the excitement is just the learning about what really works for your body and what does not.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[slimchance]

Hi all!

Well, when I decide to invest in a new bikini, it won't be too itsy-bitsy, but I dropped another 2lbs, making a total of 12lbs in 15days...holy water weight, batman!

Well, let's just say that I don't feel at all bloated anymore. :D

Hang in there everyone, I am so confident that my bikini day is coming, I know you all will have your day too!!

Can't wait to finally put that suit on!! Just had to post my little bit of good news!

Take care everyone!!

KC :wave:

[Fattiegirl]

Finally.. tommorrow I leave on Spring Break.. that means Saturday or Sunday I will wear a bathing suit for the first time this year!!

Its interesting to look back and remember last spring break I was about 10-15 lbs heavier.... i just hope I don't say screw it all over spring break and gain that much weight!!

[Tama]

Go KC!!!! Wooo Hoooo!! :cheer:

Hope the whoosh fairy stops by my house next!!

Congrats!
Tama

[goingfor60]

all right ladies we are into the first full day of spring and with spring in bloom where are we in relation to summer.


Am I hearing the pain and agony of crunches... Have you noticed that you tend to swear more when you reach the 100+ mark when doing crunches. this f!~#in sucks, ouch it hurts, why am I doing this bull!~#$ oh make it stop - must wear bikini 200+ crunches. I have this argument with myself on a daily basis.

How are the BFL girls?

Well lets have a great day tomorrow!

Shannon

[KarenB]

Heya, Shannon! This BFL girl's doin' just fine, thanks for asking! :thup:

Today was Day Four and I'm feeling it, all right, but it's a GOOD pain. Yesterday's LBWO (lower body workout) was fantastic--my quads and hamstrings are still sore. I was up and out the door this morning in the SNOW AND ICE to do my walk/jog (and yes, I was the only idiot out in it, thanks), so I *know* I'm not the woman I was even a week ago. That woman would have heard the wind howling around the house when the alarm went off and pulled up the covers for another half-hour or so. Instead, I pulled on the long johns, leggings, knit pants, two thermal shirts and a heavy sweatshirt, two pairs of socks, shoes, parka, heavy gloves, and the stopwatch (!), and went out into the elements for a 20MAS HIIT.

It's going to be really, really difficult not to weigh or measure for another three weeks, but I'm determined to do this by the book, as it were. I haven't taken proper "before" photos yet but maybe I can con--er, persuade someone to do that for me over the weekend...

I took a photo of myself at 240lbs (wearing a swimsuit--:eek: !!! ) to work today, and several people who saw it asked me who it was. :D That was *just* the boost I needed! I AM doing something right--as soon as I figure out what it is, I'll let you know! :lol:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Have commited myself to the exercise thing, and have told enough people that I will have to do it. Normally in the past I would not have taken this approach, my mother told me not to exercerise too much, I told her that, not to worry, that would be right up there with my house being tooo clean.
:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: WOW KC congradulations, look out Metro.

Tama she will come, she will come, she will come.

Shannon, crunches, 200 Oh me Oh my I am going to die.

Well there's snow on the ground here again, what the heck is that all about ah (he,he) just a little Canadian humor, we really don't say it that much.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[agonycat]

Ya know I don't know what it is about exercising.

I will do so good for a couple of weeks, then lose interest, or get busy with work, or <insert excuse here>.

What is it about exercising?!?!??!?!

Gah! I was doing so well with my 3 to 4 days a week, then it went to 2 times a week. This week I managed to lift weights ONCE. No excuse other than I am stressed out at work, with unrealistic deadlines. I hate that I get these huge question and answer proposals and they expect to have all the answers in 48 hours. :(

Today I go for my mamogram. Really looking forward to it. NOT! I hate those things. I think they should come up with another way to xray boobs!

Sorry for whining this morning. I am feeling really frustrated, from being up 2.5 pounds this week.

Someone kick me in the rear end please. :)

[Jo-Ann 2]

I got off the treadmill to do this so you better appreciate it, now seriously, if you don't exercise you may stall. If that's not incentive I don't know what is. Find something you like to do, take a class, or simply dance, dance, dance.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[rhubarb]

Ohhhh, my tummy! Is it possible to overdose on nuts? If so, I think I did last night. Technically, I’m not “off the wagon” but I sure felt a little out-of-control over the nuts. I guess some habits are harder to change than others. I’m pouting today :(

Karen, thanks for clearing up that “post-exercise eating” thing – it makes sense. Actually, The Zone (which I was doing up until just a few weeks ago) recommends not eating for two hours after exercising for much the same reason. On BFL, I find I’m much more hungry on Cardio days … do you? This BFL girl felt her last LBW, too. The L-Glutamine helps, though. Try it, if you’re not already. I have to admit that I have weighed since starting – I must have missed the part of the book where I’m not supposed to. (actually –dare I admit this? I seem to be in the minority here, but I got very impatient with the author’s writing style, and skimmed over many parts of the book ‘til he got to the actual workout.) Anyway, make sure you take that *before* picture soon. I’m only a week more into BFL than you, and I already feel the changes.

That goes for you, too, KC. Camera shy or not – take that picture! 12 pounds in 15 days? Hurry up, girl!

Agonycat, sorry about the stress at work. I know what you mean … my boss is a peach, but he’s always calling in from the road with new deadlines at like 4:30 in the afternoon. Chin up! At least you’ve probably got more energy than you used to.

Libby, you made me curious, and I searched for Venus swimwear online, and sure enough there’s a website. What a great idea, choosing the tops and bottoms separately! The concept of “swimshorts” might turn me into a bikini girl yet!

Meri, do I understand correctly that you’re just not motivated to make a healthy meal at the end of the day? I have the same problem. (As the nut episode yesterday would indicate, but that took place in my car!) The first thing I would do is keep hardboiled eggs in the fridge. (I cook ½ doz at a time and always have some on hand.) Eat one as soon as you walk in the door and then wait for it to take the edge off your hunger and help improve your mental clarity. After that, you’ll be better prepared to eat more of what your body needs. It always helps to prepare food or meals in advance, but if you can’t think that far ahead, at least try the hard boiled eggs, and see how it goes.

100 crunches Shannon? You go girl! I think I’d pass out before I got anywhere near that many! But I have heard that if crunches are much more effective if one swears while doing them – something about it creating the perfect muscle oxygenation. ;)

Hi, Tama, Jo-Ann and anyone else I missed. I have to start writing more often so I don't go on and on like this in one post!

Best,
--Rhu

[Tama]

So, Jo-ann, you are an exercise freak, huh? What the heck is that all about?? :D

Hugs, Tama

[Jo-Ann 2]

Rhu-Been there, done that, pitstachio nuts, had to get rid of them, sure there was something in them that made me binge, maybe I was not eating enough calories and my body was telling me or maybe it was too much fiber and I retained fluid. But I think that I'm making excuses for myself, anyway if you binge on them they are a problem any way you look at it.
Tama- I have no idea what is happening to me, can this be bottled and sold? I would make a mint, I truely feel alot better. :D
Did the treadmill for 25 minutes today :eek: :eek: :eek:, yes me the procrastinator.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

All righty all you bikini babes, it's going to be a sunny, 85 DEGREES here in LAS VEGAS today!!

Just a friendly reminder to keep up the good work!

Caio,
:wave: Libby

[Jo-Ann 2]

Care package required, it is -5 and it's snowing, now this is cold for this time of year, the bulbs have already started to come up and are trying to hide now.
Feel free send any extra heat this way. The only sun tan we are getting here today is from the reflection off the snow.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[slimchance]

Hi babes!! :wave:

Well, I'm definitely gonna have to use my "current fave jeans" as my before...I hold them up and shudder :eek: , even though they still fit. :(

I am on day 4 of my modified BFL rountine and I start with my running club bright and early tomorrow morning. That should get my endurance up. I'm feeling really great. I can feel my muscles after only 4 days and it's kind of a gross feeling...feeling all the excess flab moving around over top of my muscles that must be starting to tone. :( I guess that is a good sign though.

Thankfully we just got more snow here so I have a few months to trim down!

All the best folks!!

KC :p

[goingfor60]

I dont think I have ever seen so much determination in a concentrated group before. Reading and being involved with you killer babes just makes me want to get down on my knees and do the "I'm not worthy" bow to all of you.

KarenB - I know if I have to put on anything more than sweats to go outside and walk/jog that it just aint gonna happen so OMG you are definately a superwoman everyday but especially for today.

I'm kinda curious, as a group of ambitious and obviously personality filled women. What type of career do you have? This is not a question to impose judgement but I'm really just generally curious. If we are all so focused on our tasks at hand could it be that we're all in similar or related fields. Wouldnt that be an odd thing, this is not a contest and if you are lucky enough to not have to work or work at home or are independently wealthy lets not rub that in either. And if you have a really long and cool title, lets just sum it up for what it really means.

So I'll start.
Shannon-Corporate Trainer-morgtgage industry

Jo-Ann- no not you - not a workout bunny, I'm so impressed and keep it up.

Good going KC on the running club - thats a great step forward.

Rhubarb on the nuts thing I go to Costco or Smart and Final and buy a box of the 1oz individually wrapped packages. 1oz of nuts depending on the nut is 5-6grams of carbs which isnt that bad. I eat peanuts, almonds and pistacios as long as they are in 1oz bags. If I dont I wont know how to stop myself, but this really keeps me focused and now a 1oz bag seems to do the trick.

Agonycat - Jo-Ann is absolutely right, if you dont throw in some variety or create a specific goal you will not continue to work out and a stall is inevitable. I do all of these different things to keep myself from getting bored. Run outdoors,walk treadmill/outdoors,swim, bicycle gym/outdoors, step aerobics, yoga, cardio classes, elyptical training, kickboxing and 7-10 varieties of crunches, salsa dancing and weight training. Not that I like any of it but without the options I wouldnt do any of it. Also the cool thing is when you can do more than 1 or 2 of these items within the same day that is where you can build up some goals and challenges for yourself.

I hope I helped!

Shannon

[KarenB]

As in "what I do for money," not that poor fellow from the Old Testament (although I do identify with him more often than I want to admit....).

I began as a jr-high teacher, language arts. English. Grammar, mostly, at that level. Then I moved on to editorial work (for various places, including Scott, Foresman and Co.--the "see Spot run" people) for the bulk of my "career years."

I wound up at TSR Inc, makers of the D&D game, for over 11 years. I worked my way up from editor to Creative Director (effectively a middle-management position, in charge of several product lines--maintaining their schedule, jobbing out projects, yadda yadda). When I had my daughter, the company was sold to another gaming company in WA state and relocated. I chose not to move--no way, not with a newborn. I took my nice severance package and stayed here, close to family and friends. (Her father had moved to NYC before I had her. He's now planning to move back here this fall.) After spending time on unemployment and working a few odd jobs (like sales assistant in a jewelry-making/bead shop), I took a CNA position. That lasted about a month before I realized I wasn't cut out for all the heavy lifting. I quit there and took the job I've had since then, as an inspector in a rubber-molding plant. I work mostly in the medical wing, inspecting these things called "harmonic scalpels." If you really want to know, I'll tell you another time. :)

I still intend to return to teaching, but it's an uphill battle gathering all the paperwork (including 2 sets of fingerprints) and money, not to mention the coursework I'll have to make up eventually. However, I've bitched about the sorry state of education for long enough. It's time to put my degree back to work. (I have a BA in British Literature with secondary teaching certification.)

Who's next?

[Jo-Ann 2]

I graduated with a B.Sc. degree in 85, majoring in behavioral psychology and minoring in math. I started two weeks later working as a research assistant for a professors. He taught, but his field of interest was Behavior Modification and he was (and still is) know for this in both the U.S. and Canada. Research projects included car/predestrain accident avoidance, alcohol/seatbelt compliance and other vehicle related projects. The work that was the most interesting and challenging was the one on one work that I did in the Family Counciling Clinic he had. This included teaching autistic children to speak and then read, working in the school system to develop programs to deal with specific problems that would have meant the child would fail or not be able to keep pace within the class. To put it in really simple terms, designed how to make it work, collected data, analyzed it, graphed, and then helped prepare the journal article for publishing, did I mention that I also even ended up trying to teach one of his classes once. It was a job that was challenging and I loved to hate. I did this till 1992, at which time my husband and I decided that it was not neccessary for me to find full time employment, he is in the Navy and when at sea he makes sea pay which we save till he is on shore. I am now a stay at home mom, I work part time when the need arises, but have choosen to go without the cable TV, the second car and vacations to exotic places so I can be home with my son in the summer full time and be able to go to the park with him after school or simply sit and read together. I know mushy stuff, but no one warned me how much I'ld fall in love with him. The other thing is, he still loves to be with me and I know that within a few years he'll be running in the other direction as fast as he can. So for now stay at home mom is wonderful for me.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

P.S. is there a teaching/training theme going on here Shannon?

[liddle]

Shannon,
Up until 2 yrs ago I was a stay at home mom. I realized I needed to have some sort of life for myself. One day my babies would leave me and I would have NOTHING!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So for the past 2 yrs I've been taking all my pre-requisites for the nursing program. (10 classes) I hold a 3.8 and have gotten early acceptance into the program. That means I don't have to sweat it out this summer wondering if I made it or not. The program is 5 semesters of pure H_ll. I guess all nursing programs are that way though. :rolleyes: I hope to be either a labor and delivery nurse or post partum nurse. I am very driven and motivated to get what I want, so why not channel some of that energy to get the body I want. ;) Besides, do you know how bad I would look in that white student nurse's uniform 42lbs. heavier? :eek: SCARY!!!!!!

Well off to bed. Have Karate, soccer, softball practice, and have to find time to study tomorrow. Busy, busy, day!

Heather

[Tama]

Wow, what a well-rounded group of ladies we have here!! I am impressed.

As for me, I got married at 19 and moved away with the hubby to go to college, where I studied English literature. My man graduated 1 year before I did, and got a teaching job immediately, so I had to leave 1 year short of my degree. We then decided to start our family, so, long story short, I am a stay at home mom. I love it so much. We have been blessed with my husband teaching at a good college in the community we both grew up in. I felt very strongly that I was meant to be these kids' mother and I wanted to spend all the time I could with them in these first years. (like Jo-ann) However, like Heather, I felt the need to have outside interests, so I have been lucky to get the opportunity to go back to school via the internet. I am now working on finishing my Masters degree in English Lit.

Now, Shannon, aren't you glad you asked? (not!)

Hugs all, Tama

[Libbyfcr]

I have been a stay at home Mom for five years. My youngest is now in kindergarden. This is an interesting subject for me as I have been thinking about what it is that I want to do for the rest of my life.

BC (before children) I worked for the JCPenney Company. Over the years I had various postitions in the company working in retail sales and merchandising mostly.

AD (after delivery) I worked part time. We juggled our schedules around my husbands work.

Now I work out of my home for a very well known costume designer. I see my boss about every two weeks. I love my job, but it's just part time income. Sometimes I clean houses.

So for me, this period of my life is about... "What do I want to do when I grow up?" I am actually thinking of going back to school. My kids are in school and maybe now it's my turn! I am not so lucky as some people who seem born with the knowledge of what they want to do.

I think I wrote a novel. Oh, next time lets talk about favorite hobbies!
Libby

(betch didn't know the REAL meaning of BC and AD!)

[goingfor60]

Is anyone starting to see a trend...

Teaching, medical/nursing, schooling, mommying...

Keep going I'm still interested

[agonycat]

Well it finally dried out enough for me to go outside today and prune back our bushes. :) That was my workout today, although I look like I got into with the neighborhood cat. :lol:

As for what I do for a living.....

I am a Senior Systems Engineer working in the Optical data networks aka ATM/Frame Relay industry (the stuff ISP and carriers use to provide end users with internet service :D ). I work mostly on Solaris platforms with proprietary software applications that talk to the ATM/Frame Relay switches. I am the only female working in our group out of 38 males so I am really outnumbered, but I can hang with the best of them :)

Yes....I are an engineer and worst yet...I am a geek! As far as a family goes, I have travelled most of my career so never had time to start one.....or the desire either ;) I had my tubes tied when I was 27. No kiddos. I do have a terrific hubby, 3 cats, 1 golden retriever and 110 gal fish tank for company.

:lol:

[KarenB]

Originally posted by agonycat

Yes....I are an engineer and worst yet...I am a geek!
:lol:


Pfft... I knew that when you confessed to that EQ addiction. :D

[_wilow]

He everyone,
Yet another helping profressional. I have my own psychotherapy practice. I've been doing that for 15 years and it's kinda been my "baby". But... at 39 I was BLESSED with my daughter who is no almost 20 months. I absolutely love motherhood and am so lucky to have her. I have had to keep working, however. My husband got to be the one to stay home with her because I make more money. My schedule is flexible though so I've been home weekends and anywhere from one to two weekdays with her all along( I just do paperwork and case management at home). He's getting ready to go back to work and we have a friend who has a toddler who's going to keep her 3 days a week. Life is good. I'm just in a state of gratefulness. I was in an empty marriage for 17 years before leaving. sorry to ramble but that's my story! Lisa

[rhubarb]

Good Morning, Everyone --

I'm really enjoying reading what everyone does in life. Me? I'm the mom of two very active school age children -- a girl (6) and a boy (12) -- who, of course, play the Sun to my revolving Earth! Divorced for 3.5 years, I'm on my own with them, but they see their dad often; usually twice a week. (He's may be a huge source of stress for me, but in his own way, an involved Dad.)

Professionly, I am an architect -- actually, I am a "designer" since I have not yet taken my registration exam, but hopefully that will happen soon. There are professional requirements to meet before being eligible, and it's taken longer than I had anticipated since I left the field to take a related job for a big corporation. (Facilities Management -- those folks who design the little work cubicles everyone loves so much!) Now I'm working for a small architectural firm trying to rack up my qualifications to take the exam.

I've also got a wonderful guy who may have touched on the best way to support me in my LC effort: Never "noticed" my weight gain or suggested I try to lose, but is interested and attentive when I discuss what I'm learning and how I'm putting it all into play. He's a peach!

--Rhu

[Jo-Ann 2]

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
Can you say cheezes, puff pasteries, pecan rolls, jube jubes, popcorn, need I Say more girls. I Stared down the cheezes, she hid in the cubboard, the pasteries I told myself were going to be dry, the pecan roll I ate a couple of pecans off it and stopped in my tracks, I didn't open the jubes, then I saw the NEW Baked Potato Chips, they look like tiny rice cakes, I gave some to my son in a bowl and went and had a bath. He came up and was talking to me with the bowl in his hand and as he turned to leave he spilled two on the floor. What's a girl to do, I applied the 10 second rule, (if it's on the floor for less than ten seconds it's ok to eat), my arm quietly reached over the side of the tub, they didn't hear me coming I grabbed them before they had a chance to get to the 10 second mark, I looked at them, and put one in my mouth, then the other, I thought to myself are these really good, NO. They tasted like fake food!!!! Yuck.
So that is it. I survived the high carb gremlin demons assault on my home. I've come a long way baby.
Now I should explain there was other things that I had specifically asked him to pick up. Today is my 39th Birthday and he and my son asked what I wanted for my breakfast in bed. So for my good behavior this year I received, white asparagus in hollandaise sauce, scrambeld eggs with bacon and strawberries with whip cream and two good strong cups of coffee with cream.
Life is good.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[liddle]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JO-ANN!!!!!!!!!!

:Party: :bday: :Party:

Way to beat those Gremlins!!!!!

Have a great Birthday!!!!!!

Heather

[atanqt]

Before I reply to the job question, I have something to say. First I haven't posted in awhile because I've been working a few extra days here and there to save for my vacation in May. :D Next thing I believe that people sometimes do judge you for what you do for a living. I have really enjoyed coming to this thread and just getting to know you girls for your attitude and determination about wanting to lose weight and eating great. I can see that a few of you like to talk about other things (kids, jobs, and husbands) and that is just fine. But as I said before, I just want to be known for my success in losing this weight and reaching my goals, not for what I do for a living. I'm not upset I just don't want to feel left out of this thread because the topic is changing to something else. Now I know you're all thinking, well she wouldn't be writing all of this unless she was ashamed or embaressed of her job. Well I'm not, it's just that, well how do I say this, my mother wasn't very proud when I told her :eek: what I was planning on doing. But I've been on my own for 7 years and doing very well :thup: And she says that even though it's not something to walk around and tell everyone ( because they will look at you differently) at least I'm making it. :)
I hope I haven't discouraged anyone or changed the mood, because that was not my intentions. I just wanted to let you all know why I wouldn't feel comfortable talking about this. I really hope you understand, if you knew you would agree with me. Thank you all for just being there and for the past support. :wave:

[liddle]

Atanqt,
Ok, I don't know about everyone else but now I am more curious than ever. What do you think girls? What does Atanqt do for a living? Lets see, her Mom isn't too proud of it and says not to go telling everybody. My guess is she's a dancer! Well, we may never know what you do Atanqt and that's OK. Just be proud of yourself for who you are and how far you have come on this LC journey. We all are! OH, and if I did guess right, DAMN that is something I've always wanted to do. Even for one night. Just too chicken!!!

Later,
Heather

[KarenB]

yep, that's the same thought I had.

And yep, that's something I would *love* to do myself, but have never/will never have the *guts* to try! (Well, ok, once or twice I've done it privately for a lover.... but never at a club! :) )

Curiously enough, I've met several dancers at the factory where I currently work. The factory's their day job, and nights/weekends they make *big* bucks. Sweet girls, too. Not at all what *my* mother said "those women" were like. :D

So, Atanqt, shake that thang! :thup: If we're right, that is.....

[goingfor60]

Yippie it's Jo-Ann's Birthday
I hope you have a wonderful day and that 10 second chip thing had me beyond LOL. I was seeing the whole thing play in my head and it just kept getting funnier - Oh you are too much!

atanqt what have you done - you opened the doors of curiosity for a bunch of women. Had this been a mens site the issue would have been dropped or forgotten. We are too cool to judge you and believe me when I say no hard feelings I mean it.

For Heather and Karen does dancing dressed on top of a bar count as "dancing" if so woo hoo another thing on the list bites the dust - Been there and done that! When I hit my goal weight there may be some adjustments to my post about being dressed and dancing :eek: . Hey if I got it, I might as well show it to everyone since its all been covered for YEARS.

Well I'll step up and tell you guys something that I did while going to college to help support myself. And if any of you tell a sole I'll deny it. ;) I worked as a phonegirl on a (1-900) psychic hotline. Yeah I said it and now that will be $3.99 for the time it took me to write it. :D

Well I am off to make some LC beef enchilada's for lunch this week.

See ya...
Shannon :wave:

[rhubarb]

"Judgement" is a tricky subject. In our culture, (especially if you're a woman) being called "judgmental" is a slur. Why?

We all judge. If you hold opinions, then you have formed a judgment. It really is that innocuous. "Judging" is not the same as saying "You should do things my way" or "You should not do what I think is wrong." Judging is simply "holding an opinion." I am opinionated. I expect others to be opinionated. Not everyone has to agree with me, but please -- have an opinion!

Just in the last few days we've learned that some of us have made choices to change jobs, go back to school, stay home with kids, not stay home with kids, marry young, marry more than once, have children and not marry, not have children, defer to a husband's vocation, work while a husband stays home, and on and on. These are all life choices that could be judged here or anywhere.

Atanqt, I've only recently started posting here, and have found this a very welcoming, spirited, and diverse bunch of women. You know them better than I do, and if you do not want to discuss your work, I'm sure it would not be held against you. But no one should harbor fear being judged. (On this board, and in general.) By it's very definition, each one of us stands to be judged every time we post because the rest of us all have opinions; and being opinionated is a good thing!

Best --
rhu

[goingfor60]

Now why didnt I say that?

Rhubarb you certainly have a way with words.

Shannon

[Danielle]

Hi ladies-

It's been a while since I have droped in and said hello. I've been in kind of a slump the last month, weight wise. I've been maintaining and it's starting to get frustrating. I've been sick on and off the the last few weeks too. I'm hoping that has something to do with it.

My goal is to be down to a size 12 dress by April21st. My nephew is going to be christianed then and I get to be the Godmother. :D I just want to look good. Right now I am about a 14. I just want to get rid of my tummy. My midsection really is my main problem.

Well, just wanted to say hello. Oh- does anyone have any good low-carb cheesecake recipes? I'm thinking of making one for easter.

Danielle

[atanqt]

I was just saying that I wouldn't be able to talk about that subject that we were all on. I can still help support these girls in other ways and on other issues.

Also I love goingfor60 and all the fun things she has to say and all the great posts she starts, so I was just letting her know why I wouldn't be joining in on this matter.

I am not afraid of being judged nor stateing my opinion, and I certainly know that better that anyone else.

I was actually laughing out loud with my boyfriend reading the posts from Karen B, liddle and goingfor60.

To you girls, I appreciate your kind words and support.

Thank you for not trying to tell me how I should feel or be.

[Jo-Ann 2]

After my son was born I suffered from severe post partum-depression and was hospitalized for almost a month. Did I struggle yes. Did I think of ending his life no, I was the one that was inadequate, did I think of ending my life no, I would not have done that to my mother. Do I struggle when people talk about the months after childbirth no, I tell them that I went through (in a breif form, up to 20% of women suffer alone). Do you judge me, do you have an opion of this, sure you do, did you have it happen to you, I pray to God that you didn't.
Do I care or judge someone by the way they dress, where they live, how much they make. NO. I admire a persons ability to survive the day, take on new challenges and deal fairly with others when the world and people around them is not treating them fairly.
I admire courage.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann
:wave:

[agonycat]

Originally posted by rhubarb
Just in the last few days we've learned that some of us have made choices to change jobs, go back to school, stay home with kids, not stay home with kids, marry young, marry more than once, have children and not marry, not have children, defer to a husband's vocation, work while a husband stays home, and on and on.These are all life choices that could be judged here or anywhere.

rhu

Boy did you say a mouthful there. You wouldn't believe at the eyebrows raise when people ask me about my "children" and I tell them I don't have any. They ask if I am going to start soon, and I say nope. I am the bane of humanity for being a female that didn't nest. I have had a few people ridicule me, almost brow beat me into starting a family. When they ask "who is going to take care of you in your old age," I say the government and walk away. I just end up writing the person off the list of possible friends or having anything worthwhile to say. If they had cared to listen I have many reasons for not starting a family outside of my job. Ones they would have appriecated.

*shivers*

Atanqt, you do not owe anyone an explanation of who you are or what you do for a living. It is your life and your business. That goes for anyone.

:)

[atanqt]

As I said before, YOUR ONE COOL CAT :cool:

You've always been there for me when I needed to chat, so I guess you could say that all of us are a family. We ask for advice, you give it. We need to vent, your there listening. Something upsets us, you try to make it better :there:

I always look forward to hearing what you have to say. And let's not forget your incredible photos we've all seen. Your an inspiration to us all. And we love you for that :D

Thanks for your kind words. :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

I am having a great day. I got to change my stats this morning and I am now just past half way to my weight goal. I have lost 30 lbs since January 1st. ( I restarted CALP on January 22nd at 190, after having lost my mind over the holidays)

JoAnn... Hoppy Hoppy Birthday :bday: Almost an Easter Baby eh?

atanqt..... I don't know you.....and honestly, if we all had the same kinds of jobs we sure would be pretty boring.... so I don't have a huge need to know what you do. I am glad you are here, the things that you and others say on this forum are always, always encouraging for me.

I got my 90 minute workout this weekend. We aerated our lawns with this big honkn' machine that drug us around. We have an acre's worth. Then we reseeded our front lawn and put 23 bags of steer manure on it. Now my whole place smells like cow poop.
Thought I would share that.
Libby :wave:

[KarenB]

Great, Libby.

Now I'm remembering when I was a kid on my parents' farm (the "family farm," the house was built by the great-great-great grandparents who came from the old country in 1847) and we raised beef cattle.

It's amazing how much poop a dozen steers can generate.

AMAZING.

And then there were the thousand chickens, in two buildings... ::shuddering::

[_wilow]

There are some really amazing people in this place. I am honored to be a part. I appreciate everyone's honesty. One thing I've learned in life is that everyone needs a place to be who they are and not be judged. It's only in that relationship I believe that growth is possible. Ya'll are cool in my book. Lisa

[sunshine2]

Hello my fellow bikini babes, boy, I leave for a week and we get a bunch of new bikini babes joining in for the fun, WELCOME everyone!

Well, my trip was wonderful, but as you would guess - I ate too much and I drank way too much. The "Carona" was everywhere!

It time to get back on track and I'm still aiming for the BFL challenge on April 1st.

PS - Shannon - I'm a financial analyst for MCI (basically I approve credit for major long distance companies that want to re-sell our long distance)

[lesleyc]

Hi everyone,

I haven't previously joined this party....could never imagine being even close to bikini wearing :o

Maybe I can see it now :D

I'm off to Phuket (Thailand) for 2 weeks in the middle of the year...and while I might not be ready for a bikini by then....perhaps a reasonably well covering 2 piece :cool:

BTW....welcome back Sunshine!

lesley

[Libbyfcr]

Whats in Phuket?

Karen, Isn't it amazing what kind of memories a smell can bring up? I love the smell of a barn. I grew up with horses and have wonderful, wonderful memories of my Grandpa's barn and my childhood. Lovely.

Sunshine, Glad ya had a fun trip!!

Caio :wave:
Libby

[lesleyc]

Not sure yet haven't been :D

it's a large island off Thailand with gorgeous beaches and endless sun.

That's enuf for me :thup:

Although I gather there is quite good market shopping, water sports, elephant trekking etc to keep you occuppied in case lazing around by a swimming pool just gets too hard to handle ;)

Lesley

[goingfor60]

I am feelin soooo good today - I woke up and said to myself "self I'm feelin really cute today" So I put on my favorite cute tight red sweater with the scoop neck, a black micro mini, black tights and 3 1/2 in black loafers I guess you can call them loafers. My hair was working, skin was bright, my lips were lined,colored and glossed. If I do say so myself I was looking mighty fine.

So I'm struttin around work and half the day went by before anyone said something so I began to think maybe my cuteness is in my own mind? So then this nice married guy says I'm not trying to harrass you but damn how much weight have you lost you look good. :D So I thanked him giggled and strutted off. A little later the second single guy as I walked to the restroom said hmm there's just something about you thats glowing, you're looking stunning and I felt my feet leave the ground. I thanked him also and continued on. The third not so single guy called me and sang smooth operator over the phone saying that I was looking like Sade (who's stunning) with the lips, hair and body. Now this guy himself is a smooth operator, and not to be trusted. but none of that mattered because - TODAY WAS A FABULOUS DAY. Considering that bastard scale tried to interupt my good feelings this morning.

So enough about me and my cuteness for the day. Yeah Sunshine2 is back let me speak the universal language of vacationers to mexico - Mas Cervesas por favor :daze: Jump back on the wagon we are with ya.

Didnt you guys see the movie "The Beach" with Leonardo DiCaprio... Phuket is a killer place to visit its a beautiful party place. Its definatly on my list of places to go.

I'm sorry you guys when I get into clean air and farmland I'm looking for the biggest diesel truck I can find so I can suck on the exhaust pipe to get that fresh/farm air outta my lungs. I'm from LOS ANGELES clean air just doesnt exist here. :spin:

Okay I'm outta here...

Shannon :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

hmm,

A little sugar in her fruit loops this morning?


aww.....
jes' teasin'. You really made me smile. I do like it when folks feel like they can act a little silly and you ARE pretty cute today!
Libby

[_wilow]

Good morning. Shannon, I need a little of your energy. My husband kept me up all night because HE had a headache. THen he woke up with the hicups of all things, the lOUD hiccups. So I'm still half asleep.
Anyway, there's a question I've been wanting to post but it's embarrassing to me because I think I should be passed this kinda thought process. OK..here goes.. How do you all deal with the fact that your husband, significant other, whatever finds other women attractive? We get on the subject every now and then and my husband says he notices how women's breasts look right away and that any man notices those things. He says if a group of men see a really "bombshell" looking girl walk by they ALL look and after she passes they all say "did you see that, etc...." Well, I know this it true, I know it SHOULDn't bother me but it does. I hate it. I'm trying to learn ways to cope with the thoughts about this so I'm not so effected. Anyone have any ideas? What has been your experience with the green eye'd monster. Lisa

[KarenB]

In answer to your question, _wilow....

Who is he going home with, after he sees that bombshell blonde (or brunette or redhead or whatever)? If the answer is "me, who else?", you got nothin' to worry about, hon.

I've been with enough SOs to know when they're just being appreciative and when they're cruising for something on the side. As long as they're still comin' home with *me*, I'm good to go. :)

[Jo-Ann 2]

So I've started my 40th year. Good things that have happened.
One the skipper I race for (races in world championships, nationals and has more experience than I could dream of) tells me that he thinks I'm a very capable sailor and that he has set up for me to have his 29 foot boat for the ladies racing series(a very competitve fleet), now go get a crew. Well, Oh my _od.
Secondly, my sons teacher and director at his school stops me and says that she has looked at my sons homework over the weekend, and that I should come teach with her, "I am very good". If you knew this woman you would quickly realize that she does not say this type of thing to anyone. She is very competive and someone has to be her equal before she would consider passing on the offer to work with her as an equal.
Thirdly, I have found a group of woman who don't care if I ramble, cheer me up when I'm down, congradulate me for my success and finally don't want anything from me but friendship. Yes it's you.
Being 39 is great, I think as long as you have goals and you're working toward them, you will succeed, as my son would say I will rise to the challenge, or give me something more challenging to do. Now isn't that inspirational coming from a six year old, maybe I am a good teacher after all.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:
P.S. Hello to the new girls, the ones who are back and that woman in the red sweater, who is she anyway :D :D :D

[agonycat]

Willow, at one time I had a spouse that noticed other women. And he use to compare me to them, (or shoot me down for a matter of fact) Not saying yours does that.

However after remarrying, I have noticed one thing. My DH now NEVER glances at another woman while with me. I will say something like "hey wasn't she cute!" and he looks at me and says "huh? who?". *giggles* Not sure if it is out of respect or just pure devotion to me that he really isn't interested in looking at other females. He has never come home from work talking about females he or others saw that day etc. So I have to say not all men are built equally in the department of "just looking". (btw my hubby is just as geeky and nerdy as I am, so not sure if that is the difference or not *laugh*)

I have to say that after living with the previous for 10 years and hearing about how "he has seen prettier women" it use to drive me nuts. I struggled with bulimia for years trying to please the guy and after I caught him with another woman, after the break up I struggled with alcoholism. I was a total mess.

I finally cleaned my act up. I quit drinking, quit smoking and now losing the weight I put on from being insecure because I allowed someone to convince me I wasn't good enough.

To be honest, jealousy is a double edged sword. He may be doing that because he himself feels insecure and wants reassurance from you that *HE* is still sexy and handsome. You know that big ole male ego, that I might add is highly overrated. Just don't do something to endanger your life like I did in order to try to control it. I learned a long time ago that if a spouse is gonna cheat, they are going to cheat, regardless of how much love, devotion, adoration and respect you give to them. It's not about you, it is about them. Next time he starts talking about females, try doing the same thing about a guy you saw and see what his reaction is. Make one up if you need to :devil: It works both ways.

Or just flat out tell him look hun....I don't want to hear about some other women's boobs okay? I don't swing that way and well to be honest I really don't care to listen to the drivel. Please find another place to drool.

*wave*

[Jo-Ann 2]

Now, this is a hard one. Why do we look? Do we admire something we want or do we appriciate it for it's beauty? Does his looking at other woman bother you? If it does, tell him that it does. Tell him what it makes you feel like, for me, I use to compare myself, not a good thing. I told my husband a long time ago that I didn't mind if he looked at another woman but to consider how he feels when I look at another man. He got the point. Neither one of us is the others perfect match as far as thinking each other is drop dead gorgeous, but he tries to wear things I think he looks cute in and I do the same for him. I tell him he has a beautiful body and he does the same for me. I try and make him feel that he is the only man for me, and I expect him to treat me the same way. I told him a long time ago, I would never have an affair, If I was going to he'ld be the first to know. He knows I am loyal and I guess it all comes down to that.
I the bigger question is not, is he willing to stop something that bothers you, it is does he realize what he is saying about how he feels about you when his attention is diverted by another woman. Is he willing to not make it so obvious because it hurts you, whether he thinks it is a valid reason or not? On your side, are you willing to look at her too and admire her for her positive qualities.
I have learned to admire the other woman instead of compete with her. Is there something she wears or does that I admire? Do I want to do that myself? Do I want to do that for him? Sometimes that answer is yes. It's fun to be someone else sometimes. It definitely shakes up the bedroom!!!!!!
Don't know if this helped you any willow, and I'ld love to hear Shannon's opion on this, it sounds like she might be the other woman :D :D :D :D.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[rhubarb]

Lisa, I'm with agonycat - your husband could be acting out of his own insecurity when he talks about other women's ... um ... "physical attributes." He may be doing it just to gauge your reaction -- being aware of this might make it easier for you not to engage in that conversation.

Why are so many women uncomfortable when their partner admires another woman? I think it has less to do with jealousy, and more to do with the constant messages we get from popular culture that we're not [fill in the blank] enough. (You know ... slim, leggy, busty, tall, glamorous, shiny-haired, dewy-skinned, etc.) We're delivered these not-so-subtle messages of inadequacy all day long from the world at large. Who wants to get a similar feeling from the one who is closest to us?

So, bikini sisters, while we're all counting down to better health, more energy, stronger bodies and smaller clothes, let's try to appreciate our unique selves and shapes. You've heard it before: there are 3 billion women who don't look like supermodels, and only 8 who do.

-- Rhu

[_wilow]

Hi you all,
THank you so much for your feedback. It helps to have a place to vent these things and get some objective opinions. I truely appreciate the support! Lisa

[goingfor60]

Well this is just my 2 cents - I have really large breasts and long legs and none of that really matters. Yeah on occaision I pull some gawckers and its really not cool when men stare and drool in that way. There are men that I work with that dont even know I have a face just a large rack. There are women that I have worked with that thought I was a slut for wearing some clothing that they deemed provocative. When men stare its not about me as a woman or feelings I think its the 2 min of pleasure they could receive and that's all

My boyfriend is no prince and even with the boobs and legs he still looks at other women. I use to get mad and demand that he stop. So I confronted him on the staring and he said "yes I look and then I compare them to the woman I have and its always easy to decide who's not worth loosing." Now that could be to shut me up but of course I fall for it.

I am no great prize, I can be a raging bitch when I get in the mood. In instances where he has made me angry with staring I have walked up to the woman and then asked him outloud in public places "is this the woman you want us to sleep with?" Not that I would but to embarrass him is my revenge. Now that isnt the right thing to do, but there has to be a compromise. Our compromise is you do not stare(let me catch you) and I wont embarrass you for doing it. I dont force him to be with me or even to love me - that's his choice and he stays because of me as a person not me as having specific attributes. With all the boobs I have you would think he would be a breast man and he's not.

_willow its not a reflection on your self image or self worth. He has a habit that needs to be worked on.

Jo-Ann can I come sail with you... I learned how to sail last year and I skippered a 29' Swan to Catalina Island. I wanna be part of the crew - I love sailing!!!

See ya ladies...
Shannon

[goingfor60]

sorry for the duplicate post it wont let me delete it.

[_wilow]

Good morning ladies,
Thanks again for your support and feedback. I just want to clarify that my husband doesnt gawk or make comments in public about women. What happens for instance is we'll be watching TV and he'll make a comment like, "have you ever noticed all the newscasters on CNN are really flat chested? " I'll say, "I wouldnt have noticed that in a million years". HE'll say, "Men notice that right off the bat" ... so that's the kinda thing that happens. See, I know I overreact and I hate that. He does come home to me. He does love me. I think I just feel insecure about how I look becuase I was overwieght for so long. I'm feeling much better now because of the low carb wol. It won't be long and I'll be wearing that w2 peice! I guess I am getting older too though and know I can't compete with 20 year olds and that makes me feel bad.. There's that word compete. I need to just cut that out don't I.
Well, thanks again. I feel better :wave: Lisa

[Jo-Ann 2]

So I get to go to the doctor today and find out if I have cervical cancer or not. You know I use to worry myself crazy about things, then I heard some one say that out of all the words (don't know the number)in the bible the word "worry" is not written in it, not even once, because, God does not intend for us to worry, that is in his hands. This changed my life.
So I shall go to the appointment and listen to the doctor, if the answer is yes I will deal with it, but if the answer is no then I will be greatful for it. Either way I will survive and not worry. I am a Bikini Babe, right girls.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann
:wave:
P.S. You can come sailing with me anytime Shannon, the boat is a J29, a racing boat for sure. Now there's an idea, sailing the boat with the bikini babes, we would turn heads. :cool: :D :cool:

[agonycat]

n/m

[rhubarb]

Ha! Shannon, your “public humiliation” method of dealing with ogling reminded me of something I hadn’t thought about for years. Back in college (about 16 years ago) I attended a talk where the professor advocated confronting catcalls and remarks from men on the street. She suggested that women who were hassled by men on construction sites, etc, should confront them by walking right up and saying something like “excuse me, were you talking to me?” or “I don’t remember asking your opinion on my ass.” I think I may have tried it once or twice, but these days I just don’t hear those remarks as much – that’s either because I no longer have a remarkable ass, or because workers in every sector are trained not to harass now. (probably both!)

Here’s another funny memory that post dredged up: I also have breasts that are on the large side (although they not so notable now that my lower half over-shadows them!) and in my younger days, I sometimes ventured out [gasp!] braless. I was home for summer break in NYC, and walking down the street, I felt someone come up next to me and heard him say my name. I turned, smiling, to find an idiotic gaping total stranger leering back at me. It was then that I realized he hadn’t said my name - Barbara - he’d said “no bra!” A guy says “no bra” to me and I smile at him! Yich!

Don’t worry, Lisa – we get that your husband loves you and is not a crude oaf. But the generalization that “all men notice” is unfair to everyone, most of all the two of you; He should not stand behind it as a reason to discount your feelings, and you should not see it as proof that you are overacting. You are not. If his occasional comments bother you, then they bother you. Period.

Jo-ann, if your six-year-old has such sophisticated ideas about goals and challenges, it’s because he has a good role model. Please keep us posted -- a lot of bikini-chicks’ thoughts are going to be with you today!

Best –
Rhu

[Jo-Ann 2]

:yay: :yay: :yay: :angel: :angel: :angel: :yay: :yay: :yay:
No cancer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is irregular cell growth, yes, there is a nasty procedure that has to be done, yes, they might find some more growths and there may be some that are more developed. But there is no cancer. See worrying would not have done anything for me.

Dear Rhu My son was a gift from god, I thank him everyday. He is very wise for his age, I call him my little old man. He has a high set of values. He doesn't understand why someone would lie to you or treat you badly. I have had to explain to him that when someone is mean to you, it is becuase someone has been mean to them and that they are just passing it on, it might have nothing to do with you at all. His response was "well then it stops with me." He understands that the truth is the easiest way to get through the day, people respect someone they can trust. He has a gentle heart. When two of his friends moved away about the same time , he told me his friends were like flowers, he picked them with care, then they went away and did not grow back again, and that this made him very sad. He is always thinking, he looks at life differently than other children. He definitely gets that from me. Yes I look at life differently then other children too, for at heart I am still just a little kid.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[sunshine2]

Jo-Ann - so happy to hear that there is No cancer, that is such a relief. It also sounds like you have a very special child.

My two cents on the men looking at other women subject, my hubby has looked and I've caught him red handed, but he always turns around and smiles at me and says, "honey your so much prettier", or sexier or something like that. So that always makes me feel better. :D But I agree, if it bothers you, your hubby should not do it, period! PS - I can't help noticing a good looking man either, but it doesn mean I'm going to leave my hubby for him or something like that, I just notice pretty things, whether its a male or female, if its pretty I might look, just like if your walking down the street and see pretty flowers or a pretty house, we all stop and take a look, its human, its natural. But, again, if it bothers you, your husband should be more discrete.

Oh, I feel like a slug today, havent exercised all month, I suck. But April 1st, the BFL challenge is my goal. Still trying to get some workout equipment together, the 24 hours gym was too expensive.

[Jkrohn]

Hi all, I really am alive. Work has been crazy busy no time for me to stop and think let alone jump on in and read. Finally got a little break and thought I'd check in. Holy Toledo a lot has happened here............

Shannon, I too wanted to know what everyone does and believe it or not I fit into a similar class. I Graduated with a degree in Health Education. Was a CNA for years while I was going to school. loved it. Taught Health to 9th graders. Loved that too but something not quite right. Worked part time at Lane Bryant for 4 years then was promoted to management for 3 more years. THen I had a breakdown sick and tired of working every night, every weekend, and every holiday. RETAIL SUCKS! :thdown: :thdown: So I quit with no clue what I was going to do or where I was going to go. So when I neared the end of my proper 2 week notice without a job offer I got nervous. My sisters best friend told me I should come work with her as they were hiring. A trucking compnay. I though yeah right what the hell what I do in a trucking company. I'm a little prissy girl I like dresses and girlstuff, (oh I can have big balls when I need them but genereally I'm a typical girl) But i needed a job so I turned in my resume and went to the interview with an open mind. Well, I got the job and have worked for htem ever since! I love my job!!!!!! :cheer: I do customer service onsite with our #8 of the top 10 customers. I am truly happy and can't see myself doing anything else. People still joke about me having a teaching degree in health and yet I choose to work in transportation. I smile and say DAMN RIGHT!!

So that's me....no kids......not yet. Hubby and I will get there someday. WE want kids but waiting for the house first. I refuse to climb the 3 flights to my apartment 9 months pregnant. :)

Jo-Ann 2 CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I am so happy for you! NO CANCER!!! That is truly a bessing.


I just can't help but add my 2 cents on the man thing. Willow my hubby is the same way. He is forever comenting on the baywatch babes or some other actress on the TV, movie, hooker on the street Whoever, whenever. It used to drive me nuts make me think what the hell am I ? Chopped liver?? I used to think cripes he doesn't look at me that way what's wrong with me and on and on and on. Then one day I asked him. I said what the hell is going on here? He without a clue says what are you talking about. I responded with you sit and oogle, stare, drool at tons of beautiful women with smaller buts bigger boobs longer hair and yet you are with me. Why? He calmly looks at me and says the rules don't apply to you. What?? the rules don't apply to me what the heck did that mean???? See, my hubby loves me for me, for who I am at 275 pounds or 180 pounds, big boobs (from the weight gain) or small boobs (the weight loss) see I used to think there was something wrong with me. But that's exactly the opposite. In his eyes I am everything and will always be that way no matter how my body changes. Those other girls are just something to look at. But he always come home to me and I NEVER worry about him cheating.

Sunshine2 glad your back and had a wonderful time! BFL staring 4/1 with ya babe. Got a great deal on a dumbell set for the house. Until the tax $ rolls in I'm going to have to use my coffe table as a bench. SHould be soemthing to see. What are you going to do for your 20MAS??? It's too damn cold here in ND to be outside yet. SO not quite sure what I will do there. Any suggestions? Nat posted a website to print off the planning charts but I can't get to it. It always says unavailable. Anybody else find them??

Ok so I think I've bable on enough now. Good to be back with you ladies. WOL is going great. Nothing more lost to report but still eating right and feeling great.

Stay Strong Ladies you are the foundation of my success!

Messy

[Libbyfcr]

It's going to be over 80 degrees today. I am afraid my bikini weather is going hit my area first and that isn't fair!! Well... when we reach 120 I want to move to Nova Scotia and live on someones boat. HA!

JoAnn... I am so relieved for you! I have been there, done that. Be strong girl!! You can do this!! Of course, I have always believed that women are much stronger than men.

I have been thinking about the subject... men "lookin".. and decided that I am probably more guilty of it than my husband. I think I compare myself to beautiful women WAY to much. Sure my husband looks a little, but it's no biggie. He has been coming home to me for 13 years and I am confident in our relationship.
Me, well.... I have always looked at the most beautiful bodies and wondered why that couldn't have been me. How come I couldn't have babies and stay skinny? Why hadn't I been blessed with those legs......and that chest.....and ....well... you understand.

So now I am on a journey for me..... myself......and only myself.... I have waited 12 years to find who I am. I am working on loving what I have been given, making myself healthier and happier. AND I can do this.

Whew.... with that big dramatic statement I wana now ask ya'll to remind me which tanning lotion's ya'll liked and didn't like. I remember the conversation but can't find the page. :rolleyes:

later babes,
:wave: Libby

[slimchance]

Hello ladies! :wave:

I've been visiting with my parents for the last few days and decided to stay through until Easter. I guess I should throw my two cents in about a few things too. :p

First of all, I left my job as a private contractor for an insurance company in 2000 and decided to go back to school. I'm currently pursuing a degree in French and Economics, but for the last 3 1/2 weeks the professors have been on strike and I have been pretty much sitting around waiting to hear if my current year was going to be a waste. They did come up with a tentative agreement yesterday which they are voting on Thursday, and if all goes well, I'll be back to school on Monday. :D

I tossed around a ton of ideas, and have switched my major about a half a dozen times since going back, but I just happened to take an intro economics class and had an excellent prof. I was hooked after that...it's amazing what you learn from a first year economics class! I want to keep up with my French as well. I had taken French Immersion all through grade school, but (like muscle mass)if you don't use it...you lose it.

Next topic...I'm not married, but I've been seeing the same guy for about a year and a half. Had thought that he was the one, but not so sure now. We get along great for the time being, so I'm going with it, but I don't think we have the same goals...I am a few years older than he is, so that may be why. At any rate, he is good to me. I am a big fan of watching people :eek: ...not in a creepy way! I enjoy sitting down for a coffee in a crowded place and just watching the people go by, and how they interact with each other. I've noticed many ways that men react to women. When I see a woman go by, I know which ones my bf will "check out" and which ones he won't blink an eye at. He makes positive and negative comments about them all, but generally compares them to me. He is very positive (and careful ;) ) when he points out another woman's better points, and is generally quite supportive of my efforts, be it in my school, my WOE, or my exercise...heaven knows, it can't be the prettiest sight to see me on the floor sweating through my crunches!! I have a pretty good outlook on life, and I have a fair bit of self-confidence(though not as much as I did when I felt really good about my body), so maybe? that is why I don't read too much into what he says. It is always harder to accept a DH comments about another woman if you aren't completely secure about yourself. For some people it has been a long time...or maybe even never have they felt truly happy with themselves. I would think that it would be a bigger thing for them to overcome their self-esteem issues to see what may have been an innocent statement by a man who doesn't understand society's pressures on being the "ideal woman." Most men do not understand that women grow up seeing what seem to be teeny, tiny little women on the big screen, on tv, in magazines, and they don't realize that a vast majority of us can never be 105lbs with perfectly sculpted muscles and cellulite free (without being air-brushed ;) ). Men don't have to try to live up to unrealistic expectations...Just about any show you see on tv has a man who could stand to shape up a bit, but they are more accepted. Men DO have their own pressures, but they, for the most part, do not understand ours. Ok, maybe this was all a bunch of hokey, but those are my thoughts. Sorry for being so long winded...just count it as 2-3 posts!! :)

To sum up...some men are insensitive, but some don't mean to be. I think it helps to have our own self-confidence to be able to tell the difference. Does that make sense??

Thanks for letting me ramble...all the best everyone!!!

KC :daze:

[slimchance]

Oh...and Jo-Ann...

I am so pleased that your results came out that you are cancer free!!

You'll be in that bikini with more vigor than ever!!

All the best!!

KC

[Libbyfcr]

Oh My Gads....

I just figured out what this REALLY is......

Group Therapy.........

Libby

[sunshine2]

Originally posted by Jkrohn
Sunshine2 glad your back and had a wonderful time! BFL staring 4/1 with ya babe. Got a great deal on a dumbell set for the house. Until the tax $ rolls in I'm going to have to use my coffe table as a bench. SHould be soemthing to see. What are you going to do for your 20MAS??? It's too damn cold here in ND to be outside yet. SO not quite sure what I will do there. Any suggestions? Nat posted a website to print off the planning charts but I can't get to it. It always says unavailable. Anybody else find them??

Messy

I have a mini trampoline that I plan on jumping on for the 20MAS, until it gets nicer outside, then I might do the jog thing, I've been trying to figure that out myself. TOM just came to visit me today, so I'm hoping it will leave by Monday.

Oh, I want a bikini damn it. - i saw one last night that I really want, I'm thinking about buying it just to have some hope. Seeing it hang in my closet every morning might give me the inspiration to drag myself out of bed earlier to exercise. That is going to be the hardest part for me during the BFL challenge, is getting up and exercising in the morning. I love my sleep, and I am not a morning person at all. But I am going to do this, I have made a promise to myself, and I am not going to back down now.

[KarenB]

Wow.. where to begin...

JoAnn2, may brightest blessings continue to rain upon you and yours. What wonderful news about your condition, and what a precious child you have. :)

Sunshine and Messy: I'm doing BFL right at home, no weight bench (I use the coffee table too and you're right, it's something to see :lol: ), nothing like a stationary bike/trampoline/treadmill, which is why I'm the only idiot out there at 5am three days a week come rain, snow, sleet, whatever. :D But--I've begun jogging a little, not just walking! Jogging has *never* been something I thought about, but if I'm going to do this thing, I'm going to do it to the best of my ability--and then push harder to *raise* that ability. I'll be looking forward to watching your progress in this challenge. Oh yeah--I'm no morning person, either. *Everyone* who knows me well knows that. I can't say this is turning me into one, but I have found out that it's possible to be up and moving about with at least a lizard-consciousness at 5am. :D

_wilow, you've gotten some excellent advice from the wimmen here about the "wandering eye." I appreciate your clarification post; I've been there done that too, as many of us have. And I don't recall who said it, but I agree: Once we have our own self-esteem in hand, what other people say/think/do around/about us is far less damaging (assuming it's negative, of course).

In the last week and a half I've had more people comment on how I'm looking than in the last year. I'm constantly amazed that they even notice--but I also realized today that *part* of the reason they're noticing is my self-esteem. I've gotten it back *in spades* and everyone's noticing--including myself. I only started BFL on the 18th, so I know there's not a lot of visible results in the fat loss/muscle gain department. BUT... even *I* can tell it's done wonders for my self-view!

I've said it before and I'll say it again:

WE ROCK!!!! :agree:

[_wilow]

JoAnn, I've had that cervical precancerous cells before, had the biopsy and the cyrosurgery where they freeze the cells. It went fine and really didnt hurt too much and I've been told if you get it at that stage not to worry at all. Glad it was good news.
You all are great. I am so glad I found you! Lisa :roll:

[goingfor60]

Congratulations JoAnn today has been quite a day and any day that is a cancer free day is one to remember.

I still dont believe it myself but I was up at 5:15 getting myself dressed to go to the gym for a workout. I thought about Karen out there jogging the streets battling the elements, so that helped me get my candy ass outta bed and in the gym. I went to what I thought was a step & sculpt class. Well it turns out that this instructor thinks step&sculpt are for little girls and real women need to workout until they find their inner beings. So I stepped, sculpted, ab worked and topped it off with a little spinning. Whew I was so endorphine rushed that I was bouncing around like some sort of freak.

I went from workout junkie to couch potato in a matter of months - I used weather as an excuse, I swear I could have atleast been a little more creative. So now I'm back to 4 days a week instead of 2. Look out bikini here I come.

Libby - hadnt you gathered from reading our posts that we all could use a little therapy. I probably should seek professional help but this is so much more fun. :daze:

Messy - girl I missed ya - I'm with you on the kids thing I need some assets. Plus I'm still waiting for my boyfriend to put that HOUSE on my finger - oops I meant ring...

Why cant I have a wedding dress, party, gifts and honeymoon without that darn committment to another person for the rest of my life - they need a singles version of this marriage stuff. I am quite certain a Vera Wang gown, 100 of my closest friends, 50-100 gifts from Macy's or Tiffany's and a trip to Aruba would fulfill all of my marriage needs. Shallow probably - jaded could be but do I still want to walk down that isle - oh yeah. Forgive my dribble but I've been watching "A wedding story" on the discovery channel for days now.

Anyway have a great evening.

Shannon

[Cher]

:wave: Hi Bikini babes…
I am feeling worried right now. How am I ever going to get into Bikini shape by summer when I still have 15 – 30 pounds to lose...My struggles are with these droopy boobies, sagging underarms, and cellulite on my thight...please help me to figure out how to correct these challenges!

Lisa… I just wanted to take a moment to compliment you on your weight loss…. (((((((((67 pounds))))))))) that’s awesome!
:cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
you’ve come a long way and it must feel great! I’m sure you’ll be wearing that 2 piece soon..

Jo Ann…I’ve been sick for a while and this is the first I’ve heard of you possibly having cervical cancer. I’m so happy that the results came back negative!

Aw…Sunshine…your hubby is like mine…if he sneaks a look at another woman he always makes me feel secure by saying something like "oh your so much prettier hon"…anyway, I’m a succker for that. But, he does it so rarely that I hardly ever feel demeaned by that.

[Jo-Ann 2]

Ok Girls, how are you going to keep the killer bunnies from coming and leaving sweet things for you around the house? I'm lucky my son is not a chocohalic, but my mother is and she likes to share. I bought asparagus, cooked up a ham, and have strawberries in the fridge. What do you have planned for Easter's gremlins attact, isn't it cunning of them to dress up like cute little bunnies? Have I dated myself with the Monty Python reference?
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:
P.S. Thanks for all the support girls. I appreciate your kindness. Glad to see you back Cher, we missed you. Toning is the only answer to the things that hang and support is important too, foundation garments are made for us that nature has proven "the law of gravity actually becomes stronger as we age". I'm almost positive that it doesn't apply to anyone who has a teen in there age.

[Tama]

You ladies are the best. Can I just say that? I have been reading and reading through the past week, and I have wanted to post, but I felt like you guys had already said it all. DITTO to everything!!

Jo-Ann, I am so happy your results came back negative. My family has skin cancer running rampant throughout, so I know what a relief that is. And this may date me too, but I totally got your Monty Python reference.

As for the Easter thing, I've got it covered. I am fasting until after church. That should give the kiddies time to devour all of the tempting food. Then I have a yummy ham waiting for me, just like you.

Shannon!! Up at 5:15!! :eek: I am impressed. I am starting to feel motivated to get up early too .........starting to. :p

Keep it up ladies, you are all awesome.

Hugs, Tama

[agonycat]

Originally posted by Cher
[BI am feeling worried right now. How am I ever going to get into Bikini shape by summer when I still have 15 – 30 pounds to lose...My struggles are with these droopy boobies, sagging underarms, and cellulite on my thight...please help me to figure out how to correct these challenges!
[/B]

Cher, I know the feeling.

I had lost so much weight so fast, I purposely slowed it down to about .5 a week at most. This seems to have corrected the loose skin. I am still not perfect tight and the loss is slow going, but at least when I walk my skin doesn't swing side to side, nor do I jiggle much. :lol:

[Libbyfcr]

I have something to share. It made me laugh.

http://www.ohiowebsites.com/onelb.html

Later darlin's,
Libby

[Tama]

That was awesome, Libby! You ought to post that in more places around here.

Tama

[KarenB]

As for me, Jo-Ann, I'm going in with the Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch! :D

Seriously.... I'm sure Mom will make a ham again, that's standard Easter fare at their house. At least with her and my dad following SugarBusters!, it's not as hazardous there as it used to be. :) And now that I'm on BFL, I just might make Sunday a really "free day" as it's meant to be--not that I'll be eating an entire Easter cake, but I may allow myself to indulge in a few things I wouldn't otherwise have here at home, like sweet potatoes, cinnamon apple rings, that kinda thing.

"And three shall be the number to which they shall count; and they shall not stop at two, unless they proceed on to three...."

OMG, the first time I saw that movie was at my parents' home, on late-night tv. I laughed so loud I woke both of them up and they came downstairs to see what was going on. They watched for a couple of minutes (and yes, it was the Holy Hand Grenade scene!)--and just didn't get it. Back upstairs they went, and I did my best not to guffaw too loudly afterward.

WE ROCK--AND PYTHON RULES!!! :agree:

[goingfor60]

Well first of all - we missed you cher, I was wondering had you run off to be with some carb addicts or just didnt love us anymore. I am glad you feel better and a lot of exercise is the only thing that will take away the jiggle.

My easter sunday is going to be filled with LC waffles, cheese stratta made with LC bread and cajun sausage, ham and hmmm I think a LC strawberry cheesecake. *I need a really good waffle mix that's not going to give me flat little nothing waffles - the catch is I dont want to use pork rhinds. Any ideas?

I'm really going to miss the pecan hazlenut belgian waffles and the blini's. I'm not much of a candy eater, today I gave away my first piece of easter candy.

Alright tomorrow morning I am up at 5:15 to start my workout... who else is going to join me and Karen on the morning workout quest? Tama I know your lurking around out there - come on 5am isnt so bad right?

Later babes,

Shannon

[_wilow]

Hi everyone!
Hi Cher. Thanks for the compliment. To be honest I think my wieght has come off as the result of this diet, definitely but also some tae-bo(not as consistently as I'd like) and also using slenderwiegh. It helps me control my appitite. I need to start getting off of it soon though. It has 12 mg. of ephedra in it(3xday) and the FDA says you shouldnt take more than 8mg 3x daily. I plan to start BFL soon but I just got diagnosed with a herniated disc (my arm and hand have been numb for 2 months and have had a lot of shoulder pain. I may have to have surgery but I'm hoping that's a last resort. Anyway, that's my story.
As for Easter, I plan to take the day off. I do that now and then and it seems to help me deal the rest of the time.
Hope you all have a great Easter. Lisa

[KarenB]

There *is*something peaceful and soothing about being the only human being up and around at 5am, especially if the weather's cooperative (i.e. no snow, sleet, or rain). Just me, the street, and the birdsong.

Not a bad way to get the motor revved up for the day, actually.

[sunshine2]

Originally posted by goingfor60
Alright tomorrow morning I am up at 5:15 to start my workout... who else is going to join me and Karen on the morning workout quest?

Well, I'm with ya! I'm starting the 5am workouts 4/1. I'm not a morning person at all, so this is going to be really hard for me, but I have told myself I can do ANYTHING for 12 weeks, so I'm going to do it, I will do it, I will. (I'm still trying to convince myself). Seriously, I'm excited about it, I'm still trying to get my workout equipment together, but come Monday morning, I will be exercising!

[rhubarb]

Hello, you strong, healthy women! How is everyone today?

I don’t know why I’m in such a good mood. The scale has not budged since my first week moving from zone to Atkins (3 weeks ago) and I was pretty bummed about it this a.m. But I already complained in another thread, and was told it’s likely due to the BFL. So, I’ll try to be patient and wait for the pant-o-meter to register.

By the way, all of you doing BFL at home on your coffee tables: I do it on my aerobic step. A little low to the ground, but it works. They’re cheap at yard sales and second hand sporting good stores.

Shannon, Karen and Sunshine – I’m with you at 5 a.m. If I don’t start by 5:15, it won’t get done before the kids get up. The problem is I can’t stay up late at night; and my 12-year-old is still up and running and I’m ready to conk out. However, one of the nice side-effects of BFL on an empty stomach in the a.m. is that I get to have breakfast with him. Haven’t seen him at the breakfast table in years.

Don’t know what to tell you about Easter foods, but Wednesday night was the start of Passover, and I stood my ground! There are a few foods that are eaten ritually during the Seder (Passover meal) that I could not avoid and took in small quantities (wine, matzah [like a cracker] and an apple, cinnamon and sugar mixture) but all in all I did ok. Good thing mom is a boring cook. Probably the worst I had was a few dried fruit slices. But I should report for all of you who are planning a trip off the wagon on Sunday, that I was out of ketosis the day after just from the small amount of carb-excess that one night. Just FYI. I felt fine, but could not produce a pink stick.

Jo-ann – great news about your being cancer-free! What a relief! And killer bunnies? Run away! Run away!
rhu

[goingfor60]

I was feeling so good last night about my body and being on track that I went to Ujena.com and ordered 2 bikini's a red one and a black one.

I am hoping they arrive soon so I can put them on and get a real picture for what I need to be doing. The bra and panty thing isnt really a true picture.

Now the bad side to this was that I spent over $100 on 2 suits. Its less material, they should cost less than a one piece and if they really wanted to help they would be very forgiving of any flaws. So I struggled with the cost and then I justified it by agreeing to skip any plans for going out to lunch with friends during the next 2 weeks.

Keep your fingers crossed ladies...

Have a happy easter!

Shannon :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Shannon where did your picture go girl, the snoopy is cute but, I really liked the picture. There was just something about it, you know not quite a full smile, but a somewhat naughty one. Does this mean you have another one to come? $100.00 for two isn't that bad girl, think of the million bucks you'll feel like when you wear them. Congradulations kid. Who's next girls?
The easter bunny left chocolate early at my house, I admit it I ate some, had killer heartburn and an upset stomach, will I never learn? Well I'm going to chalk it up to just putting the foot off the wagon and getting it wet not getting my foot stuck and being ripped off the wagon at full force. I'm back on it today and I figure the headache will be gone soon.
Bikini here I come, it's going to hit double digits here tomorrow, to bad thats C* not F* though.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Danielle]

I just wanted to say hello and Happy Easter to everyone!
I have to admit I've been off track these last few days. But I plan to get right back on. I made low-carb cheesecake for tomorrow. I just hope it tastes good. Have a good one.

Danielle

[liddle]

Hello Everyone,

Just wanted to say HAPPY EASTER!!!!!!!!!!

This is my 500 post, and my first steak, :yum: just wanted to share it with you all.

I hope you guys are stronger than I have been lately. This Easter candy has really been hard to avoid. I was the perfect LCer today, but I know tomorrow will do me in. Hubby works all day tomorrow so it's just me and the kids and a ton of Easter candy. We're gonna go to the movies not sure what we're gonna see yet. My daughter wants to see big fat liar and my son wants to see ice age. Guess we'll just flip a coin. I think I'm gonna allow myself whatever I want tomorrow and Monday just back on the LC wagon. Who knows maybe I'll feel strong and not want to cheat tomorrow. That's what happened today. Had no intension of staying LC today, just kind of happend. Maybe my body is getting sick of the choc. I wish somebody would inform my taste buds!

Oh well, HAPPY EASTER to all and be strong!!!!!!!
Later,
Heather

[Jo-Ann 2]

Hoppy Hoppy Easter!!!!!!!!!!!

[Libbyfcr]

I visited Ujena.com........and darn near decided that there wasn't ONE single bikini that had enough material to ummmmmm..... make me happy......and then I saw it..... of course it was on the VERY LAST PAGE of bikinis.

You got it...... the "Velvet Moon Suit" and I liked it in the color shown. Anyone here ever actually wear velvet? I mean, to swim in? lol

I have been working on my tan for the last two days. Yup.... this 90 degree weather is just lovely, unless you are working in it. So..now I have some tan lines. Yep, you can see EXACTLY how long my shorts are and what kind of tee shirt I wear. HA! Oh well, guess my tan leaves something to be desired, but I tell ya........ nothing like having to wear a swimsuit when your neck, legs and arms are brown and the rest of you looks a new born baby butt.

sigh.......... guess I should work on that tanning thang.

BTW..... had a great Easter. I didn't crave a thing...... so I simply didn't eat anything that I didn't need. I cooked a fancy spiral cut ham, made a salad and had green beans and a baked yam with butter. It was wonderful.

pssst.... Heather...... Ice Age..... very funny movie. I enjoyed it and my kids loved it.

Ta Ta for now,
Libby :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

"People with goals succeed because they know where they're going."
-Earl Nightingale
Today I'm starting my journal. I didn't know what to call it, then I read this quote and thought. Quote of the Day. Please come in and visit me there. Well here I go.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

I did it, I did it and Slimchance came to visit me. Thanks Slim. Now fit day here I come, wish me luck girls. By the way the killer Bunnies made me eat two mini chocolate bars while I was helping him hide eggs Saturday night, but I didn't have any attacks yesterday, on the official day. I ate steak with asparagus and loads of butter, yes I licked the plate. I just love this WOL.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

P.S. It just occurred to me I started my journal on April Fools Day. Isn't life ironic?

[Jkrohn]

Good Morning all!

Hope you all had a wonderful Easter. I had a wonderfully relaxing weekend with my in-laws. But, had a major catastrophe with cadburry eggs. Did you know they have flavors now?? Not just the original ones that look like a real egg inside. No..... they have snickers, butterfinger, milky wya, carmel, fudge....... and oh my. Sorry got carried away. Just like I did yesterday. 1 taste of the nieces egg and I had to try others. 6 eggs later I was so sick! Heartburn city and tummy ache oh my!

But, the gremlins came and just as fast they left. Sailed through dinner with ease! Lots of Ham, Asparagus, broccoli with cheese, pickles, olives. Oh and sugar free jello with whip cream for dessert! YUMMY!

Today back on the wagon with no problems! Up at 0500 to begin my BFL challenge. It felt great! Started with my UBWO this am. So the plan actually took me 55 minutes instead of 45 but I figure as I get used to doing it it will get faster. I can't believe how much of a weakling I am. I planned my workout last night like a good BFL girl but I couldn't hit the weight goals I had set. Oh well, I did all the reps and hit my 10's!!! :thup: I find that coffee table works pretty darn good! I do find it takes a lot of time to change weights all the time. I have adjustable dumbells so it takes a little bit to remove the weights and add more in between each set. Again, the more comfortable I get the easier it should become. Now, if only I knew what to do tomorrow am for my 20 MAS. It is snowing here again. :rolleyes: Suppose to get 5 more inches tonight and tomorrow am the winds are suppose to be 35 miles an hour. So outside is not an option for me. I think I am going to use my walking tapes and just step up the intensity as I need too. What do ya think? Or I do live in a 3 floor apartment building. Maybe I should run up and down the steps?? Any suggestions?

Sunshine2 how did you fair this am? The 5am doesn't bother me. I was already getting up at 5:15 to do my 2 mile walking tapes. Didn't even notice the 15 minutes loss. BUT OMG am I sore! My triceps are still screaming! Lifting my coffee cup takes effort! But doesn't it feel good??? 12 weeks is going to be a breeze.

Other BFL girls working out at home what do you for your 20 MAS? How long before you noticed your body changing? How long were you sore? Is it a safe bet to think I will be nearly cripped after my LBWO that I will be sleeping in my car as I won't be able to climb the 3 flights to my apartment??

Well I think I've babbled enough....... Hope all is well with the bikini babes!

Stay Strong Stay Healthy!

Messy

[Jo-Ann 2]

So Girls the bunny has hopefully hopped into and out of your life for this year. Now back to the topic at hand. Who has bought the bikini, who has tried on one and not purchased (that would be me) and the most important question What Colour Is It?
I would really like to find one that is navy blue with gold trim or red with extra support for those beaudacious set of ta ta's as my husband puts it. Is your faviorite colour what you want or is it more of a if the style suits me I don't care what colour it is.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[sunshine2]

Originally posted by Jkrohn
Sunshine2 how did you fair this am? The 5am doesn't bother me. I was already getting up at 5:15 to do my 2 mile walking tapes. Didn't even notice the 15 minutes loss. BUT OMG am I sore! My triceps are still screaming! Lifting my coffee cup takes effort! But doesn't it feel good??? 12 weeks is going to be a breeze.

Hey there Messy, I did start the BFL challenge today, although I feel a little unorganized, my weights were too light, I have 3 lb, 5 lbs, then 20 lbs, the 5 lbs was too light, the 20 lbs to heavy, so I'm off to Wally world (Wal-mart) tonite to buy some 8 lb or 10 lb dumb bells.

But, I will say I am a tired puppy today, the 5 am came really early. But I'm hoping to get used to it. Tomorrow I will be doing the jog thing.

Keep up the good work! I was thinking I probably will do this for a total of 24 weeks, I know 12 weeks will not get me to where I want to be, so I will probably do it again.

[slimchance]

Hey babes! :wave:

A bit of good news this morning...I fit comfortably into my size 12's!! :hyper: I'm getting there...slow and steady. At least bathing suit season is still a couple of months away for me.

Just one question...if your arms fall off does that mean you've hit your 11's?? :lol: I tried both the upper and lower workouts before, more or less for a trial run. It made it a lot more smooth-flowing today.

How many of us out there started BFL today? There seem to be quite a few of us.

I'm hoping that my running club "homework" is not going to mess too much with my results. I am going to try to work that into my BFL schedule somehow, but the routine (highs and lows) are different, so i'm going to have to figure something out.

No shopping for a new bikini yet...don't want to get discouraged...but I will be shopping among the clothes in my closet now that I know that I'm starting to fit back into some of them...it's like a whole new wardrobe!! :yay:

All the best everyone!!

KC :wave: :roll: :spin: :daze:

[rhubarb]

Well ... I went to that Ujena.com, Shannon and Libby – whoa! Those are some slinky swanky suits! Nice choice on that velvet moon, Libby. Now can anyone recommend a brand or website for me? I just can’t see myself in a suit that dips very low under the navel. My second pregnancy left that area looking [warning: icky graphic description follows …] somewhat like a relief map! I’m pretty self conscious about my pudgy legs, but they could still improve. My lower belly? I don’t see it happening. I remember a few years back seeing suits with bottoms that looked like gym shorts, and tops that looked like sports bras. Haven’t seen ‘em lately though. Suggestions anyone?

Jo-ann, I think that what’s true in clothing is also true in bathing suits: the color is probably equally important as the style in terms of what’s flattering. You might want to consider a “mix and match” suit – the top and bottom sold separately. That would also allow the top to be colored and the bottom solid, or the other way around. I may end up doing that myself if could ever find a bottom like the one I describe above. There’s a top on Ujena.com called “Calypso” that’s made for those of us with a “beaudacious set of ta ta's!”

Anyway, Sunshine and Messy -- I am one of your BFL-at-home-sisters (and I also can’t seem to make it take only 45 minutes.)

Here are some of my “BFL at home” tips:
* If it’s not too late, get the kind of dumbbells that use clamps to hold the weights on the handles instead of those screw-on thingies. This was suggested by Nat over in the BFL forum, and it saves a lot of time.
* I’ve started to plan my next UBWO or LBWO while I’m doing one. I just keep both the current day’s worksheet out, and the next one too. If anything needs adjusting, I just note the change on the next UB or LBWO sheet. If my weights are too high or too low, I can plan to change it for the next time without much thought.
* I use step-aerobics tape for my 20MAS. I happen to have one that is broken up into segments that nearly match the BFL standard. It’s not perfect, but with no equipment at home, and two small children sleeping while I work out (read: can’t leave the house) there’s no other choice right now.
* Consider adding Glutamine to whatever supplements you’re taking. It will really help with muscle soreness.
* Don’t be surprised if weight loss slows while you’re doing BFL. I started BFL the week after I switched to Atkins, and I was dejected when the scale stopped moving after the initial success. It’s started again, and I know I’m losing inches, which is what’s really important anyway. I’m starting week four, and really starting to see some changes in my body.

Sorry – I know this isn’t the BFL thread, but there are a bunch of us doing it at home here for similar reasons, so I figured I’d post about it.

Hope everyone is well after their holidays. Passover will be done in a few days, and I've barely taken notice. With it's restriction on leavened and certain wheat products, it's the ultimate in low carb observance!

best -
Rhu

[Tama]

What a weekend!! Sounds like we have all been busy. Wow, you gals are doing great, especially the BFL team!! You gals just keep it up and I think I will cheer from the stands. I'll stick with what I know. You have my admiration, though.

Jo-ann, I bought my bikini about a month ago and I love it. I agree with you on picking colors - very important. My suit is tie-dyed bright orange. That color looks really good on me when I have a tan, because my skin is extremely "warm". Definitely do not look good in the cooler tones!! Good luck on finding what you want. The suit is out there, don't give up 'til you find it!!

And KC, way to go on fitting into the 12's!! :thup: That is awesome. I am a firm believer that fitting into once "too-small" clothes is infinitely more fun than shopping for new ones!! Have fun!!

Hugs all, and keep up the good work!!
Tama

[Jkrohn]

Red checkered bikini!

OK so I haven't bought a new one yet. But I have one in my drawer that has been worn ONCE!! :thdown: It's way cute and accentuates the "ta ta's" that have now shrunk. But that's ok that means I'm loosing fat! I tried it on the other day and nearly laughed myself into a coma. What a sight! BAD NEWS!!!! But, I will wear it again. Well, maybe not as it might not be the most flattering suit (even when I reach that bikini bod) for me. I just liked the top. THe bottoms are a little too low cut for me. Either way it has been a good motivator to try on every now and then to see where I have improved and what I need to work at a little harder.

I have looked in stores for others but nothing I have found has been worth the work to try on yet. :( But, I know the perfect one is out there somewhere. I will find it and boy look out! You will all here me squeal with excitement. For now I'm with the rest of you trying on clothes from your own closet that haven't fit in forever and having them be baggy! What a feeling.

Just this weekend I was wearing a dress for Easter and my mother in law asked if I liked those "type" of dresses. Ya know the real comfy empire waist with looser bottoms? Anyway I said yeah I wear then all the time (I do) So she goes into her closet and pulls out a great green one and says if you want this it's yours. 1st thing I do is look at the tag. PXL. Petite XL! Yeah right. OK 1st of all I'm 5 10 and currently wearing a 20 (I think). I wear Talls not petites. But hell I thought I'd give it a whirl for shits and giggles. I even told her if it didn't fit now it would soon. But, it slid right on and fit perfectly! :Party: So excited. I thought it would be awhile yet before I was in a regular XL and not a double or triple. Way fun! Not sure why it's a petite as it comes down to the midde of my shins. Perfect length. But I don't care. It fit and that's all that mattered.

Well again I have taken too much of your time. Keep hunting for that perfect bikini babes. Once you find it you'll know!

Stay Strong!

Messy

[sunshine2]

Rhu - thanks for the BFL tips, I need all I can get.....I will have to go check out your journal.

Messy - way to go, I know it was such a delight for me when I could fit into an XL or L, and out of the Womens sizes, you know the plus sizes. It felt good to go shopping and find something I like.

Hey KC - congrats on getting into a smaller size, I know you are thrilled, WOW a 12???? Man, I can't wait to get there!

And about that bikini, I have one in mind, I want a HOT pink, solid color bikini, or a BRIGHT yellow. Something that really stands out when you have a tan. These are the two colors people tell me I look the best in. Haven't shopped yet, but do go take a peak at them everytime I'm at any kind of store! Hoping by July or August I can go get one. Hopeing the BFL challenge will get me in shape!

Okay, back to work, talk to you bikini babes later!

[goingfor60]

I am and will always be the Jello-cake champ. My late aunt was famous for her jello cake and all of her nieces and nephews worshiped her for her jello-cake making ability including myself. My cousins and I are all within a year of each other in age which is quircky. But anyway I went to spend some time with my aunt before she passed from cancer maybe 1o years ago. During the time we spent together she taught me (the only one) to make Jello-cake.

Now being the diva of jello cake I flaunt my talent and ability to the rest of my family and make them beg for this cake. I will not share the recipe with anyone in my family (in my age group). So yesterday E-sunday I thought I'd surprise my cousins and family with a jello-cake. My cousin jason searched the internet and found a version of this cake. So surprise we had 2 versions - mine the jello cake from the heavens and his knock off internet version.

So I had to taste mine and his and do a true comparison and all I have to say is that I am and will always be the ruler of Jello-cake.

There was also this really GREAT cheesecake I mean it puts the cheesecake factory to shame. I had 2 small slices of that and otherwise I was perfectly LC no candy at all.

Jo-Ann - I am in the process of putting up a new photo, I was forced to take another one at work. In the mean time I thought the belly on snoopy kinda looked like mine if I were to be lying out in the sun. :daze:

Messy - good going on the XL getting out of "Women's" clothing just makes me feel younger for some reason. I dont know maybe its me but XL and Large in my mind qualify as woo hoo I'm a chick not a woman.

All you other babes out there - stay strong and lets hope my red or black bikini fit. They'd better :rolleyes:

Anyway have a great day.

Shannon

[Tama]

Yo again, bikini babes. You guys are so funny!!

Messy, I just have to say, YES!! You must be on cloud 9, or maybe cloud 999. That had to feel good! Any chance you'll be going shopping to try on some more 1X stuff? That would be interesting!!

Shannon, my very good friend with the hot bod and quick mind, we are all bikini babes here, and we have bonded, I would say. I feel like I am part of something special in this group. Sooooo, how about this cake? Come on, would you share it with us? What if we all place our right hand on our bikini, raise our left and swear to the bikini powers above that we will never, ever reveal the secret of the jello cake to anyone who isn't a proper bikini-clad babe? You can't toy with us like that! PLEEEZE!

Come on, ladies, who's with me? If we all swear, maybe we can convince Shannon we won't tell a soul!


Tama T.
(The 'T' is for 'Trustworthy'!! ;) )

[Jo-Ann 2]

I've pulled the old bikini out of the closet. Yes the one I worn only once for the day I actually starved myself on WW for. I put it on and swore to the heavens that On My Honour As A Bikini Babe that I would not relenquish (no idea how to spell that so I did it Phonically) I would not reveal the true composition of the famed Jello Cake.
I to have joined the ralley cry.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Jkrohn]

Come on Shannon! PPPPLLLLLLEEEEEAAAAASSSSSEEEEE.......
We are all bikini babes here who would never.... for any reason.... ever...... leak your famed jello recipe to non worthy people. None other than fellow bikini wearing LC babes will hear of this recipe! We promise! We all could use a prize dessert we can show off at summer neighborhood picnics and family barbeques. COme on gals! Lets prove it to her we are worth it!

Messy

[Libbyfcr]

All righty now..... I grew up in the Jello State and have probably eaten jello in more ways than you can imagine...... so bring it on bakini babe...... share your jello cake with us. Besides..... we won't tell your family.

I probably won't be buying a bikini any time soon... I have a whole drawer full of 'em. My favorite is black with royal blue accents. The bottom comes up a little higher on my post-pregnancy leftovers and looks good when I am at the right weight. The top has much more coverage to it and I like it a lot. I also have a black bikini.... a hot pink and black bikini........ and a couple of other old ones.

A few weeks ago I found a beautiful designer one piece swimsuit at a yard sale with a big designer price tag still hanging on it. I bought it for a dollar. (It obviously had never been worn, or I wouldn't have bought it) It's all white and the cut is perfect for me. It also happens to be a size 7/8....so I have something to work towards.

So.... who else has been to Ujena.com?

Libby :wave:

[slimchance]

Hi babes! :wave:

I've been to Ujena.com. There's some nice stuff there, but a lot that I wouldn't dare to sport in public...well, at least not at this point! :eek: If only the body came with the swimsuits!! :D

I found a bikini when I was going through some of my old summer stuff...bright yellow!! It has the inserts which I saved for the bust area, not that I need it. My BF says that he loves my "Tig ol' Bitties" so for now there isn't much need for inserts...when I'm down to goal might be a different story!! It has the "shorts" type bottoms though, so I have some work left on my buns and thighs before I will be sporting that...I don't want any little "half moons" peeking out the bottom. :p I bought a black tankini a couple of years ago and that will have to do for a two piece in the interim. A nice sheer sarong with bright colors would make a nice touch for early summer...and I will have to invest in a nice pair of beach sandals and a great brimmed hat.

Can you tell it's a sunny day?? I'm dreaming of the beach already...and we just got rid of our snow!

Now...on to more pressing matters...

About that jello cake....this is almost a case of "I know something you don't know...na,na,na,na,na..." It's a good thing that most of us are beyond the first week or so of really bad sweet cravings or there would would be total chaos!! :p You know that without actually learning a recipe from the "master chef" that there is little way of perfecting it...but I'm sure we would all settle for second best! So, in a way, your cake would still reign as the jello cake of all jello cakes. ;) We can keep a secret....

All the best babes!!

KC :roll:

[rhubarb]

Why? Why, oh why did I step on that scale this morning? It seems that what the whoosh fairy taketh, the whoosh fairy giveth back!

I am so dejected. The scale will just not budge. Yes, yes … I am the one who used to tell everyone else “it doesn’t matter what the scale says; how you feel is a better gauge.” And I do feel pretty good with the BFL and all (which, as I keep hearing, might be the cause of this number fluctuation anyway.) But would some results on the scale be too much to ask after 3 weeks? Yeesh!

So, what do you all you fabuous babes do to keep your chin up when the scale numbers have you down? I really need to stop pouting!

Rhu

[slimchance]

Rhu....

One word...MEASURE, MEASURE, MEASURE....

Get out that measuring tape...I haven't lost weight in a couple of weeks (almost) but in the last 2 weeks alone I lost:

waist: 1/2"+ (give or take due to TOM)
bust: 1"
hips: 1/2"
thighs: 1" (each)
arms: 1/2" (each)

All the best!!

KC :wave:

[Jkrohn]

I 2nd the measuring! I hadn't lost in 2 weeks either so this am I got out the tape and OMG down an inch in my waist, an inch of the thighs, and an inch and a half off each arm. So no more blahs for me! Whatever it is it's working!!

Keep up the hard work it will come. Your body is just rearanging the mucles.

Stay strong!

Messy

[KarenB]

Turn the scale into a plant stand.

Find the measuring tape.

Use the measuring tape.

Rejoice at seeing changes where the scale would show nothing.

Water the plant on your new plant stand. (Unless of course it's either silk or a cactus.)

As for the bikini issue:
I revisited ujena.com (first time since I posted that link a couple of months back) and still don't see anything I'd be comfortable in. Not even at goal, I don't think. I'm really very pleased with the suits I bought from Victoria's Secret: the blue floral on white background two-piece (support top and full-coverage, high-leg-opening bottom) and the bright pink/orange floral on black maillot with the low back and the triple spaghetti straps.

But hey, who knows... after BFL I might *have* to get a bikini! :lol:

I rechecked my "before" measurements and was very surprised. I've lost *two* inches from my underbust measurement, not one. (Makes up for adding one to my bust, like I need that... ) There's a half-inch gone from my waist, a half-inch from my right thigh, a quarter-inch from my right bicep, and an eighth from my right calf. (My lower legs have always been muscular--I'm not expecting to lose much at all there.)

And that's after only two weeks. Can you say PSYCHED???

So when are we meeting in Vegas, babes????

[Tama]

Shaaaaaanon.........................Jello cake....................................

[KarenB]

As in "A picture is worth...."

For those with morbid curiosity, my "before" BFL pic is in the BFL exercise forum, under my thread ("It's All Nat's Fault"). At least I have a great tan. :rolleyes:

For those with even greater morbid curiosity, there is a pic of me and my daughter in our Easter finery in my journal, "The Answer is 42."

(This is assuming that seeing my smiling face just isn't enough for all of you, of course. :D )

[Libbyfcr]

I am having a fantastic morning. (yes... here in VEGAS where it was 93 degrees yesterday)....... I was up extra early and worked in my garden for an hour and a half. My lettuce is beginning to reach the end of its wonderful little life.....sigh...... too hot for it. My Toms are lovely and I have green bell peppers and squash. I won't be growing anything else this summer.... just keeping it simple. Flowers fill in the rest.

AND THEN....... I got on the scales!! Woooo Wooo... I was so excited that I about wet my pants!! LOL. You talk about getting past a stall.. whewie!... I thought I would never make it. But I did, and today I am down a whole pound. Thats two for two days.

So, to get past a stall. Stick to your program. Know you are doing the right things. Be patient. It will come.

Later babes,
Libby :wave:

[slimchance]

Yay Libby!!!

That is wonderful news! :Party: Keep it up! (as if you wouldn't :rolleyes: )

I'm so jealous of your hot weather because it's only in the 60's here (I hope my F-Celcius conversion is right), but I guess I still need the extra couple of months to work on my bikini bod!! :p

Cheers!

KC :wave:

[rhubarb]

Ha! Libby – you make me laugh! Way to go! And thanks for the encouragement.

Personally, I’m trying to keep my chin up, but it’s hard when I’m on week four, and haven’t lost since week one. But … I’m going to just become more diligent about getting all my H20 in, and eliminate nuts altogether and see what that does.

Congrats, and keep up the good work!

Rhu

[oceangirl]

....well, only to dip my toes in.

:wave: Hello to all!

This is my first time to this 'area' of the forums-but someone very special invited me over :p .

Bikini girl I'm not- I don't think I've ever owned one- but if all goes well I just might be doin' the bikini thang summer of 2003! WOW- now there is one LTG I can deal with.

Did anyone bring the suntan lotion?

More to follow.... :cool:

OG/Chris

[goingfor60]

Alright dont ever say that I'm a spoil sport... Here goes

1 bag mini marshmellows
2- 3oz boxes of your favorite flavor of jello
1 pint whipping cream
1 whole cooked angel food cake
2 cups hot water
2 cups ice cold water
1 cup fruit juice of your choice

In a large bowl pour all of the marshmellows and jello powder together. Pour in the hot water and stir slowly until all or most of the marshmellows are melted. Add the cold water and the fruit juice mix and then place the bowl in the freezer for approx 1.5 to 2 hours stirring once to loosen. The mixture should be thick but not jelled completely .
When mixture is jelled whip all of the cream and fold it into the jello mixture. Take the angel food cake and tear it into large bite size chunks and incorporate into jello cream mixture and mix very well. Prepare a bundt pan or any large cake pan, spray lightly with some sort of nonstick spray like Pam. Pour jello cake mixture into the pan, smooth the top and tap it on the counter lightly to ensure there are no large air pockets. Refrigerate for atleast 4 hours, preferrably overnight.

To unmold - slide the dull side of a knife around the edges of the pan invert and viola.

There it is - the family recipe now shhhh dont tell everyone - all babes are sworn to silence. I hope it works out for you guys.

Shannon :wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Come into the water girl.:wiggle: :wiggle: :clap: :wiggle: :wiggle:
So glad you posted, so girls, it's official oceangirl is a Bikini Babe. First order of business, you will have to swear not to repeat the now famous Jello Cake Recipe that Shannon so nicely relenquished, then what are you going to hang on the wall to motivate you towards the bathing suit of your dreams? For some it's a dress for others it's actually a bathing suit. By the way, the girls will want to know about your inches you've lost, tell us, tell us, all please.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:
Now Bikini Babes, lets tell each other our best get into that bathing suit idea. Mine is having atleast two things that you can grab out of the fridge that you like. Mine are celery and flavoured cream cheese, or prepackage frozen salmon in garlic butter sauce. If it's not right there, I know that I'll find something less appropriate. :eek:

[sunshine2]

Shannon - mum is the word, your secret is safe with me!

Welcome Chris to the bikini babes forum!

Well, thought I would check in with everyone, I am leaving for Vegas on the 11th for a family reunion, I'm getting excited.

Keep up the great work everyone, by the way, I'm still doing the BFL thing! Getting ready for that bikini, my goal is Aug. 1.

[rhubarb]

Thanks for the suggestions for staying off the scale, everyone. Of course you’re all right about the tape measure being a more accurate gauge of success, and I have seen those numbers drop a bit. I know I should be pleased with this, but it’s still hard. Son’s Bar Mitzvah (my "size 14 goal") is in 10 weeks, and I’m STILL wearing the same size 18’s I was a month ago.

Well, I keep telling myself that I’m eating all this really tasty food, and I still feel great, and at least I am not gaining. And as anyone who has ever really deprived herself of food knows: that’s nothing to sneeze at.

Slim, Messy, and Karen – those are some great results you’ve gotten on BFL. I have to recheck my staring ones and get back to you. I’m coming to the end of week four, so this weekend, I’ll probably snap a “progress” shot and compare to the "before" one.

By the way, Karen, thanks for posting those pictures of yourself and your little one. You both looked smashing on Easter! You’ve really figured out what colors look good on you – great dress.

Welcome, Ocean Girl. Don’t worry about your bikini-aversion -- I’m with you. I’m working my way up to tankini, or swim shorts and halter combo. Hey .. it’s important to have goals!

Jo-ann – I’d love to know who makes that pre-packaged frozen salmon in garlic butter sauce. Think it’d be available in the US?

My best get-into-that-bathing-suit idea: (well, my newest, anyway) To get better about drinking water, I slug down between 8 and 16 oz every time I visit the bathroom. No, not WHILE I visit – I just keep the sports bottle handy and before I get back to whatever I was doing, I drink, drink, drink. And, since the more you drink, the more you go … well, you do the math.

Best to everyone,
Rhu

[Jo-Ann 2]

It's by Highliner, I'm not sure if you can get it in the States though. Classico makes a Alfredo sauce that's very good on stuff too. The Plain Alfredo is 3grams per 1/2 cup and the Alfredo with Sun Dried Tomato is 4 grams, these are both really good on anything from fish, to chicken, to beef to make a stroganoff. I'm almost sure the same product is made in the US, although sometimes the ingredients are different for different countries.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Tama]

Thank-you, Shannon!! You are so sweet to share your secret with us!! I swear, it is safe with me. And it sounds YUM!! I think I'll tuck that one away for a special occasion!! Definitely not to be wasted on the everyday.

Jo-ann, thanks for mentioning the Classico sauce! I have been trying to think of new dishes to make and that really gave me quite a few yummy meal ideas.

My can't-do-without food? Pepperoni. Zapped in the microwave to make chips. It's my "desperately need to nibble on something" lifesaver!!

Hugs all, Tama

[Libbyfcr]

I have a tendency to pick out the things about my body that I don't like. This morning I was thinking about how I am starting to feel good about who I am again. It has been a long time.

I asked myself what are three things that I like about my body. This was what I came up with.

I like my skin. It feels good. (I also recently bought some Skin So Soft....love that stuff.)

I like my collarbones. Yeah.... I found them recently and they are neat.

I like my waist. Once upon a time it was little. I had almost forgotten it......but it came back to live with me again

So Bikini Babes....Ask Yourself This.....
What do you like about yourself?

Libby :wave:

[KarenB]

Great thought-provoker, Libby!!

1) My skin. It's been the envy of many for years. I've never gone through the agony of acne. While it's pretty much combination skin (oily t-zone, normal/dry elsewhere), it's also pretty much flawless--well, save for that scar on my forehead where I was struck by a swingset at the age of 6. (Two-inch cast iron pipe crossbar meets 6-yr-old's forehead in midair--film at eleven.)

(That explains a *lot* about me if you think on it for a moment. :lol: )

2) My eyes. They're not a remarkable shape or color, but they also have been commented on throughout my life. They're gray-blue, and what I wear can cause them to look markedly one or the other. I've had art students ask to draw them for class assignments, something about their appearance being "Classic," whatever that means. (Considering they're hidden behind super-powered lenses because my vision is 20/1100 in one eye and 20-900 in the other.... yes, I used to wear contacts, but not at the moment. And for those who don't know what the numbers mean, in a nutshell I'm legally blind--cannot hold a job without wearing corrective lenses--in all 50 states.)

3) My legs. I've always liked my legs. I never had those "sausages" some heavy women suffer with, not even when I was pregnant. Yes, they swelled some, but I've never had the troubles with taut tearing skin that some of my very heavy friends have. My ankles have always been quite trim, and my calves rather shapely. I've gotten compliments on them for a very long time--and the frequency's increasing, now that I'm comfortable wearing minis. :devil:

(And the 4" heels never hurt either. Figuratively speaking.)

And to Shannon, our "Den Mama"--Thank you SO much for the recipe! That one's going in the "Special" file and won't be hauled out until there's a time I need to make a grand impression on someone. :D

[KarenB]

I would love to share a family recipe with all of you. My grandmother (I only ever knew my maternal grandma; my father's mother passed away when he was 12, and her husband died just after I turned 1, so I didn't know him either--I've got one snapshot of him holding me as a baby that I treasure more than gold) made a pie that I used to *beg* for. She never wrote the recipe down, and after she died, my mother spent *years* (literally) trying to duplicate it. (It's really so simple--that's probably why it was so difficult to copy. She was thinking there should be more to it than there really is.) When she finally succeeded, she gave me a copy so I could have it whenever I liked. I would be proud to share it with my friends here--Grandma would've taught any of you how to make it, if you'd been able to ask her.

Mabel's Apple Cream Pie

Crust for a 9- or 10-inch pie (use your favorite recipe, or if you're a pastry dunce like me, pre-made crust or unbaked shells work just fine), one crust only

Granny Smith apples (or your favorite baking apple), enough to fill the shell *heaping* full
Peel and core them, then slice them fairly thinly. Mound into the unbaked crust.

Mix:
About 3/4 cup sugar (use more or less depending on how tart your apples are, and how sweet you like your pies)
1 cup evaporated milk (not sweetened condensed)
1Tbsp flour or cornstarch
pinch of salt

This should be a fairly viscous liquid when you're done. Pour it over the entire pie; try to coat every slice of apple with it. It'll settle in the bottom of the crust--that's fine. Trust me.

Dot the top with about 1Tbsp butter, and sprinkle it with cinnamon (or a blend of cinnamon and nutmeg).

BAKE: for about 35 minutes at 350 degrees Fahrenheit, or until the crust is nicely browned around the edges and the filling's good and bubbly. The apples of course will exude juice and bake down; ideally they'll still fill the crust almost to the top when they're finished baking.

Let it cool completely before cutting and serving. This is *fabulous* when it's been chilled overnight.

I baked this pie for a family reunion that Kelley's father took me to back in '96. All of his older female relatives (aunts and cousins, as well as his mother) raved about it, saying either a) they'd never tasted anything like it before, or b) they hadn't had a pie like it since they were children.

I hope you all enjoy it as much as I have for 40-some years.

[_wilow]

Hi everyone,
Sorry it's been a while. I have been flat on my back with this stupid herniated disc for 5 days. I went back to work yesterday for half a day and will go today so it's getting better a little at the time.. thank God. I'm really wanting to do the BFL but looks like that's going to have to wait a while
Anyway, boy did I blow it. I ate everything over Easter, candy, pizza, cereal. Tried making thatGREAT seafood bisque recipe I got from you all and boy that was good but I still relapsed and ate some raisinets... So today is a new day. I think I'll go on the Induction for a few days and try to get myself back in Ketosis. I've gained 5 pounds.
So sorry to whine but :mad: :mad: :mad:
Sounds like everyone has been having a good time in here.
To answer the question about what I like about myself... hm... I like my waist (glad to have it back too), my breasts (although I could use an uplifting experience ;) , and my face/mouth/complexion.
What I hate is my recently developed "turkey waddle chin" that used to be my double chin. Anyone have any ideas on what helps that? :daze:
Well I've rambled enough. Have a great day. I't pretty here in NC today. Lisa

[_wilow]

Oh, thanks Karen B for that recipe. I'll be trying that at our next family get together!. I have one for real cheese cake that is good if anyone is interested. Lisa

[Libbyfcr]

That is EXACTLY how my Grandmother made her apple pies! I kid you not.

boy.......sure brings back wonderful memories........ I can see her kitchen and smell her bread too.........

sigh............
Libby

[liddle]

Three things I like about myself......

1) I have only 1 chin now and I love it!!!

2) My blue eyes

3) I'm torn between my long chestnut brown hair w/ red and gold highlights ( I really love my hair) and my arms. I always loved my arms when I was thin, didn't notice how huge they got until I saw a picture of myself wearing a sleevless dress. Now they are starting to look more like the arms I once loved so much.

Later,
Heather

[goingfor60]

I like..

1. my eyes although they are brown they are very almond or cat eye shaped whichever you prefer.
2. my smile - I have been told I have a smile that lights up a room(whatever)
3. my legs - they are long,lean, naturally sculpted and require no attention from me to maintain them except for shaving.

Snacks I cant live without would be the same as Tama pepperoni chips, I love them. Cheese chips are also a must have and the mock danish. I would be lost without these snacky things.

Thanks for the pie recipe Karen I will try this on the fam.

I checked on Vegas and I have good and bad news. The good news is that we can stay in many of the new casino hotels for approx $140-$200 per night. The bad news is that for prices like that we need a minimum of 20 people to go for group pricing. I got these prices from AAA on saturday. So babes I need to know your interest because vegas is on the horizon. The plan is Las Vegas Nevada in August the weekend of 8/16 which is Fri, Sat and Sun. Just think you in the desert sun sporting that well deserved bikini, tankini or one piece. Hmmm you know you want to go... Think about it!

See ya
Shannon

[KarenB]

I take it that the $140-$200/night is per ROOM, not per PERSON? I sure hope so.... If there were 2 or 4 women per room, that'd be only $50 or $100/night, which is doable. Twice that isn't so doable.

Count me in.... I AM DOING THIS!!!!

[liddle]

OH Shannon,
How I wish I could go to Vegas. Yeah, like hubby would stay home with the kids so I could go and have fun in Las Vegas. That would happen right after he learned to fly using his you know what as a propeller! NEVER EVER GONNA HAPPEN!!!
You will just have to post a ton of pictures and place a bet for me!

Later,
Heather

[Jo-Ann 2]

It's saturday evening the sun is setting and I find myself once again down at mom's. I've eaten alot of eggs and ham once with a salad and then once just right out of the fridge. I have dishes to do at home and the hubbies still away.
Went over to Slims journal the girl is running, and she is planning on doing it again. Wow.
Infact I've been cruising around looking at some other journals, Karen B you've come a long way girl.
Shannon, what can I say, you seem to roll with the punches like the best of them, sorry I can't make the trip, but I'll probably be out racing. Yes I'll be wearing a Bikini top (I hope), one never knows what the weather will be doing up here.
Heather you sound like you need a break away girl. It's only three days.
Lisa hope your feeling better.
Oceangirl are you still wondering around here, put the other foot in girl.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[_wilow]

Thanks JoAnn,
I am feeling a little better each day. See a neurosurgeon next week... I'm back on the wagon with the LC diet though. I'm not exercising though because of my back. It's a little aggravating because I was doing so good before. How many carbs are you all eating?
Well hope you had a great sail and enjoyed being in you bikini top... congrats! Lisa

[KarenB]

My last post (response to _wilow) got lost in the ether somewhere, so I'll answer again. (Watch, now the first one will appear somehow and it'll be here twice...)

I'm eating about 50-60g of carbs a day, minus fiber, which brings it to around 30-40g ECC. I've upped it due to working out six days a week doing the BFL program and it certainly seems to be working....

[Libbyfcr]

Here are some helpful sites for you while searching for a room in Las Vegas.

My favorite is: www.vegasvalley.com
Over to the left of the opening page is a "CASINO GUIDE"... click this to find a WHOLE bunch of hotel links listed. VegasValley is also a great place to search out anything else that interests you about Las Vegas.

Now, if you want to stay at the Venetian, MGM Grand or the Bellagio then expect to pay anywhere from $215(Bellagio, 2 ppl, on your dates) to $700 hack, cough, (at the MGM, fancy rooms).

The New York, New York (nynyhotelcasino.com) is $150 for the standard skyling room.

Mandalay Bay's prices for your weekend jump around. On the 16th it is $209..... the 18th it is $109. I have never even been in the Mandalay Bay.

Treasure Island is more reasonable, it is $105.

I had family come and stay at the Luxor. It is a fabulous place to swim. I have done that one and enjoyed it. www.luxor.com You can take a virtual tour on their web site. (The Luxor is the giant pyramid with the light beaming out the top).

The Imperial Palace is $75.00 (ah hem... I don't know about you all.... but I like that price range). They say that in the summer the Imperial palace does a pool side Luau each day.

Okay..... this is my old favorite.... The Flamingo. The Flamingo has changed some since I have been there last (about a year and a half ago) I loved swimming there. (We use to sneak in there all the time before they got wise.) Now they say that they have 15 ACRES...... yes 15 acres, that was not a typo......of a "Caribbean style water playground". Your August dates put your room rate at $90.00..... go check it out....
www.flamingo-lv.com

There are 9,000,000 touristy things to do in Las Vegas. I live here, therefore I am not a tourist and do not do most of them unless company comes to town. I find the strip to be a madhouse. Pack your good walking shoes. Watch out for cars while walking the strip. Our drivers are idiots and tend to run over tourists. Try to take in a show.. they are fabulous!!

There are many outdoorsy things to do here........ but not in August. August will bake your brains and the bottom of your feet right through your shoes.... I kid you not.

Pack some SERIOUS sunscreen...........

Libby :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

http://www.flamingo-lv.com/spages/poolipix.htm

Check out this link to the Flamingo Pools. he he he.


On a different note, I just bought a Glamour magazine. Not my normal reading material.....but when I saw the article titled "We tried on 904 Swimsuits....and found the 47 sexy winners your body has been waiting for"...... it was sold.

Later taters.....
Libby

[Tama]

Good morning, ladies, I have missed you all! I have enjoyed catching up, though.

Karen! thank-you for that recipe! I collect good pie recipes and that one is definitely going in my book. Don't worry, I'll save it for a special day, a pie like that has sabotage written all over it!

Three things I like about myself - hmmmm........

1. my waist - always had a small one - genetics, not discipline

2. my skin - body, not face. Very elastic. I have had three children and I don't have a single stretch mark. Weird, but good.

3. my eyes - they are green. Most people go for the blue eyes, but I really like having green, maybe it's because they are my hubby's fave.

About Vegas, I just don't think I can do it. I want to, don't get me wrong. But my son's 5th birthday is that weekend and I wouldn't be much fun with the "mother guilt" I would pack to bring along with me! My parents went to Mexico every year on my birthday since I was nine and I still am dumbfounded by it. I feel bad, but I can't wait to see some pix!!

Hugs, Tama

[liddle]

My parents went to Mexico every year on my birthday since I was nine and I still am dumbfounded by it.

That's horrible Tama. What would ever possess them to do that? And every year??? Gosh, that must have been hard growing up.

Later,
Heather

[slimchance]

Hi babes! :wave:

On the topic of parents missing birthdays I have a cute one...

On my 19th birthday my parents went on vacation...and I should note here that the legal drinking age here is 19...note to self...when I have children, stay home for their 19th b'days!! :p

I came home to find a cake on the counter that said Happy Birthday, BUT I couldn't assume that it was mine because there was no note and no name on the cake and a neighbor on one side of us had the same birthday as me and on the other side of us a neighbor had a birthday the day after mine. I didn't want to give away a surprise party, so I waited until the day after my birthday to call and ask if the cake was mine!! :D My parents got a good laugh over that when they got back!

On the topic of 3 things I like about my body...this is a tough one at this point :) ...but here it goes:

1. My eyes. I always get lots of compliments on them. They are green and were big (until my face got rounder and they started to seem smaller :p ).

2. My waist. Well...that was until I started gaining weight around my belly, which never happened to me before. I usually would gain weight on my hips and buns, but I guess when you gain enough weight it eventually has to find new places to call home. :( I'm working on sending all that fat on a permanent vacation!!

3. My skin. This is a new one. I never had really bad skin, but since eating this way and drinking all the water, my complexion has improved 10-fold...more smooth, better color, more glow!

4. Since #2 really doesn't apply at this point (gimme another month or two) I'm going to add another one. My fingernails...this is another one that is off and on. I can grow beautiful long nails, and they are nicely shaped as well (thank you genetics). Unfortunately I also have the habit of biting them, but I do this sporatically throughout the year. My nails are always really good for special events (I must be making more of a conscious effort), but then once one breaks I file them all off with my teeth. :(

Take care everyone!!

KC

[Tama]

Yeah, I know it's crappy that they missed my b-day like that. It must sound pretty horrible, but I am so used to it that I just mention it without thinking anymore. My parents had one week a year that would be their "big" vacation and they always went to Mexico. And they (and the other couple they would go with) always rationalized that the first week of December was the absolute best time to go because the weather was perfect down there, it wasn't too close to Christmas and Thanksgiving was just finished. The only hiccup in the deal was that I just happened to be born on Dec. 7. What was I thinking? :rolleyes: Anyway, it was hard to deal growing up, but I get a whole lot of mileage out of it now, believe me :D .

later, Tama

[rhubarb]

End of week four, and still no loss since week one. [pout, pout.] Yes, I know … measure, measure, measure. I have been, and I may be down a few inches. But a woman who wears a size 18 at 198 lbs, does not wear a 16 at 198, or a 14 at 198. And I’m still in that ~#&% size 18!!

OK, let me compose myself now. Chin up! I’ll focus on Libby’s question, the three things I like about me: (Great idea, by the way, Libby.)

Everything I liked about me used to be concentrated above the waist, but as time goes on, that line of demarcation goes up and up until I now see most of my assets as above the neck! Hopefully that will change soon ( I used to like my waist and arms, and I look forward to them coming back) but I have to say I do like my back and shoulders. They’re always strong and supple no matter what the rest of me looks like. Mom always made us stand up straight, and it shows. I also like my skin, my lips and smile, and believe it or not, my nose! It’s just the right proportion, and has a very subtle little cleft in the end that, if you know how to read it, acts as a barometer for how much sleep, exercise and sodium I’ve gotten. (The more pronounced the cleft, the healthier I am.) Even the boyfriend is fond of my nose – a little nuzzle goes a long way!

I’ve always envied you girls with the low-maintenance legs – I hope you know how lucky you are! (Sausage legs Karen? I resemble that remark! Sadly, it’s genetic. I've always had ‘em even in the more slender days - complete with the circulation problems - so I probably always will.) Anyone want to trade their great gams for my perfect eyebrows? No? Really? C’mon – I’ve never had to tweeze a day in my life!

I feel a spin-off topic coming: What do we agonize over that others compliment us on – for me, it’s my hair. I think I have way too much of it. It’s thick and straight and takes forever to dry. I keep growing it and cutting it short over and over again, because I don’t have an hour a day to deal with it. If I had a dime for every time someone said “I wish I had hair like yours ... " Hey, wish I could give you some – I’ve got enough for about six of us!

Lisa, hope you’re feeling better. It seems to me I’ve heard of toning exercises for the face. And considering you’re not ready for anything more physical, it might be just the thing for your former double chin. It seems worth a look on amazon.com

Heather, I can identify with your surprise over the one-time size of your arms – it was seeing a picture of myself sleeveless that got me started here.

Don’t worry, Tama. This year all the babes will remember your birthday. Mine is at the end of the summer (a transition time) and was forgotten a lot, too, so I can relate. My sister’s is the day before mine, and there are plenty of family members who have never bothered to learn whose is which! Funny how loaded birthdays are!

Hello Shannon, and Jo-ann, and slim, and anyone I missed. Oh, and I can’t consider Vegas (or anywhere else) this year. Paying for my son’s Bar Mitzvah expenses on my shoestring budget is going to keep me at home for a while.

Best –
Rhu

[sunshine2]

hello bikini babes, thought I would pop in, I don't know if I will get a chance the rest of the week, I'm leaving for Vegas Thursday. Thought I would share a few photos, this is from Acapulco, if you look to the top left you can see the ocean, this was outside my room on the balcony. Oh, I miss the sunshine.

[sunshine2]

Here is another one, this one was taken after about 5 drinks, but hope you can tell how much fun I was having (a bit too much)

[Tama]

Wow, Sunshine!! You are looking good! I am impressed and jealous all at once! :D

Keep smilin', Tama

[Jo-Ann 2]

You are definitly photogenic (spelling?) I'm jealous too. It looks warm in those pictures.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[liddle]

WOW! You really do take a great picture! I can't believe that one was after 5 drinks! You look GREAT! After 5 drinks my eyes are blood shot, make-up is smeared, and I think I look ALOT better than I do. I'm very impressed, both with the pictures and your drinking abilities. :D

I would give anything to go to Vegas. I have a slight gambling problem when I gamble though. I really don't know when to stop. I always win, then I always loose what I have won. :rolleyes: Oh well, it's still a blast! Have FUN!!!

Heather

[_wilow]

Hi everyone.
Ru thanks, I'm doing better but not up to par yet. I'm doing much better lc'ing though. I'm determined to see that bikini :).
I am impressed you are 4 weeks into bfl. From what i've read it won't be long and you ll see results. I can't wait to start it but it sounds like a big commitment. I would be proud of myself! Well, I gotta go do some work. Hope everyone else is doing ok.

[Libbyfcr]

<<But a woman who wears a size 18 at 198 lbs, does not wear a 16 at 198, or a 14 at 198. And I’m still in that ~#&% size 18!! >>


I have to argue with you Ru ;) ....... and I am doing it to keep your outlook positive about the numbers on the scale thing, and to keep you positive about measuring.

At my heaviest, non-pregnancy weight, I was 192 pounds. That was on January 1st of this year. I am only an inch taller than you. I was wearing a size 14. Granted, I was starting to grow out of them, but I was in a 14.

I am now, today, 159 pounds. I am comfortably wearing a size 10. In the past I had to be at 150 pounds for my size 10s to fit well.

I don't know why this is so. I have always been able to carry more weight than anyone would ever guess, however, living a Low Carb life has made loosing weight different for me than ever before in my past. I think I am loosing more fat and keeping more muscle.

Anyway Ru........ its food for thought.

Hugs......
Libby

[rhubarb]

Thanks, Libby. I appreciate your comments and your encouragement. However, I think in my exasperation, I may have not have expressed myself very well.

I realize that different women can wear different sizes and be the same weight, or be different weights and wear the same size. My discouragement is over the fact that I can’t see myself reducing to a lower dress size if I’m stuck at this particular weight. I know I’m losing inches, but I’d be happier if I could fit into some smaller clothing.

(I just explained to my BF in an e-mail how many mothers, myself included, classify clothing as "pre-pregnancy" but I now have two new classifications based on what I went through this past winter, and how I gained weight when I was already trying to lose: "pre-pneumonia” and “pre-steroid.”)

I’m trying to focus on the positive aspects of this WOE like the great food (some of which I haven’t permitted myself to eat in years) how easy it is to stick to, the increased energy and mental clarity, etc. I know I’ve lost inches, and if I have time tonight, I’ll sit down and figure out exactly how many. I just want to wear my smaller clothes! After years of not even owning a scale, I’ve been weighing myself too much just to see if any of the recent adjustments I’ve made are doing anything. (Less cheese, no nuts, more water, etc.)

The truth is, I’m very stressed out over my son’s Bar Mitzvah – I have a shoestring budget, and no help from the ex-husband. (He is not Jewish, and threatening to not even show up.) My friends and BF have been great, but I’m stressed out over pleasing my visiting family, and frankly, afraid I’ll look awful after a winter of illness, overmedication and lack of exercise. I feel selfish focusing on myself this way – my son is the center of the day, after all – but I have always had a problem with my weight, and my family has always scrutinized me over it. (Actually, some of ‘em are pretty critical about other stuff, too! And of course, this adds to my stress.)

Well, I’m officially rambling now, but this is where the obsession over weighing and clothing size is coming from. I’m really going to try to post on my inches lost next, so you all can hear something positive from me!

Thanks again …
Rhu

[Libbyfcr]

I never classified clothing like that..... but I sure classified my body.

Yup. There are two time periods. BC and AD.......



Before Children.......

and After Delivery.



LOL,
Libby

[goingfor60]

So I had some real drama going on in my life that kinda made me feel like not hangin out or being social at all. I will sum it up quickly a death in the family and reassurance that my mother is really a spawn of the devil. I have cried,eaten and vented my anger and I am now back on track.

I have been reading your posts and you guys are all doing so great. Sunshine you are just a babe - you look sooo great in your photo's.

Rhubarb family and friends can make you crazy but you have something going for you that most people wish they could have. You have ambition... and with that ambition you can conquer all the petty things that people may have to say because you are setting goals and doing something about accomplishing them.

Libby I'm with you on the clothes thing - I can wear a size 8 bottom and I am yet to break into the 150's but then again I am pre-baby so I suppose that makes a difference.

Willow I am glad you are back on track and with us once again.

And here's a hey to all the other babes out there is it going to be just karen, libby and I in vegas... is that what I am hearing. You guys gotta be kidding. This is a trip for the wild at heart, a babe with a mission kinda thing working the bod from every angle and making the men beg for a minute of your time. Now doesnt that sound like something you would do?

If you really cant go *fine* so be it, Ill get over it and I'll post the pictures of me in my bikini IF they ever get here!!! Libby thanks for the links to the hotels I gotta search those sites.

Lately I have been working on my obliques and I can finally start to see a little curve in my waist. I am noting but a wide pole with boobs hanging from it. So for me to see a curve is a really big thing. I always wanted curves and what did I get not a single one.

So now that I am feeling better and drama free what's going on with you guys. Since we have sprung into spring I am wearing less clothing and showing some skin and to my surprise I am getting looks by many men. And hmm thin does taste better than comfortably chunky.

Oh one last thing - I started attending cake decorating classes and I thought I wasnt going to be ok with it. But now that I know what goes into frosting - let me tell ya - just say no! I'll be having my cake without frosting for now on.

Ok tootles...
shannon :wave:

[KarenB]

:bhug: Wow... I can relate to what's happened to you. It's good to see you're back with us now.

Hey--if it does turn out to be only you and me and Libby--let's just crash at her house!!! :devil: There ya go, Libby--instant houseguests!! :lol:

Sunshine, you're a hottie, babe! What great pics!! :thup:

I mentioned the possibility of the Vegas trip to Mom and Dad, because Kelley's been *begging* to go stay with them.... and y'know, I don't think they believed me! Come on, ladies--don't make a liar outta me! I said "a bunch of friends from the LC board and I are talking about a weekend in Vegas, to hang out at the hotel pool and have a great time with one another." Don't let me down!!!

Please? :rolleyes:

[lastchance]

I sympathise, Shannon. Perhaps our mothers are related. When I broke the news to mine that I was unexpectedly pregnant by someone I met on holiday, her reaction was

a) To throw up
b) To say ' tell me you've been raped, please tell me you've been raped'.

Is she a religious fanatic? No, she just didn't want me to get pregnant out of wedlock and she would rather I had been raped than voluntarily had sex. I was 38.

And then they expect you to trust them afterwards .... I don't think so.

Hope mine is worse than yours

Sara

[_wilow]

Hi everyone,
Welcome back Shannon. I have to say that sometimes I think we have to look at picking our own" family" from the family that is good to us and a groupof friends that is more like family. THats what I've done and the other's I just don't have much to do with. This of course came after years of beating m y head against the wall trying to make those other family member's (FATHER) into what he was not capable of being. It's much easiter just to get those needs met with people that actually give back. That's my 2 cents on that.
As far as the trip.. no way cuz of finances and possible surgery, but I'll be jealous!!!
Have a great day. Lisa

[Libbyfcr]

I like my mother. Good thing too, because we have a three generation family living in our house. Besides, we are all too busy to get into each others way! LOL

My doors are always open and we often have someone drop into town and sleep on our couch. I have to warn you though, our house is crowded and we have no guest bedroom ...AND NO POOL. You are welcome to stay.

....... do you like dogs?

Libby :wave:

[goingfor60]

At 5:50am I was at the gym and I worked out like a savage. I was feeling good and even though my body was still sore from Monday's workout I perservered. I stretched,stepped, spun and did my full set of abs.

When I got home I looked like a train wreck but 30 min later when I was off to work I was feeling like a supermodel. Its weird that being LC and changing my body has given me a new outlook on everything I do. Effort in my appearance has always been something I kinda did and kinda didnt do. When slimmer I put more effort into myself and heavier, well whats the point.

So anyway I go to work and this guy that I am harmlessly flirty *friends* with said "wow - you are absolutely gorgeous" I was so taken aback by what he said that I couldnt even come back with an aw shucks or anything to lighten the moment. It was one of those genuine moments and I was left speechless. It was also very weird because my speechlessness made him nervous and then he shyed away and we kinda just let it go. Not that I am attracted to this guy, because I'm not but it was a moment I dont think I will forget.

Thanks you guys for the kind words - but I am sure I have the worst mother by far. Sara your mom and my mom must be friends but I think I can top your mom. who can top this insanity...

1) Literally on my 21st birthday my mother asked me to give her my breast tissue since in her opinion I have too much and she feels she doesnt have enough. Because as you all know I was put on this earth to ensure my ma has an ample busom.

Um hello - when I grow up I want to be a breast tissue donor so my mom can pick up more guys. Yeah right - Seek HELP psycho!

And you guys wondered why I am slightly off kilter - Lisa you are right to me family is like a hand of poker I trade the few poor cards in for some new ones and hope for a royal flush and look at this an easy transition into Viva las vegas. Libby I'll see ya in Vegas I'm not letting go of my hopes for this trip. I'll be by the pool graciously accepting the cool fruity drinks being sent to me by the many steamy men hangin out by the pool.

Anyway babes - I can babble on for hours but I wont.

See ya
Shannon

[Libbyfcr]

I'll be by the pool graciously accepting the cool fruity drinks being sent to me by the many steamy men hangin out by the pool.

Um.... can I sit by you? Can I bring my Mother?

Libby

[rhubarb]

First off, Shannon – so sorry about the loss in your family. I hope you are moving through it alright, and that you’re getting and giving what’s needed from other family members, if not your Mom. Yes, she does sound like a piece of work. (Is breast tissue donation even possible ?) Thanks, also for your words of encouragement. Of course you are right about goals, and not just where LC is concerned; I put “make good choices” on the top of my list after my divorce several years ago. I don’t always, but it’s good to be able to identify when I don’t, take responsibility and move on.

Well, as promised here are my four week BFL numbers:

Left Thigh -1.5
Right Thigh -1
Hips -2
Waist -1
Left Arm -.25
Right Arm -.5
Bust 0
Underbust 0
Wrist -.25

I have to say, I’m very surprised by these numbers, considering I’ve only lost four pounds, and that was during week one. Also because my clothes still aren’t fitting very differently.

No, no – don’t get me wrong. I’m not complaining. I just don’t see the difference. Well, you can judge for yourself: Here are some progress shots, before and during (http://photos.yahoo.com/bc/mypix101/vwp?.dir=/BFL+Week+Four&.src=ph&.dnm=BFL+Week+Four.jpg&.view=t&.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/bc/mypix101/lst%3f%26.dir=/BFL%2bWeek%2bFour%26.src=ph%26.view=t) . Warning: These pictures are of a sleepy, large woman in work-out gear, taken in the early a.m. Not for the faint of heart. I warned you!

Rhu

[slimchance]

Wow rhu!! I can see a big difference in only a month!! :D

Way to go!!! :thup:

Keep up the great work!

KC :wave:

[goingfor60]

How can you not see the difference from one photo to the other? Its like your losing all over not just in spots, I think your being way hard on yourself and that you really are doing great.

Your own self image is always the worst - Unfortunately I think I look like Halle Berry all the time and in photo's I seem to appear as petunia pig instead. I just dont get it. :daze:

Libby of course you and your mom can come sit next to me whilst I lounge in the sun.

Anyway babes summer is coming - its time to rock the casbah

Ciao
Shannon :wave:

[_wilow]

Wow Ru! That was my initial impression.... 4 weeks is not long for that kinda change. It makes me more motivated to do the BFL . Thanks for showing us the progress and keep up the good work! By the way, in the last 10 lbs I've lost, I have lost no inches off my waist... so go figure. Lisa

[_wilow]

Hey girls,
I'm looking in victoria's secret for THE bikini and want some opinions on what colors look best on us fair skinned people. I am so white that it's scary. Any ideas? Thanks Lisa

[KarenB]

WOW!!!!

*I* sure see a difference! It's true--we all tend to be our own worst critics (well, not Shannon... :D ). Saturday's the end of my 4th week, but TOM is drawing *very* close now (my temper is at the shortest it's been since--well, since my last TOM :D ) so I think I'll delay any results until that's passed and the fluid retention is gone.

Okay, so it's Shannon and Libby and me and Libby's mom at the poolside in Vegas, snapping up men like boiled shrimp in drawn butter..... how's that for a mental image, eh? :lol:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Hello Girls, now I have literally been bouncing around 147 for two months now, I was even up to 147.5 for a week. Last night while I lay sleeping, I had a visiter, the whoosh fairy came to me. I weighed myself this morning and got on and off the scales three times, I had forgot what it felt like, 2 pounds whoosh. Insert happy dance here. What have I done differently in the last week, I started walking (with a small run in the middle, and I mean small) and I upped my fat intake big time.

Words to Shannon - There is one wonderful thing that your mother did do, she had you. It sounds like the apple fell far from the tree though (like in a different state), and I'm glad of that, it has been a pleasure to get to know you and I look forward to your posts with great anticipation. Thank God you can choose your friends because you can't choose your relatives. I choose you.

Well girls I have to go and change those stat's, yes me, the one who has not been able to change them down in a long time. I can hardly believe it, that probably explains me getting off and on the scales three times this morning.

[Jo-Ann 2]

I lose two pounds and no one wants to say, she did it, after that big honken stall that lasted for weeks and weeks.
Am I the only one still here? I know you are out there somewhere, please come on back I miss my girlfriends.
Jo-Ann :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

pssst............. I think they have all been out shopping for a new bikini all weekend!!

Hey GIRL.......... CONGRATULATIONS!! WTG!! :cheer:

Libby

[Tama]

Hey Jo-ann! I am so proud of you! If only you could just bottle that feeling when you stepped on that scale and sell it, huh? So, tell me, what are you going to do to reward yourself? Shopping, maybe? Do tell!!

Big hugs and congrats!!
Tama

[KarenB]

That's FANTASTIC!!!

And yeah, I know what you mean about getting on and off the Plant Stand three or more times to check that number. (That's why mine's a Plant Stand now. :D )

I have a little news of my own to share, too.

I'M WEARING A SIZE 12!!!!!

For someone who was an 18/20 when she began LCing just over a year ago, that's no small potatoes (so to speak). I *never* imagined I'd be wearing that number. NEVER.

But by jingo, if you look at the tag in these Riders, there it is. 12.

YAY ME! :cheer:

[goingfor60]

I have been down with allergies lately and clarinex is not working.

I am so proud of you Jo-ann and Karen thats just so awesome. :yay:

I patiently wait for my dear dear bikini's to arrive - I could have driven the 30 minute distance from my house to pick them up but nooo internet orders dont have local pickup access. How annoying on 4/23 if those suits arent here there will be a rath like they've never seen one.

Hows the exercise I'm chugging along gasping, sneezing and blowing snot everywhere. I will not quit I wont I tell you.

To my deep surprise my 1 year anniversary is coming up May 1 or 2 I forget exactly which but who knew I could LC for a year. Hey I guess this really is a lifestyle change. A bikini I knew I wouldnt be one of the lucky ones to have the figure to pull it off. Now I am on the path and I dont care if it takes me 2 years to get there, I am going to do it.

Later babes,

Shannon

[KarenB]

That one-year mark is quite the milestone! Good for you, girl!

I know when I reached 4/1 I looked at all I've accomplished in the past year regarding my lifestyle, and I was nothing short of impressed with my own abilities. I never dreamed of doing some of the things I now take for granted, like daily workouts. I was an avowed couch potato! Yeah, there's a 10-speed in the shed, but it's in the shed.... at least right now. Come real summertime, I'll be out there riding it! (Now that I won't feel like everyone's looking at me because they're waiting for the tires to give out, or the frame to buckle under my bulk!)

I bet your bikinis will arrive on time, hon. That's always how it works--orders come at the 11th hour. :)

And when we're in Vegas, lounging by the pool and being swarmed by gorgeous men, you won't be thinking about how long it took those suits to arrive, will you? :D

[slimchance]

Hey babes!! :wave:

Congrats on the great success. Look out beaches, here we come!! :D

KC

[rhubarb]

Hi, babes

Thanks for all that great feedback on my progress shots from last week, girls – it’s nice to know that some of you saw the difference while I was busy picking out all my flaws! Yes, we can be hard on ourselves -- at least I know I can. Anyway, I’ve managed to get out of the weighing habit. I waited until I’d seen a 1 pound loss (well, reduction of the number on the scale, anyway) two days in a row, and just stopped right then. Quit while I’m ahead, so to speak.

BFL-wise, week five went so badly (two missed workouts, and one really bad 20MAS) I decided just to do it over again! It’s really liberating to be able to say to myself that I can just start over.

Jo-Ann – Way to go on the 2 pounds! Now that you’re confident your stall is over, why not stop weighing yourself for a while? You’ll feel great about your loss much longer – trust me!

Karen, congrats on your new jeans! And Happy LC Anniversary to you and to Shannon, too. That really is quite an accomplishment.

-- Rhu

[liddle]

Hey Shannon,
Sorry to hear those allergies are kicking your butt too! It is going on 9 mos. since I started LCing. It is so weird. This has become a way of life. Even when I cheat, I know it's wrong, and I have to get back on the LC wagon. I don't think I really believed in the beginning that this wasn't a diet. People start this and stop it every day. What made me think I would be able to stick with it? It's really like an addiction. If I don't do it, I feel sick, bloated, tired, cranky, have a sluggish brain, LC is my drug!

Later,
Heather

[slimchance]

Hey all! :wave:

Aside from the odd indulgence (which I probably should be saving for the maintenance stage, but oh well... :) ) this is completely becoming a new WOL for me. Isn't it funny how before we could be so afraid of fat, and now the mindset has done a complete 180 and we're concerned about carbs? It was a little bit of mind over matter at first. I know that when I first read the book I was horrified at the thought of eating fried eggs and bacon, creamy salad dressings and other high fat foods. I kept thinking to myself--when is Dr. A going to come out with his new book "Dr. Atkins New Heart Attack Revolution." :p It's amazing how little I really knew about my own body processes.

Today is weigh in day for me. I've lost inches, but no weight since March 19th. Inches are just as good for me, but I would like to see the scale move a little bit today. I will keep you all posted... :)

I was discussing my new WOL and exercise with a friend of mine and she seems very interested. I told her that I would lend her my book, so she could check things out for herself. It would be nice to have another friend to motivate and be motivated by.

I feel so bad for those who don't read the literature and then come here and you can tell that they are just using this WOE as a quick fix. I've dieted before and if I knew then what I know now I wouldn't be in this situation...sigh... :( Life is a learning curve, I guess, and it is definitely motivation to change my ways permanently. I hope to be in the same mindset a year from now...that is a great milestone....way to go girls!!! :cheer:

Well, it's off to get psyched up for that weigh in...wish me luck!!!

KC :daze:

[Natrushka]

Originally posted by rhubarb
I just don’t see the difference. Well, you can judge for yourself: Here are some progress shots, before and during (http://photos.yahoo.com/bc/mypix101/vwp?.dir=/BFL+Week+Four&.src=ph&.dnm=BFL+Week+Four.jpg&.view=t&.done=http%3a//photos.yahoo.com/bc/mypix101/lst%3f%26.dir=/BFL%2bWeek%2bFour%26.src=ph%26.view=t)

Barb, I see the difference - it is quite noticeable. It's likely that you are not able to see it because of how you see yourself - a common problem for women (and men) losing weight. Honestly, there's a big difference - all over you look smaller, it is most noticeable through the upper body. Your food (in the other thread) looks good and the measurements do not lie. Keep it up :thup:

Nat

[Jkrohn]

Barb you look fabulous! Thatnks for posting and congrats on the inches. That is really an accomplishment.

Sunshine you look mahvelous dahling! Great pics wish I went to acopulco too!

Karen & joanne congrats on the losses too.

Oh ladies I'm sure I'm forgetting 1/2 of the successes. See i've been in the mountains in Idaho for 10 days on vacation then playing a nasty game of catch-up at work. Have been off the thread for 2 weeks so lots to catch up on.

Vegas? I'm in I think. Well it's a $ thing. If we can get cheap rates and low airfare I'm there. (And I'm bringing my mom too) But if it's way to over priced I truly can't afford it after I just spent 10 days in Idaho.

Doing great. On week 3 of BFL. I took my weights with me on vaca didn't miss a workout. :) Down 1 pound after. Way cool. When was the lst time I have been down weight after a vacation???? Let me see................ NEVER!

OK bikini babes I drug out the old suits from my closet to bring with me on my trip. THEY WERE ALL TOO BIG!!!! I wore the smallest of the bunch (a tankini) and when I jumped in my bottoms fell off! Way embarrassing but good at the same time. Guess this really means I need a new suit. YIPPPEEE!

To catch up on the 3 things I like about myself. (Good idea makes us think positively)

#1. my shape. I've always been curvy. Small waist thicker thighs (not that I necesarily like those) and a bust., Ya know the typical hourglass just one that can hold a few years of sand instead of a few hours. HA!

#2. my eyes. my husband says they sparkle.

#3. hmmmmm not quite sure. but I think I would have to go with my skin. Now that I'm drinking like a fish and eating right my skin has never been softer, smoother, or more glowing.

Well ladies good to be back but the rat race still calls. Cach up with you more tomorrow.

Messy

[Libbyfcr]

I am having such a fantastic day that I can hardly believe it. Woke up today 1.5 pounds lighter than yesterday. Good things come when you aren't expecting it....... cause it only got better........
....So here I am...... estatic over this neat new loss, I go to get dressed. Our hot weather took a turn for the worse this morning and I had to wear pants for the first time in months. I go rootin' around in my closet where all my jeans are hanging up..... mostly in order from "fat" pants to "skinny" jeans. I pull out a pair from the fat end...... put them on, pull them up...zip em up with no problem..... HEY! they fit pretty good. Little snug across my stomach and my butt... but comfortable. Can't remember the last time I wore these jeans.... shoot, can't even remember these jeans.

I am so happy........ oh hey, I don't even know what size they are....... I check em....

................... they are an 8.

Libby :wave:

[slimchance]

Way to go libby!!! :D

Shake, shake, shake that size 8 booty!!


:wiggle: :wiggle: :wiggle:

Keep it up!!!

KC :roll:

[Tama]

Go Libby, Go Libby!! Woooo!! You need to go shopping for a size 8 bikini now!!

Way to go!
Tama

[KarenB]

I had one of those moments this afternoon where you see yourself in a mirror and say "WOW! Who's that skinny woman?? And how did she get in my clothes?" :lol:

Roomie and I took the day off work and went to the first matinee of "The Scorpion King" (GREAT fun, if you like action flicks with high body counts and hunky men with long hair and bare chests :D ), and as I was leaving the ladies' room I got a glimpse of myself in a full-length mirror. It was all I could do not to give a little squeal--I LOOK GREAT!

And I ain't done yet, not by a long shot.

Here's to THINNER BODIES, ladies!!! WHOOHOO!!!

::grabs Libby in her size 8s and does a little happyhappyjoyjoy dance just because::

[rhubarb]

Alright Libby! Aren't you the cool one ... slipping on a pair of jeans and just checking the size as an afterthought! And then to find they're a size 8? Wow ... you go, girl!

[goingfor60]

Well I have good Las Vegas news - I am attempting to round up a bunch of my favorite people from all across the country. People that I have trained that I really think are fun/funny people and so far I think I have 3 more people going so thats a total so far of 9 including messy and her mom. I want that great pricing so now if the babes are lacking in numbers lets bring some friends along.

Welcome back messy thats absolutely great that you lost whilst on vacation. Keep up the great work and please no more saggy bathing suit bottoms - remember as bikini babes we definitely need new suits for our new bods ;)

Libby doesnt a size 8 feel good! That was a milestone for me and I remember the day it happened vividly. Enjoy it and I am certain we will be hearing about a 6 in no time.

This morning I was doing my morning nude once over after the gym and noticed that I am starting to see some definition in my obliques from my current workout. I cant remember the last time I saw any curves especially in the stomach area. There's something to this working out stuff.

Keep it up babes summer is coming and we will be ready!

Shannon

[Libbyfcr]

Thank you all for the nice comments and compliments. I sure do appreciate it.

If the truth be known, I am sure my size 8s that I wore yesterday are probably the only 8s I can put on. 10s are where I am at most comfortably and yesterdays jeans are probably a little looser than the average 8.

Oh well.... I don't care. I did wear an eight for a day!

I also have a lot of work to do before ANYONE sees me in a bikini!

I love my one piece in public, thanks!!

:wave: Libby (happy in her 10s today.....for a little while longer)

[goingfor60]

I have been fighting my body for who know's how many weeks and finally I have lost 1.5 pounds. My body found its comfortable weight and regardless of what I did it just didnt want to budge.

Well after decreasing my food intake, adding in 2 additional workout classes I have finally gotten some movement. Its little movement but at this point I'll take anything. Now if I could just get rid of this flabby belly I know there are abs of steel underneath.

I have a new abs exercise in case anyone is interested, it helps with the lower pouch that I seem to carry.

Ab/splits
On your back arms above your head, raise your legs straight in the air and then spread them wide apart. As you spread them apart bring your arms forward over your head and crunch up in between your legs with your arms coming all the way in front of you. I did 3 sets of 8 with my regular sets and from this one thought I was gonna die! Try it...

See ya
Shannon

[Tama]

Way to go Shannon!! You give the rest of us girls who have "stalled out" some hope!

Keep losin' y'all,
Tama

[goingfor60]

My name is Shannon and I am the owner of 2 count them again 2 Bikini's! :cheer:

They came in the mail saturday and I've been wearing them around the house to ensure I really like them. I look like a fat girl in a thin girls suit but that wont last for long. I get motivated very easily but this one... boy oh boy was that an eye opener. Any fantasies I might of had about looking like halle berry are now very over.

With that blow to the ego me and my red suit or black suit will be going to the pool this weekend for some serious laps. Now Tama, Karen and myself have suits who's next?

See ya
Shannon :wave:

[Tama]

Okay, I know this isn't in the actual "bikini" area, but I have always had a problem with a drooping "underchin" area, even at my lowest weight. Does anyone know any exercises to help that skin firm up a bit??

Tama

[_wilow]

Hey ladies,
Congrats to you on the size 8's Libby. You know the honest truth is that I don't remember EVER being in a size 8. I did try a pair of jeans on at the store the other day and they were a size 8 but looked big. They fit(snugly) but I was impressed non the less! THen I had a big setback. A client brought me some chocolate candy and it went down hill from there. It amazes me how I am such an addict. I have gain alost 10 pounds in a few weeks. I am disgusted. Then I get back on the diet again and another client brings me this bottle of sweet liquer from their cruise. So I try a little in the evenings. Well I think the combo of that and the low carb diet creates a good combo for significant weight gain ( if anyone needs help in that area? :)
Anyway, I've learned my lesson... so if anyone hears me say, "oh I'm just taking the day off from the diet," please hit me over the head...

Tama, I found some exercises for double chin on the internet, not sure what the sites are now, just type in double chin exercises. Also, I spoke with a cosmetic surgeon about mine and he said that most people are not happy with the results from that surgery.
Well, congrats Shannon on your 2 new suits and hope you enjoy them. I've rambled enough. Lisa

[Libbyfcr]

Thanks Willow. :) Today I threw away the last 14s that I have been wearing forever. They are jean cutoffs that I do yard work in. Finally decided that they just didn't work anymore and they have been sitting here for weeks. I can't say I am disapointed in getting rid of THEM!

I am wearing all my 10s now. I have the pair of 8 jeans and a pair of 8 shorts that I can also wear. I am really amazed to be wearing them this soon. It seems like the last time I was in an 8 I was probably 10 pounds lighter than I am right now. I think a low carb life made me loose more fat than muscle and I can really see a difference in the fit of my clothes.

Shannon.... I am glad that you got your suits!! You GO girl!!

Thank you all for the support. It really helps me work harder to reach my goals.

Later babes......
Libby

[Tama]

WTG on the suits, Shannon! Do we get any pix? I want to see! I would have posted pix of mine, but I have no access to a digital camera.

Libby, I must say that I am proud of you for chucking the big jeans. It's like throwing out your safety net when you throw out your fat clothes. It's harder than you think, but it's a really cool feeling to think,"I will never need these again!!"

Go girls!!
Tama

[Libbyfcr]

Thanks Tama.... I appreciate it. You are right on about it being a safety net.

I am also thinking that when I get into a weight range that I am happy with and want to stay at forever that maybe just maybe it is time to get rid of the skinny clothes that I KNOW I will never wear again.......you know...... the ones from your High School years? LOL

I think it is time to move on with my life and not hang onto dreams and illusions about being THAT thin again. I want to be healthy and comfortable at my goal weight, not wishing I was "just a little thinner" so I can wear THOSE clothes. Know what I mean?

I had another success today.... well...actually two of them and they are both important to me. I took the kids to Applebee's for DESERT for having such excellent report cards. Middle of the afternoon, I was NOT hungry. I didn't have even a WHIFF of those fab, wonderful deserts. I was so pleased with myself.... and ya wana know why? Because I didn't even want any!

I have also got a new job!!! Remember back when ya'll were talking about what field you work in...... well....... sure enough....... meeeee tooo...... the medical field! Go figure!

Must run...... steaks are cookin'
Thanks for letting me ramble......
:wave: Libby

[Jo-Ann 2]

Wow, talk about words of wisdom, thank you. I've been off the wagon and having a hard time getting back on. I use to be thin and I me thin when I was in high school, 118 on a 5 foot 5 frame. I was even dieting at that weight, now I know that when I'm below 128 I'm sick, I know that it is impossible for me to maintain 134, so why did I pick this number for my final goal. Well, I look skinny to me at that weight. Why is skinny so important to me? Does it make me more worthy, does it make me more in control, I'm sure that there are many reasons.
Libby your so right, it is healthy I should be aiming at. I will never be that "skinny" again, and with some work I will get beyond that idea that the number on the scale represents who I am. I am going back on the wagon, not to loss weight but to gain health. So you won't be hearing about pounds any more from me, you will be hearing how good I feel, what new things I've learned and what colour my bathing suit is, I am not a number but I am a person. Here's to the person in all of us that is finding her way out into the light.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

All righty... ((setting up beach chairs)).... Where is everyone?...... ((setting up beach umbrellas))....... I have bottled water, what more do you need?.....((getting out sunscreen))...........music? ((getting out Pink Floyd CDs))...... Well, my party and I like Floyd. Bring some of your own music if ya wana.

((pulling huge towels from trunk))....... The water is getting warmer!!......((putting cooler in shade of beach chair))....... No kids invited!!......... ((shutting off cell phone))....... Ya have the whole day to sit here and relax and enjoy the new you. I don't care if you are in a bikini..... YOU ARE INVITED!!

Libby, ((being brave in her modest two piece))

[KarenB]

WE ARE FREE WOMEN!!! (sorry, apologies to Orwell for stealing his concept... )

Good for you JoAnn!! Isn't it remarkably freeing to shake off that "number stigma"? Concentrating on how one feels and looks, rather than that ridiculous three-digit readout (which is usually incorrect anyway), makes SUCH a difference in how one views the entire world!

I wore one of my size 12 suits (the floral maillot) last week when Kelley's dad was here to celebrate with her. We took her to one of the local hotels to swim in their pool. Never mind that the pool was blood-warm (literally, it was uncomfortable!), the look on *his* face when I shed the coverup was worth every penny we laid out for the room. Over and over he kept telling me how great I look and how much I've changed overall--not just my looks but all of me, my personality, my self-confidence, everything.

He truly *doesn't* know me any longer.

::eyeing Libby in that modest two-piece, and eyeing the cooler--which undoubtedly has plenty of ice cubes in it, to keep all that water nice and cold for us..... and having eeeeeeeeeeevil, wicked thoughts hee hee HEE:: :devil:

[goingfor60]

I decided that I needed to take a swimming lesson to make my swimming abilities better.

I had on my one piece triathlon skinsuit and slid into the water. It was heavenly and then this psychotic natzi bitchy coach starts barking orders (buzzkill) and has me swimming 18 laps in a 25yd pool. Now in real terms I wasnt so polite when she kept asking how I was in between my gasps for air and pleas to let us stop.

I dont know what it was I should have and could have worn a bathing suit but I just didnt feel comfortable. Hmm I'll have to ponder the reasoning behind that one. But anyway I survived 1hr out of the 1.5hrs the class lasted.

I'll be back in the pool tomorrow and I must keep my mind on I think I can!

See ya
Shannon

[Jo-Ann 2]

The ground is wet, but there are big fluffy snow flakes coming down. Ok who ever has my spring I want it back and if you can't find I'll take a large serving of summer please. The marina is in at the yacht club and the boats will start going in soon. I can't wait to be out on the water again.
Shannon what kinda of class are you taking? Sounds like the lady has some problems of her own, you should tell her that she'ld feel alot better if she went lc.
Thanks Libby for the words of encouragement for my new stand. Congradulations on you're suit and you're changes. You sound like you're getting it all together kid.
Slimchance, so schools over until summer classes start, what are you taking, I'm sure you've told me, but your going to have to tell me again kid.
So who wants some snow?
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Jkrohn]

Sorry Jo Ann you're going to have to keep your snow cuz I don't want it!! We got 24 inches last week and it's now finally gone again the sun is shining and I didn't even wear a coat to work. Sorry my dear no hard feelings I hope!

Sooooo how the heck is everyone??? I feel like an outsider again. Work has been running out of control. I spent all last week at our corporate headquarters. God I am glad to be home!!! Missed 2 workouts last week. :bash: first time in a month I've missed a workout. Oh well still maintaining my 36 pounds gone. Been sitting there for awhile now but I don't care. I haven't gained any back! I'm loosing inches I can tell. So that's all that matters. Yes ladies we can free ourselves!! This is what it's all about. Feeling great!! Looking better is just an added bonus. :) BIkini world here we come.

So Shannon what's up with Vegas? How much $ are we talking? I think this will be grrrrreat! My mom will melt! She has the fairest skin of anyone I know. She gets burnt through the car windows. We'll get here a big hat and plenty of sunscreen. :p

Better get back to the grind ladies. Just thought I would drop in and let you know I really am alive.

Take care!
Messy

[Libbyfcr]

Glad to see ya'll are doing well. No snow here..... thank heavens. But it has been quite cool for this time of the year, only about 85 for a high lately.

:wiggle:
Libby (who is hiding from that silly woman holding the ice cubes)

[agonycat]

The joy of living in Texas :D We do not get snow....at least not much. We may (if unlucky) get 3 days of ice/snow a year.

Rest of the time it's either sunny or rainy. Right now it is sunny as usual.

[Jkrohn]

So you don't get snow! Pooh! I get enough for you all! When it's 190 out there where you are don't come crying to me! :) It's raininy here now but suppose to change to ice/sleet/snow later. Oh what fun. :mad:

I'm down another pound today!!!! Woohoooo Happy dance :hyper: I saw the whoosh fairy fly by my screen yesterday I thought no way I didn't see that I couldn't have gotten a visit. BUT, sure enough the scale proved me wrong. I even jumped off and got back on a couple times to make sure. It's true 1 more pound gone. Yippeee

Hope you all are having as good a day as I am! Now off to change my stats.

Take care and Stay strong!

Messy

[agonycat]

Originally posted by Jkrohn
When it's 190 out there where you are don't come crying to me! :)

Messy

:lol: It doesn't get THAT hot here ;) Most I have seen it is 118. Hot enough to fry an egg on the pavement.
:D

[sunshine2]

Messy,

Congrats on another pound down, that is GRRRREEEAAAATTT!!!! Your determination is paying off - one pound at a time!

Well, thought I would check in with everyone, I just got back from Vegas, and I've been off my low carb pretty much. But jumped back on it this week, and determined to stay on it until summer comes. Staying off the low carb WOE is no way to get in a bikini. I was just side-tracked for awhile, but now now, back on track.

Bye all,
:wave:

[Jo-Ann 2]

Well today is the day that I go in to have the lumps removed from my cervix. I have eaten myself up to a new two month high and have felt like %$#^%$#^ (aka crap). Emotional eating ooooohhhhh yaaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!!! I'm sure some of you can related to that. I have the egg salad and the meat ready for my recovery, both from the hospital visit and the eating disaster. I could use a little encouragement Bikini Babes, I really do want to wear one.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[Jkrohn]

You are in our thoughts and prayers. It's good you are planning ahead. Already have meals prepared for afterwards thats a big step back in the right LC direction! Remember bikini months are not to far away and every little bit helps. Preparation is the key to success. I swear. The more prepared we are the less we are apt to eat whatever we can get our hands on. At least I know that's how I work. Either way my dear we are all rootin for ya!

I am totally with you on the emotional eating. NOT GOOD!!! Why do we do this again??? It makes us feel like crap, it makes us bloated, and 1/2 the time we are eating things we don't particularly like but their there. Smart really smart! But we all do it. Well at least I've done it too many times. But not anymore. That WOE will not get this bod into a bikini any faster. So no more!

Take it easy Jo Ann and make sure you jump back in soon and tell us how your doing. We'll keep you going we promise. Right bikini babes??

Take Care and Stay Strong

Messy

[Tama]

Hey Jo-ann! How did it go? I hope all went smoothly and you are now heaving a huge sigh of relief! Yikes, stuff like that makes me nervous. Let us know how you are feeling and how the woe is going! Very smart on your part to plan meals ahead of time. Very smart. Hope all is well!

Take care,
Tama

[liddle]

Jo- Ann,
I hope everything went well for you and want you to know that you're in my prayers. Things like that can be really scarey and I can understand why you were doing all that emotional eating. It takes alot of determination to turn things around and decide to get back on the LC wagon. I am very proud of you and know that you will be able to stick with it!

Take care of yourself,
Heather

[Libbyfcr]

JoAnn.... I wish you the very best and hope you are doing well. You have a lot of supporters here and we are all thinking of you.

I have had to do some shopping for my new job. It is "office casual". I own church dresses and jeans. (nobody cares what you wear when you work at home) That has been the extent of my wardrobe for a long time. I hate the thought of investing in clothes that won't fit in 15 more pounds and I will not wear something that is too little.

So........ I think I have had a little angel sitting on my shoulder, because I first went to Mervyn's and found some wonderful dress pants that fit beautifully.....on clearance for about $6. Who cares if I "shrink" out of them in a couple months?....... THEN... I went to JCP's and found TWO pairs of Dockers on clearance for $4.77 each. How about that? I was so excited. (obviously excited, I posted it here!) I have picked up some other things for a great price and now have a modest but acceptable amount of things to wear to work.

Next 15 pounds here I come.......
:wave: Libby

[Jo-Ann 2]

Well, it hurts to sit so I've just been laying and sitting on my side, I had forgotten how tender it could be down there. Good news though the doctor didn't find more than the two lumps he discovered during the pap smear. Now it's 4 weeks for the reports but I'm optomistic that they will be good.
Thank you all so much for your support and well wishes, somehow I wasn't expecting it, I should have know you girls would be so kind, thank you again. It's sunny here today and although there was a major deviation on the eating plan last night, the husband brought home take out, I am climbing back once again today. Learning, Learning, Learning - I feel so much better when I eat LC. I think I can, I know I can, I am.
Yours Truely Jo-Ann :wave:

[goingfor60]

Hey Ladies - I feel as if I have been so outta the loop of things. First of all Jo-Ann I am so very happy that you are alright. When something happens to you guys its like it happens to my friends that I hang out with on a daily basis. Even though many of you are far away and in some cases other countries. We are a strong bunch and support is what we are all about.

Well ladies I need some help... I dont know whats wrong with me. All week I ate poorly partially LC and then not. Some of the old sneak eating habits jumped into my daily routine. I bought 2 hostess fruit filled pies, had a happy meal at McDonalds, ate 3 krispy Kreme doughnuts, had pizza w/crust, Smirnoff Ice (alchohol), a slice of cake, a regular soda, potato chips and god knows what else.

I know I have gained weight because my cute newer size clothes are feeling tighter and I have no real ambition to even go to the gym. Maybe I need to put on my bikini's and yet I'm not sure that's enough to make me change, I have just been so busy at work and home that I dont know whether or not I am coming or going. I feel as if I have been living on borrowed time and that I am being a stand up gal but even I need some down time.

Even my yippie 1.5 pound loss didnt last longer than 3 days. Then I went right back to my stall weight of 169-171 and I am at a loss for what to do. I'm getting so discouraged that maybe this isnt working any longer and that I should try something else. I have read all of the stuff on stalls but geez I cant stay this way much longer..

On a lighter note... I went to a Naughty girl party last night. :eek: and all I have to say is "good oooggly wooogly" Even I was embarrassed at some of the stuff that was there. Its kinda like a tupperware party but they are selling lingerie and sex toys instead of tupperware. And yeah I was a NAUGHTY GIRL! I am going to be a happy girl when my stuff arrives. Ooops I meant my boyfriend and I are going to be happy when my stuff arrives. Ok the truth, I'm going to be a very happy girl when my stuff arrives. Why do they serve alcohol at these things, it made my credit card jump out of my wallet and say yes ma'am I'd like another. Are we suppose to be thinking LC when we purchase everything? I dont recall asking if they had any body gels/paints made with Splenda :daze: :D Hmm although I do seem to recall asking if my purchase came with batteries. :eek: Where are my priorities?

Anyway... Have a great weekend.

Shannon :wave:

[Libbyfcr]

Shannon....

What works best for me is planning ahead. Make a list. Write down your LC favorites. STOCK UP. Plan on what you are going to have for a couple of days. Plan for snacks. Plan for everything.

When I eat something that causes me nasty cravings I absolutely have to fill my fridge full of LC things. I want to snack a lot after eating something that causes cravings so I figure I had better have good LC snacks.

It usually takes me a whole day and then some to come down off the Carb Craving bug.

So,..... plan ahead, drink lots of water.....and get away from your kitchen.

Libby :wave:

[liddle]

WOAH!!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :eek: OH MY, You totally crack me up Shannon! We don't have those kinds of parties in North Carolina. Wish we did, it sounds like a blast! Oh and the alcohol, it's so you loose your inhibitions and have the courage to buy the items that require batteries. :eek: I have no doubt that once those items come in you will be on the LC wagon. Who wants to wear those kinds of things and play those kinds of games when your all bloated and feeling fat. I know that I have ALOT more fun when I'm a good LC girl, that allows me to be bad girl in the bedroom. :D Hey, bet you have a digital camera ;) .

See Tama.

Later,
Heather

[liddle]

I had to make cup cakes for my daughter's B-day party last night.
Damn, why do my cupcakes have to smell so darn good? Not to toot my own horn but I do make the best choc. cup cakes and they smell SOOOOOOOOO GOOD! But, I did it. I beat the demons.
:devil: I think I may have eaten a handful or two too many of almonds, but if that is the worst thing I do, so be it. I DIDN"T EAT THE CHOC. CANDY and I DIDN"T EAT THE CHOC. CUP CAKES!!!YEAH ME!!!!!!! Chalk another one up to pure will power. That was the only thing that saved me. I was just not ready to give in. I really want to reach goal. I guess I'm still holding on to the hope that nothing will taste as good as hitting goal will. Oh did I mention I have two boxes of GODVIA chocolates sitting here. I went to buy a pound box for my Mom for Mother's day and I got 1/2 lb. box FREE! So that 1/2 lb. box is totally up for grabs and I didn't eat that either. Not to say I didn't think about it. But I stuck to my guns. Now, all I have to do is get rid of all these cup cakes!

BIKINI HERE I COME!!!!!!!

Later,
Heather

[Libbyfcr]

So that 1/2 lb. box is totally up for grabs

An act of kindness could be sharing your extra chocolates with an elderly neighbor lady? I think we all know somone who is alone and would appreciate the visit and company.

Just a thought. :)
Libby

[goingfor60]

Good going heather on passing up those cupcakes and candy!

Today because I was still feeling kinda blah I went out to Ross -a store that I hate because they have too much stuff and I dont need that many options. Well anyway they were having a swim suit sale. I purchased 2 swim suits they are 1 piece suits for swimming right now. I felt like a big o'l sea cow (manatee) and yet I bought them anyway. Looking in the mirror was like looking at the old me justifying why I should buy them.

Well 2 suits and a cute little cotton summer dress for $6.99 you just cant pass that up. I spent $45.00 so I was totally pleased with that little purchase. I came home and went to the sacred bikini drawer and put them on. As soon as I did the barry white music they play on Ally McBeal came on in my head you know "Oh yeah baby, you are the one" and I was sexy all over again. So that was a lift to the spirits.

Thanks for the advice Libby - I do have my food planned out for the week and last week the car had a mind of its own when it drove itself to Krispy Kreme and thought it was nothing but a good idea. :daze:

See ya ladies.

Shannon :wave:

[_wilow]

Shannon, you are a woman I can relate to. You are so funny. YOu know, sometimes it takes getting off the wagon to undo a stall, at least that's so for me. So, get back on there and try again and I bet it comes off easier. Besides, you'll be getting more exercise once your "stuff" arrives LMAO Lisa

[Libbyfcr]

Shoot the car.

[rhubarb]

Hi, girls

Haven’t checked in for a while – I’ve been sulking and off the wagon. Why? I went shopping for something to wear to my son’s Bar Mitzvah. Sure, my body has changed somewhat, but not enough to make shopping any easier. The 14s are too small, the 18s are too big. The 16s are too big on top and too small on the bottom. It’s so depressing that all my hard work has not made this process any easier. So of course, I sulked and just gave up -- on everything; LC and shopping.

I’m easing back into it, though -- I’m back to eating LC, trying to get my water in, and by Monday, I should be ready to re-start BFL. Life is stressful right now, and I think if I jump back in, I’ll just end up right off the wagon again. My motivation is very low now though. And I still have nothing to wear to the Bar Mitzvah!

Jo-ann, glad everything went well with your procedure, and hope by now you’re feeling less achy. You must be relived at the outcome, too. You should be very satisfied with yourself for essentially staying LC considering all the stress and upheaval. Good planning! I’m going to take a page out of your book.

Shannon, I definitely empathize with you. I thought I was really in a good exercise routine, but suddenly I have no ambition for it. Maybe you should get back into it slowly. My plan is that by Thursday, I'll be back in the Fitday habit. By Friday, I'll have my water consumption back up. Monday, it’s BFL. If you need any motivation, look back over some of the stuff you’ve written here. Your posts alone are probably responsible most of the aching obliques on this board!

Heather – I’ll bet they DO have those kinds of parties in North Carolina. If they have ‘em here in “little Rhody” then you’ve got ‘em too. If not, there’s always the internet! (just the names they give some of those toys are enough to cause hysterical fits of giggling, though.) And I agree: LC + lots of water + regular exercise = bedroom bliss! (I think the BF would agree, too!) (And I think I just gave myself another good reason to get back to my healthier habits!)

Well, ladies, just writing this has helped me feel more in the swing of things. But it’s time to make tonight’s grocery list. Any suggestions for some exotic new foods I should try to help me with my “ease back to the wagon” plan? Keep in mind I’m a vegetarian.

Best --
Rhu

[Libbyfcr]

I think many of us have love/hate relationships with shopping for clothes. I know I do.

There is nothing like feeling great, looking good, and trying on a sweater that has sleaves so tight that you wonder what twig they designed it around...... ugh....... it certainly bursts my bubble.

And.... on the other hand...... isn't it wonderful to find some beautiful thing on clearance for cheap and in a size smaller than you are currently wearing...... and when you try it on IT FITS and it LOOKS good!

You are not alone Rhu.... I think you are just like the rest of us!!
Hang in there.... you can do this.

Libby :wave:

[goingfor60]

When things just dont go the right way - I use to say oh well and eat something to comfort me. Well since that was nothing but a down hill trend I thought ok what would make me feel better than eating something?

My outlet for my frustrations has come in the form of classes. I take classes to ease my mind and it helps me deal with the stresses of my life. Be it food, clothes, work, relationship and what not. Of course this is just me and I happen to be in a cake decorating class isnt that a hoot considering I cant eat any of it. But its the type of therapy I need to help me stay on track with things.

As far as food goes, I have been buying meat in bulk and frozen veggies so that way I have a variety of foods that I can just spice up any way I like. Today it was curried stewed beef with veggies, and it was a total of 5 grams of carbs.


On a somber note its looking like the vegas trip may be cancelled. Unfortunately everyone thinks its a great and fun idea until it comes to spending any money to go. Whats with that? If anyone has a good idea for saving the trip I would love to hear it.

Anyway...

See ya
Shannon

[Jkrohn]

Shannon,

I was afraid of that!! But, I totally understand! $$ is terribly tight for me and from what I hear around here it's the same for everyone else too. That sucks. But Vegas truly what be too freaking HOT in August for a little ND girl like me. Hell it's the 2nd week in May and we had snow yesterday! :thdown: Maybe this winter when it's darn cold we will all be in a better place to plan a hot trip to the beach??? I know my bod could use the extra time to get into that hot little 2 piece. Who knows.....

On another note.... How is everyone doing?? I feel like we have lost our touch. We were so close there for awile we knew what everyone was up to and how they were doing and who needed a boost or a cheer. Seems like life is spinning out of control for all of us. Hope all is well ladies. That bikini weather is getting closer everyday.... well at least I hope so. :confused: Me personally am doing great. Measured this morning for my 6 weeks into BFL and was quite impressed. But, forgot the #'s at home so will have to report my results Monday. I am definately in this for the 12 weeks..... Then on to the next 12 weeks. and the next and the next and .... well you get the picture. I into my 18 jeans again. :D Was in a tight tight OMG tight 20's before BFL. Ya know need to lay on the bed to zip them up and breathing is not an option. No more them there 20's are baggy! yippee happy dance.

Was snooping through the recipies on this board the other day. Goodness there is some yummy stuff. Kept me going when I was in a bad food rut.

Well better get back to work.

Hope everyone is doing great and on this LC Wagon we call life.

Take Care
Messy

[Libbyfcr]

Allrighty then..... don't come to Las Vegas.........sniff sniff....
It is 85+ and sunny today. Beautiful weather. HA! Glad I am not in North Dakota. neener neener.

I went to my 5 year old's Tea Party for Mothers Day at school. We had big giant muffins and cookies galore. Punch and sugary drinks. I decided that I was just going to enjoy it in moderation. (What can you do when your child wants you to enjoy what she dishes up and brings to you?) I had a taste of everything and drank my water. In all I suppose I had the equivalent of 3 medium sized cookies. Not bad in my book. In my past life I would have started on the muffins and had a WHOLE bunch of cookies to top it off. Never mind the sugary drinks. After all was said and done we came home and I ate lunch right away. Not a typical lunch... but I had filling low carb stuff to try to ward off any cravings before they attacked me. Now I am stuffed and I feel pretty good about only having had three cookies.

Life is easy and then we make it hard.
:wave: Libby